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Heather
Wedding Announcements and Name Changes
Heather, on April 12, 2019 at 2:55 AM

Hey all, How do you navigate name changes in wedding announcements? I know the traditional wording is Name and Name announce their wedding, date, location, but I also know everyone who gets one will...

Heather, Apr 18, 2019 6 1,389
Future Mrs. K
When to ask for (unpaid) time off at a new job?
Future Mrs. K, on April 12, 2019 at 9:26 AM

I started a new job about a month and a half ago and have not mentioned yet that I am getting married (I know some people think that you should mention it during interviews, I don't agree with that so...

WilmaWelsh, Apr 18, 2019 38 2,285
Alexis
Hotel room block
Alexis, on April 13, 2019 at 11:48 PM

I’m planning an intimate destination wedding but the resort that I want to have it at is $400 a night. Is that to much to ask my guests to pay? I’ve considered other hotels but I can’t stop...

Molly, Apr 18, 2019 78 2,054
Pickles
Budget/Avis rental car group discount rate
Pickles, on October 12, 2017 at 12:23 PM

Six months ago I asked on this forum if anyone had heard of rental car companies doing group discount rates for weddings (80% of my guests are flying in and will need a rental) and no one had heard of...

Eulisa, Apr 17, 2019 6 1,483 1
Alexandria
My Friends is Upset She's Not a Bridesmaid
Alexandria, on April 16, 2019 at 10:14 AM

I have a very close knit group of friends. I only chose two to be in the bridal party because I didn't want to make it a whole thing by having all five friends and also my two cousins. I explained all...

Talia, Apr 17, 2019 7 978
T
i do not want my step dad at my Wedding!!!
TheFutureMrsLewis, on April 17, 2019 at 2:04 AM

Hello I hope that you guys can help me with this situation. I just got engaged and I am so excited but I cannot enjoy planning things or looking at dresses with my mom because I have yet to tell her...

Jennifer, Apr 17, 2019 7 2,011
T
Rehearsal Dinner Time?
Teresa, on April 16, 2019 at 10:23 AM

So, my two bridesmaids are from out of town and everyone else who is participating work sometimes weird hours. Wedding is on a Saturday and technically the rehearsal dinner would be on a Friday night...

Teresa, Apr 16, 2019 12 6,281
Sarah
Welcome Party for Out of town guests
Sarah , on March 29, 2019 at 9:53 PM

I want to have a welcome party for all my family and friends that will be flying from Ohio and some driving from Texas/Louisiana. That said, where we are holding our wedding is in a VERY small town...

Christy, Apr 16, 2019 11 5,494
Rebekah
No save the dates-when to send out invites?
Rebekah, on April 15, 2019 at 8:36 PM

How far out should we send invitations if we are not sending out save the dates? And when should we have the deadline for rsvp’s?

Sinéad, Apr 16, 2019 2 1,289
Mrs.
Invited a couple but they broke up
Mrs., on April 15, 2019 at 2:30 AM

We invited FH's coworker and his long-term gf to our wedding but they apparently broke up so FH told his coworker that he could invite a different coworker. I got upset for a number of reasons that I...

Mrs., Apr 15, 2019 7 1,805
K
Am I wrong for being really upset that a friend is copying my wedding ideas and her wedding is first??
Kasey, on August 28, 2012 at 2:32 AM

I got engaged before my friend and set date for about a year after. My friend just got engaged and decided to get married a couple weeks before me, instead of a year engagement. Which is fine, except...

Lizbeth, Apr 15, 2019 43 4,060
Allie
Asking a bridesmaid to step down even after she bought her dress?
Allie, on March 13, 2019 at 2:25 PM

So I’m very conflicted with this and I need advice, this person has been friends with me for years and I felt it was only right to have my childhood best friend as my bridesmaid but ever since I’ve...

Will & Tiara, Apr 14, 2019 17 2,013
Anthony
Future brother in law Marine and his dress blues
Anthony, on April 1, 2019 at 10:20 PM

Should my brother in law who is an active Marine wear his dress blues at my wedding ceremony? He is a groomsmen. I personally don't want him to because he would stand out from the other groomsmen. I...

CDickman, Apr 14, 2019 15 1,632
Alexis
Elopement Etiquette?
Alexis, on April 11, 2019 at 11:39 AM

Hi everyone! Been a long time since I've been on here. I truthfully haven't though about planning or anything in a while, BUT my FH and I just decided to nix the idea of a traditional wedding, and we...

Priscilla, Apr 13, 2019 10 629
M
Plus 1 for Destination Wedding
Margaret, on April 9, 2019 at 3:26 PM

Hello WW, I am curious to see how other brides have handled this situation. I am having a destination wedding in Mexico this year and I have sent the save the dates out already. I have included whole...

Yasmine, Apr 13, 2019 25 1,484
Alexis
People only showing up to the reception?
Alexis, on April 11, 2019 at 11:16 AM

Is it rude for somebody to only show up to the reception? I dont want to just pay for food, when these people werent even here to share the ceremony with us. Especially because food is expensive and...

Michelle, Apr 12, 2019 23 2,832
Pancakes
5:30 pm Ceremony Time
Pancakes, on December 18, 2014 at 8:35 AM

Might be a silly question, and is definitely far enough away to not think about it, but I was just curious. When your ceremony is at 5:30 pm, when do you start getting ready? I can't imagine I will...

Amber, Apr 12, 2019 21 8,175
Shaquaya
What comes first? Wedding invitation or Bridal shower invitation?
Shaquaya, on January 22, 2014 at 9:10 AM

So I'm sending my wedding invites out on the 31st, however my sister who is MOH and throwing my bridal shower wants to send out the bridal shower invitations the middle of next week. Do people...

Samantha, Apr 12, 2019 10 3,454
Kelsey
Plus One's and Rsvp's
Kelsey, on March 11, 2019 at 9:36 PM

Hello All! I'm trying to figure out the right and "polite" way to make sure people do NOT bring plus ones or add on additional "guests" to the RSVP. Any tips or advice would be great! Thanks!

Kelsey, Apr 12, 2019 26 2,423 1
Katie
Anyone bought insurance on their engagement ring?
Katie, on March 27, 2019 at 8:46 PM

I'd like to do this ASAP. Can anyone recommend an insurance agency to use?? I've done some Google searches, but I'd really love first hand experience.

Conor, Apr 12, 2019 29 3,921
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