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Stamps from Canada to us on rsvp envelopes
Katie, on April 30, 2018 at 8:30 PM

Hello, I have a handful of guests, who live in Canada, I'm sending invites to for my wedding. I live in the US. I know to send Canadians letters, I need to put 3 US stamps on it. However, does anyone...

Daria, May 1, 2018 6 1,802
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My fiance sees no point in buying a wedding band
Almostmrsk, on April 30, 2018 at 1:54 PM

Generally my FH is really sweet but obsessed with saving money. We met when he was in grad school and he barely had enough money to eat or live. He would take me on dates with coupons or have beach...

Mrs. Fall Bride, May 1, 2018 35 4,236
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# of guests vs # people in wedding party
Kim, on March 1, 2016 at 7:28 PM

Is there some unwritten rule about how many people should be in your wedding party vs how many guests you have attending?

Melissa, Apr 30, 2018 32 1,888
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32 Weeks Pregnant at Wedding
laura , on April 30, 2018 at 2:00 PM

My SIL will be 32 weeks pregnant at my destination wedding in Europe. Everyone in attendance is from the United States. They told FH and I think was a planned pregnancy. We're covering their...

Miaaa, Apr 30, 2018 20 1,886
Monica
My daughter refuses to come!!!
Monica, on March 27, 2017 at 7:17 PM

So.. We had everything planned and my daughter was all set. Dress bought, first dance with her new step dad planned... Then we wouldnt let her BF move in with us so she moved out. She is 18 so her...

Miriam, Apr 30, 2018 29 2,748
PrettyinPink
Is Saving Your Bouquet a Big Deal?
PrettyinPink, on April 29, 2018 at 12:53 PM

It’s almost been a month since I got married. My mother took some of the bouquets home and I took mine and a corsage home. I’m stupid and with my crazy life forgot I put them in a box. I’m cleaning...

MrsV1027, Apr 30, 2018 28 2,546
Cynamon
i was disappointed in my cake, how do i tell my baker?
Cynamon, on April 27, 2018 at 11:56 PM

I’m quite disappointed in my cake as it looks nothing like what I showed my baker. It reminds me of a Pinterest fail article and I’m not quite sure how to gracefully tell my baker that I was...

Theresa, Apr 29, 2018 50 2,023
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Can 3pm be considered evening?
AG, on April 29, 2018 at 11:56 AM

Maybe i'm overthinking, but i'm working on invites right now. Our wedding will begin at three. I really want to write "three in the evening" vs "three in the afternoon" because I want to convey that...

Karma, Apr 29, 2018 18 6,747
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Invitation wording help! Afternoon vs evening??
Allyson, on April 29, 2018 at 4:26 AM

I originally had six o’clock in the evening on my reception card and then changed it to five o’clock in the evening. I was thinking about it later and started panicking that five o’clock is...

Robert's Wife, Apr 29, 2018 2 299
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People trying to add guests
Rachel Elizabeth, on April 25, 2018 at 10:40 PM

We keep getting guests who want to bring people we didnt explicitly invite (boyfriends, mother, children) how did you all deal with this? I don't want to be cheap but we are on a tight budget and I...

MrsMcK, Apr 28, 2018 16 1,898
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Last Minute Marriage
Suzanne, on April 26, 2018 at 12:28 AM

My best friend, told me last week that she's getting married to the guy shes known for 7 months. The problem? It's this coming Sunday, the 29th. She's not having a formal wedding. Just having a pastor...

Emily, Apr 28, 2018 19 628
Victorian Bride
Correct Wording of Guests' Names
Victorian Bride, on April 27, 2018 at 11:58 PM

Hi Ladies!!! You all are the greatest! ❤ Each of you are making my wedding planning go more smoothly than I had ever drempt. I'm working on our guest list. We are wording the envelopes formally. I'm...

Victorian Bride, Apr 28, 2018 4 4,014
MillerTime
Do the fathers match the groom/groomsmen?
MillerTime, on April 27, 2018 at 11:55 PM

We are definitely NOT telling our fathers what to wear but I'm wondering, traditionally, do they usually match the groom and groomsmen? My dad doesn't seem to think so bc he mentioned a different...

Jen, Apr 28, 2018 26 18,848
Rebecca
Overwhelmed by a generous wedding gift
Rebecca, on April 26, 2018 at 4:19 PM

My fiance's grandfather surprised us with an early wedding present, a check for $30,000. We are moving right after the wedding and this helps us so much. I've been writing cards and sending...

Bride2B, Apr 27, 2018 30 2,146
LauraM
Who's name goes on the return address label?
LauraM, on May 12, 2016 at 4:34 PM

I'm about to send out save the date magnets and wanted to put return address labels on the envelopes. Am I supposed to put mine and FH's name on them? Or just mine? We already live together.

Jen, Apr 27, 2018 13 6,042
theragirl
How to NOT invite alcoholic friend to wedding while all other friends going?????
theragirl, on September 22, 2011 at 10:49 PM

So I have this friend who has a drinking problem. My MOH who has been friends longer with this girl doesn't think it is a good idea to invite her to the wedding. My question is how do I not invite her...

Jeleebeenz, Apr 27, 2018 19 2,737
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Third times a charm?
Christine, on March 9, 2013 at 11:30 AM

Hello everyone. I have a question. I am 47 and looking at my third marriage next year. It will be his second and he is 58. For various reasons, this feels like my first real wedding. Same for him....

Flgiirl, Apr 26, 2018 22 10,950
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Disclosing bar options
Jacqueline, on April 25, 2018 at 7:22 PM

Hello and thanks for any replies. I’ve done a lot of reading on this topic in WW but can’t find what I’m really looking for. I am not looking for an opinion on whether or not to pay for all or part of...

starsinwaves, Apr 26, 2018 17 1,607
Future Mrs. St Hillaire
How do you tell someone they not in the wedding party
Future Mrs. St Hillaire, on March 9, 2011 at 12:47 PM

I was wondering how would you all tell someone they will not be a bridesmaid. I have this friend and even though we have been friends since we both was pregnant and that was back in 2005 she swears...

Missy B, Apr 26, 2018 20 1,933
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How much are your bridesmaids spending?
AG, on January 22, 2018 at 8:16 PM

Hi - so I'm pretty stressed out right now as I'm a bridesmaid for a friend's wedding in September, and I am also planning my wedding for the same month. As I'm sure most of you can understand,...

Mandy, Apr 26, 2018 31 2,253
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