Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I am the MOH and the bride has asked one of her bridesmaids to leave the wedding party because we are 2 months away from the bachelorette party and she hasn't paid for anything (not even for her...

Colorado elopement with less than 20 guests. We don’t plan on paying for the dinner after the ceremony. The whole point of us eloping was to save as much money as possible and avoid all this. But the...

I have been struggling with my registries! I have everything you could need/want for the home. I do not want to make a registry and put things on there I will just have duplicates of. Our honeymoon is...

For those who are password protecting their wedding websites, where on the invitation did you put your password? I've heard not to put the website on the invitation but rather an enclosure. I wanted...

I saw somenoe else who mentioned its best to send thank you notes as soon as you receive a gift. We received one right after we got engaged and truthfully, it didn't occur to me to send a thank you...

Here is my dilemma so I hope this discussion will help me gain some clarity on what I should do. I contacted a wedding wire photographer about my December 2018 wedding date in Colorado. We made the...

So I have a weird question- would it be inappropriate to send small care packages to BM's a week or two before my wedding? They would include things like the following: Face Masque's Hair Masque's...

This may be a stupid question. Wondering what other suggest when the rsvp date has passed and then you try to get ahold of them through phone email etc and again do not get an answer? Do you keep...

I'm going to a wedding this weekend and have decided to bring a card and money instead of buying a gift off the registry. Me being the anxious ball of stress that I am; what do you do with a card you...

My FH and I keep leaning more and more towards just having a commitment ceremony instead of a wedding. We want to stand in front of all our friends and family, to make a promise to each other and God...

Is the bachelorette party supposed to be a surprise party? Or should they ask what they bride wants to do?

If there is an experienced organist within the family (groom's uncle - who is an internationally acclaimed recitalist ) would we be expected to ask him to play for the service (rather than a friend of...

Hi all, I have a title/etiquette question. I am a surgeon and use the title Dr. a lot at work. I am inviting a lot of MDs and as respect to them will be writing “Dr. so and so” on their formal wedding...

I've been struggling w/ being OK w/ this idea. Due to several issues, but mostly budget constraints, my FH & I had decided to not add on the open-bar option for the whole night. Instead, we are...

My dad asked today what he should wear. I am unsure if he should match the groomsmen (wearing navy suits), the groom is wearing a lighter blue suit. Suggestions for what my dad should wear. He asked,...

My daughters colors are coral pink and sage green. she wants me to wear the same color, ugh!!! I don't like that color--she says I am suppose to match them. "its her wedding and I have no say in the...

My FH and I are considering doing online only RSVP. We love the convenience of it and that it will only let people register for who is invited. We have considered sending out traditional RSVPs to...

I am incredibly upset and disappointed. My bachelorette party is this weekend but my MOH called me this morning and hardly anyone can go. I know it's Easter weekend but this was the weekend THEY chose...

I'm encountering an issue with how to address invitations when there are multiple adults with different last names and living at the same address. My FH's grandparents, great-grandmother (his...

Was anyone else told the recommended tip to their church should be 5 - 10% of the whole cost of the wedding? I've seen many posts in the past and people have given at most a $1000 from what...