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Corsages and boutonnieres...
Stephanie, on April 11, 2018 at 6:25 PM

Hi! So as the wedding draws nearer, I am trying to find places to save some money. I know it is tradition to give corsages and boutonnieres to all the immediate family members, but due to the fact...

Patricia, May 10, 2018 14 420
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Labels on wedding invitations
Alvie, on May 10, 2018 at 6:12 PM

I have my envelopes already before I got my invites printed. Is it ok to use mailing labels instead? I am planning to use a matte clear address label for the guest address and then stamp the return...

Jen, May 10, 2018 7 230
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Friend booked my venue after me but pushed her wedding to before mine
Ruby, on May 6, 2018 at 4:06 PM

About 2 months after I booked my reception venue a friend of mine who just got engaged this past week booked my venue, & the exact same room that i booked & pushed her wedding up to be the end...

Jessica, May 10, 2018 43 3,241
Concetta
Bridesmaid Brunch
Concetta, on April 10, 2018 at 11:13 AM

Hey brides! I was thinking of going out for brunch with my bridesmaids to do a "proposal". The only thing is, I am not sure if I pay for everyone, or if its like everyone pays for themselves kind of...

Cassandra7, May 10, 2018 7 1,869
Dominique
Fiance doesnt want my sister at our wedding
Dominique, on May 9, 2018 at 4:53 PM

When discussing our gueat list, my fiance made a point that my baby sister not be invited. My sister is a bit of a drama queen and very selfish. When attending family affairs she is constantly on her...

Going to the chapel, May 9, 2018 17 2,997
Stephanie
How many people do this?
Stephanie, on May 8, 2018 at 6:32 PM

"This" being have a small wedding ceremony just close close family/friends and then do a reception thats much larger and with more people? This was just an idea the popped into my mind. Neither me nor...

Priscilla, May 9, 2018 30 679
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a change of photographers..
Jaci, on May 9, 2018 at 12:28 AM

So I got a photographer and thought she was good but me and my fiance were not very impressed.. I had to go through and edit our photos after our engagements.. I had a red dot on my chin in almost all...

SB, May 9, 2018 9 402
Paula
2 weeks before the wedding reminder
Paula, on May 8, 2018 at 1:41 PM

Thinking about sending a message to all the guests that hasn’t RSVP to make sure they won’t show up. Need some ideas of wording please !

Bianca, May 9, 2018 25 1,727
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Gratuity at an all inclusive venue
Janine, on May 7, 2018 at 7:57 PM

I am wondering what the etiquette is for gratuity at an all inclusive wedding venue is. I was given a quote for two different places one that included 20% and the other that included 30%. I am new to...

Janine, May 8, 2018 11 906
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Ceremony only wedding????
Alli, on May 8, 2018 at 9:00 AM

HELLO! So my fiance and I want to keep our day short, sweet, and small. Kind of like an elopement style wedding.... but slightly planned out. We are wanting to have 25 people (immediate family and a...

Stimpson18, May 8, 2018 12 7,302
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Gift for a 3rd marriage?
Liz, on March 13, 2018 at 8:28 PM

HI, I'm trying not the be stingy, cheap, or inconsiderate. but my mother is getting married for the 3rd time and I'm clueless on what gift or if i should get her a gift. She have a registry for just...

OrangeCrush, May 8, 2018 17 7,318
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How soon is too soon for Bridesmaid Proposal Boxes?
merebear 10.5.19, on May 7, 2018 at 12:54 PM

My proposal boxes are basically done! I have one bridesmaid with me in NYC, 1 in Nashville, 1 in Atlanta, and 1 in Chattanooga TN (we all know each other). Wedding is October 5th of 2019 so basically...

merebear 10.5.19, May 8, 2018 5 4,763 1
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Waiting for the wedding
Taylor , on May 7, 2018 at 3:25 PM

My fiancé and I decided to wait a while and get married June 2019 (we got engaged this February) I know I only have about 390 days now, but how do you stay positive when everyone around you is...

Shayna, May 8, 2018 36 2,118
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Do I invite my boss or not?
Klaudia, on July 7, 2017 at 12:20 AM

I have a quick question that's been eating me alive for some time now. My parents are super traditional and have fought with me several times about having to invite my bosses to the wedding. Just to...

CD, May 8, 2018 36 2,883
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Meeting with the priest...
Karen, on May 6, 2018 at 5:25 PM

Hello everyone. I recently became engaged and we’re in the recent stages of planning the wedding. I’m Catholic and my fiancé is Baptist. We’re having a Catholic wedding because he knows how much it...

Grace, May 8, 2018 17 1,242
Savanna
Elopement announcements - no registry
Savanna , on May 6, 2018 at 2:51 PM

We are getting married with only our parents and siblings in attendance. No registry, We have been together for 8 years and have everything we need. Nothing is mentioned on the announcements about...

Stephanie, May 7, 2018 9 935
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Etiquette Advice: Guest Breakups & Invitations
K, on May 7, 2018 at 11:39 AM

Hello lovely WW brides! This is my first post after an absolutely terrible experience on The Knot forums. I love how positive and welcoming everyone is here! I have a question about invitation...

K, May 7, 2018 12 1,106
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Bridal suite food
Lauren, on May 5, 2018 at 11:20 PM

I’d like to provide food for the bridal party while we are getting ready but am looking for suggestions. The girls will starting coming around 8-9 and we’ll leave for the church at 1:30. Would...

MrsD, May 7, 2018 8 1,190
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Married couple address wording question
AG, on May 6, 2018 at 1:29 AM

Writing up my labels now - if my very close friend is married and I'm not as close with her husband, is etiquette still Mr. John and Mrs. Jane Doe or would her name be first because we're closer?...

Casey, May 7, 2018 18 2,397
Lindsay
Morning After Brunch
Lindsay, on June 16, 2013 at 10:09 AM

FH and I are discussing the idea of a morning after brunch. All of his family is from out of state and my closest cousin lives in Alabama so I only get to see her once every few years. We are leaving...

Kelly, May 7, 2018 19 1,341
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