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Jennifer
VIP July 2017

Do you get a gift for your usher?

Jennifer, on July 26, 2017 at 7:57 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7
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Our usher is our pastor's son. He will be at the rehearsal dinner, which is when we are giving out thank you gifts. Should he get one? What would you get him? We honestly don't know him very well. His parents volunteered him to be the usher when they found out we didn't have one.

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Latest activity by OHP, on July 26, 2017 at 9:13 PM
  • Jennifer
    VIP July 2017
    Jennifer ·
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    Anyone?

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  • Jennifer
    Devoted March 2017
    Jennifer ·
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    Our usher was a close friend of ours and hung out with the guys all day. For part of our groomsmen gifts, we had custom ties and pocket squares made so we just had one set made for him, too.

    Not sure this really helps in your situation, though. Sorry.

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  • fallinthegarden
    Master October 2017
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    We are, but our ushers/readers are our brothers.

    Maybe ask your pastor if there's something small he would like?

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  • Anna
    Super November 2017
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    Yeah, we will be getting them something, but not the same as the groomsmen. I'm still wondering what but, something.. lol.

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  • Jennifer
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    The groomsmen are in their 20's and our usher is 9 (I think) so getting him the same gift would not be appropriate.

    How about a visa gift card? How much would be appropriate (he is wearing dress pants, a white button down shirt and a bow tie, not anything expensive).

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  • Ellsy62
    Master October 2017
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    We got them the same thing we got the groomsmen. He wanted them as groomsmen but we couldnt add anymore.

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  • FutureMrsKosloske
    Super July 2017
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    Yes we got our usher a gift. Ushers are still a part of the wedding party.

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