Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hey, everyone. I forgot to do the one thing I should have done. ADD A RSVP card or any other RSVP info to my invites. I sent out about 70 invites and I have seating for that many. I also have enough...

I’ve been in this situation as a sister. I watched my sister completely treat my parents like nothing while she goes on trips/vaca/b-days with the in-laws/FH. It was extremely hard to watch her not...

Reason I’m asking is because earlier this year we went to an event and she became belligerently drunk and as I tried to talk to her she attacked me and punched me in the face. Fast forward to now, she...

What do you think: my wedding was yesterday and in all of the craziness tips were left in the car and completely forgotten. Would it be bad to send vendors tips by Venmo or PayPal? I could mail it but...

My fiancé’s sister just asked us if we plan on including her 16 year old son, his nephew, as part of our wedding party and walk down the aisle/ be a part of the wedding somehow. While I think it’s a...

So, I’ve heard from multiple couples who’ve gotten married that you’re supposed to tip vendors who don’t own their own business. My photographer owns his own business but he’s coming as well as one of...

Hey guys, To start my post I would just like to say that I am aware that everyone gets just "one day" for their wedding; not a week, a month, or a year. My fiance and I got engaged 9 months ago...

Hey everyone! My fiancé & I are just starting to really get into looking for vendor for our wedding. We have our ceremony location picked out. None of our parents have really spoken about...

Is this to far to ask or expect your local guests 235 guests total to travel to your wedding 81 miles? Yes majority is all high way driving. I live in a North suburb of Houston and found the perfect...

Ok, so last year I made the decision to hire a videographer for our wedding, I paid the full amount of $1,000. I had asked the question when booking when could I expect my video (now I know it...

Who knew! "Fiancé vs. Fiancée: No, these spellings are not interchangeable. There is quite a significant difference between them, in fact. Fiancé refers to a male engaged to be married, while fiancée...

So I'm just curious as to how many people are inviting everyone from out of town as well as their bridal party and immediate family to the rehersal dinner? Our wedding is going to be about 51 people...

TRUE or FALSE: Post your answers in the comments! Hey guys, I've noticed there are a wide range of wedding planning experiences among all of the different brides. For me, my expectations and reality...

HI all! So I do NOT have a bridal party - just me and FH. We have a few out of town guests coming (maybe about 15). We are also doing a early morning ceremony (10AM on a Friday) then a luncheon...

So I am in the early planning stages for my wedding and I can't figure out how to make this work. I want to have a formal catholic wedding at the basilica in my city. But I also want to have a super...

Hi wedding planners! I'm looking for a little advice from those of you that have done, have been a part of or plan on doing a ring warming ceremony. FH and I really like this idea of each of our...

So we are getting married this weekend 3/30/19- and of course AFTER we finished paying off our venue and final numbers were in, we have guest that have RSVP'd but are not able to make it- we are very...

I'm just curious. If they attended and did not give a gift are we still supposed to send a thank you to them?

Long story but... I got engaged January of 2018 and my friend got engaged a couple weeks after. I announced my wedding date as June 15th 2019 in JUNE of 2018 and she announced hers as JUNE 8th of 2019...

I’m trying to figure out how to word my RSVPs so that I can find out how many guest are attending (some of them I know will be kids), but I need to word it in a way that we only want good behaving...