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Anyone else getting burnt out on either word? It’s like for one day you have to be something you’re not otherwise you’re “tacky”. Look I’ve drank my wine out of a coffee cup before, I know I’m not...
My mom and I are in disagreement about this. I want to put "Dress is formal" on the bottom of my invitations but my mom thinks that is rude. Background: I am getting married in a barn but nothing...
My fiancee and i have come to the conclusion that we will do the ceremony and NO reception. We were planning a small wedding in the 1st place about 60-70 guest we found a cheap reception hall...
Has anyone greeted their guests before the ceremony as they arrive? We are thinking of doing this instead of a doing a receiving line after the ceremony or table visits. We are doing some things very...
Long story short, my husband and I got legally married March 2018, but we’re just having our ceremony for it this October. I’m putting together my formal invitations and have mixed decisions on how my...
So... I just found something out that confused me. We have gratuity already worked into the per person price of our contract, but we still need to add on tax. So I asked our contact how tax is...
Hey guys I have heard that traditionally invitation envelopes are hand written, and I like this idea. I have decent handwriting, but it still makes me nervous that they won't look as nice, because I...
My wedding is starting to get closer now (Sept 21st, 2019) and I still haven't heard a peep from anyone about a bridal shower or bachelorette party! My mother moved out of state about 2 months ago and...
This is the first personal message I’ve received but Ive had plenty of “when is the wedding?” “are we invited?” type comments and I honestly don’t know how to respond. I think this is rude, I don’t...
I completed my photo shot list, which was very detailed so no one is left out. However my mother-in-law who is paying for the majority of the wedding slightly demanded that extended family photos,...
I feel stupid sending a thank you card to the people that didn't even have the manners to by a card.
Hi all! My fiance and I are in the midst of figuring out our wedding parties. I am pretty set on my side but my FH on the other hand is a mess lol. So he has a friend who he has been close with since...
So, a few years ago my parents gave my sister some money to help with her wedding. Now I’m getting married next year. My parents said they’d help pay for our wedding too. My question is: Should I...
I love Social media, but I am also very private. Like many other people out there, I like being in control of what I put out on the Internet. We invited our closest family and friends to the wedding...
My sister wants me to be her future husbands groomsman. Here’s the thing: I don’t like him and I’m pretty sure he doesn’t like me. He’s more or less the embodiment of Reddit, which is something I...
So, our venue is really expensive already, and they are TABC certified. That means that all alcohol has to go through them, They have marked up the prices insanely($320 for a keg of bud light)....
Are you putting your vendors’ name on escort cards, to be displayed with your guests’ escort cards? Mine will be sitting at a table together, which will have a table number on it. Would you include...
I am having some bridal party drama that I did not expect. I asked one of my closest friends to be a bridesmaid and she got super upset that shes not the maid of honor. She was disappointed (which...
Hey everyone! I’m kind of torn about telling people what the dress code is. Few things about the wedding: 1. It’s during the day from 2-5 2. We are only having passed appetizers, alcohol and cake 3....
Hi! Our ceremony start time is 3:45. How would you word this? Quarter before four o'clock Quarter to four o'clock Three forty-five Quarter before four in the evening ??