Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Growing up I have always known in my heart I did not want some random person who I barely know to be the Officiant at my wedding. After doing some research and talking to FH we have decided we would...

I'm conflicted on whether I should invite my ex- best friend. We have so much history together and we were always there for each other at our lowest points and our highest. We grew up together in...

Hey guys, so my FH has a really tricky family issue. His parents are divorced - Dad has been remarried for 23 years (my FH grew up with dad and step mom and half siblings). His mom has a boyfriend we...

So on my web site I wrote this at the top of the "Regestry" page "Please do not feel like you have to give us a gift. Or that it must be something off our registry. Feel free to be creative if you...

I have a close friend that has been super helpful every step of the wedding process so far. She’s a great person however I’m only having cousins as my bridesmaid. My cousins and I are super close and...

Hey everyone I am just trying to get some ideas on how to ask my grandma to be my flower girl.

So we all know how difficult it is to cut down a guest list. Worried about who will get their feelings hurt or who would be mad because person A was invited but not person B.. Blah blah blah blah...

I have been to some non-Polish wedding receptions who have had the "Polish Apron Dance." I was wondering if this is appropriate because my daughter and her betrothed could really use some extra money...

My future father in law is my fiancé’s best man and he told me yesterday he’s getting a Mohawk and plans to keep it that way this man is not the negotiating type he’s dead set on it and I’m just...

I have come to a very difficult decision to make; I really want my younger cousins to be a part of my wedding and my FH's young nephew to be too, however is it ok to have them at the ceremony as...

Hey everyone! So I am asking my 10 bridesmaids to get their dresses from Azazie. My only requirements are that the dress is in the color peach and that it is a long dress. Other than that, they can...

I know there's a post about having an unplugged wedding, but I'm not prepared to go that far because I hate attending unplugged weddings when I have to have my phone off for both the ceremony and...

Our venue allows us to supply the alcohol. We're thinking just beer and wine but I'm a bargain shopper and want a really great deal. I was thinking Sam's but if there is a company that is better...

I have a string quartet playing for 2 hrs. Just the ceremony and cocktail hour. Do I need to make a table for them to eat at, and pay for their food? It will really mess up my table settings if I have...

So it seems like a girl on my Facebook just announced that she's been married for sixth months. Apparently, her and her husband had eloped and told no one, not even family. I wish I was kidding but it...

I work in a small group of people that is rapidly growing. I've worked with 4 of them for 3 years. One works from home and I never see them,one is my mentor, one is my new boss and semi- friend and...

I can't recall if you are supposed to have a bare ring finger during the wedding ring exchange . If so what do you do with your engagement ring and when do you put it back on ?

I am getting married next year. Recently, I've had friends and family ask how they can help and if they will have a role in the wedding/reception. Honestly, I have NO IDEA what roles I need to assign!...

EDIT: *****************UPDATE***** PROBLEM WAS RESOLVED ************** My MoH is my older sister. She volunteered to plan my bridal shower. It is 16 days away and she has yet to do anything, and has...

Im asking because my FH's sister said no one will bring presents. And NOT to say its a shower. Because "shower" means "shower with gifts". Well its not until the day before that ALL my family will...