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Paige
Devoted February 2018

What does cocktail hour include?

Paige, on July 26, 2017 at 4:57 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

Is cocktail hour just drinks and snacks before the dinner? Or is it something more than that? And what is the etiquette? Thanks!

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Latest activity by Paige, on July 26, 2017 at 6:21 PM
  • Kerry
    Expert June 2017
    Kerry ·
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    Yes, drinks and nibbles. You can be present and enjoy it with your guests or this can be when you take your photos.

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  • K.M.
    Master September 2018
    K.M. ·
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    More than just "snacks" need to offered. The last wedding I went to the couple only provided pretzels and chips during cocktail hour and everyone was so drunk before dinner.

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  • N
    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    Please make sure your venue does NOT run out of hors d'oeuvres. I went to a wedding reception and we finally got to the food table. Waiter said there was no more food. Rude. I said in a loud voice, "I'll cross this place off my wedding list." He glared at me. At our reception I made it abundantly clear if any nibbles ran out, make more and toss it on the bill.

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  • mkebride
    Super September 2017
    mkebride ·
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    Agree with K.M. - this summer we went to a wedding that only had brownies and a candy bar out...we were super confused bc they put cocktail hour on their invites, and it seemed more dessert like. We just left and went up to our rooms and ate and drank there. Which also was bc they had a cash bar at their cocktail hour.

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  • ambrok
    Master October 2017
    ambrok ·
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    Does it matter how long your cocktail hour will last? Ours will be 30-45 minutes long before salads would be served. Would you serve lighter apps vs something like sliders then?!?

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  • Paige
    Devoted February 2018
    Paige ·
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    Awesome advice. And what if I have Mexican food for dinner. What are good ideas for pre-dinner food. Obviously not just chips and salsa

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    We used that time to get our pictures done. We had full open bar along with two signature cocktails and some passed appetizers as well as cheese and fruit platters.

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    @paige- what about mini empanadas or quesadillas? Maybe some sort of shrimp and cilantro bruschetta. There are tons of options.

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  • Paige
    Devoted February 2018
    Paige ·
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    @ErinWood brilliant! That is a great idea. My Fiance and I are not Hispanic. But we love the food. So I like those ideas a lot!

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