Don't want to pick a fight, just a question on etiquette.
I have read on here that hosting your own engagement is tacky. Why is that? I read things about comparing weddings to birthday parties (proper hosting) so I get it.
But birthday parties are also "throwing yourself a party no"?
Anyways, as we tell our friends we are engaged everyone asks us about an engagement party and we both said that we do not plan to have one.
Anyways, can anyone explain the etiquette of throwing your own engagement party and why it is bad? Thanks!