Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Is there some unwritten rule about how many people should be in your wedding party vs how many guests you have attending?

My SIL will be 32 weeks pregnant at my destination wedding in Europe. Everyone in attendance is from the United States. They told FH and I think was a planned pregnancy. We're covering their...

So.. We had everything planned and my daughter was all set. Dress bought, first dance with her new step dad planned... Then we wouldnt let her BF move in with us so she moved out. She is 18 so her...

It’s almost been a month since I got married. My mother took some of the bouquets home and I took mine and a corsage home. I’m stupid and with my crazy life forgot I put them in a box. I’m cleaning...

Maybe i'm overthinking, but i'm working on invites right now. Our wedding will begin at three. I really want to write "three in the evening" vs "three in the afternoon" because I want to convey that...

I originally had six o’clock in the evening on my reception card and then changed it to five o’clock in the evening. I was thinking about it later and started panicking that five o’clock is...

We keep getting guests who want to bring people we didnt explicitly invite (boyfriends, mother, children) how did you all deal with this? I don't want to be cheap but we are on a tight budget and I...

My best friend, told me last week that she's getting married to the guy shes known for 7 months. The problem? It's this coming Sunday, the 29th. She's not having a formal wedding. Just having a pastor...

Hi Ladies!!! You all are the greatest! ❤ Each of you are making my wedding planning go more smoothly than I had ever drempt. I'm working on our guest list. We are wording the envelopes formally. I'm...

We are definitely NOT telling our fathers what to wear but I'm wondering, traditionally, do they usually match the groom and groomsmen? My dad doesn't seem to think so bc he mentioned a different...

My fiance's grandfather surprised us with an early wedding present, a check for $30,000. We are moving right after the wedding and this helps us so much. I've been writing cards and sending...

I'm about to send out save the date magnets and wanted to put return address labels on the envelopes. Am I supposed to put mine and FH's name on them? Or just mine? We already live together.

So I have this friend who has a drinking problem. My MOH who has been friends longer with this girl doesn't think it is a good idea to invite her to the wedding. My question is how do I not invite her...

Hello everyone. I have a question. I am 47 and looking at my third marriage next year. It will be his second and he is 58. For various reasons, this feels like my first real wedding. Same for him....

Hello and thanks for any replies. I’ve done a lot of reading on this topic in WW but can’t find what I’m really looking for. I am not looking for an opinion on whether or not to pay for all or part of...

I was wondering how would you all tell someone they will not be a bridesmaid. I have this friend and even though we have been friends since we both was pregnant and that was back in 2005 she swears...

Hi - so I'm pretty stressed out right now as I'm a bridesmaid for a friend's wedding in September, and I am also planning my wedding for the same month. As I'm sure most of you can understand,...

So I asked my sister in law if she would be a bridesmaid and she got offended because as a married lady I should have asked her to be a bridesmatron and not a bridesmaid. After several “I didn’t know...

Ladies! So I love my engagement ring and up untill last month I did not realize that the wedding band and engagement ring were 2 different things. Smh lol Which leads me to the post. I am completely...