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brieliz
Changing Photographers, am I horrible?
brieliz, on August 25, 2016 at 9:15 AM

I booked my photographer back in February and paid the deposit. She is a great person, I have no doubt she will capture the photos I request, however her style didn't exactly match mine. I brushed off...

Southernbride, Aug 12, 2019 11 2,271
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"Honeymoon Fund"
Kimberly, on December 10, 2014 at 5:28 PM

My fiance and I are both in our thirties. We live together and our household is established. Therefore, we don't really NEED anything. We are not really wanting to register anywhere, but we are hoping...

Jenna, Aug 12, 2019 27 7,689
Nicole
siblings getting married in the same year
Nicole, on June 9, 2017 at 11:09 AM

So, how close is too close to get married to a sibling. We have a sibling that was engaged first (6 months before us) but planned their wedding 8/18/18 (~2 years later). We got engaged a month ago and...

Angela, Aug 12, 2019 93 17,939
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When Should Bridesmaids Fly In?
Sheri, on July 30, 2019 at 11:45 PM

My best friend asked me to be her maid of honor which is honestly such an honor. But we're separated by 3,500 miles. Her wedding is at the beginning of June 2020. What I'm curious about is when the...

allisonrose, Aug 12, 2019 17 1,919
Caitlin
What to do if your guests don't want to commit to coming to your wedding
Caitlin, on July 31, 2019 at 11:28 AM

I have an RSVP problem. I've been following up with those guests that haven't sent back their RSVPs (the deadline has already passed) and I keep getting this annoying response: "Just put us down as...

Farrah, Aug 11, 2019 54 3,385 1
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No Parents for the Groom
Marie, on April 21, 2015 at 12:38 AM

I'm not sure if this has been addressed before, but I was just curious who one would do things if there the Groom's parents are not in the picture.. at all... my FH does not have a relationship with...

Janalyn, Aug 10, 2019 12 3,986
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Invited too many people..
Katelyn, on August 9, 2019 at 10:48 AM

Our venue will be the space for both the ceremony and reception, we can easily seat more than 100 people for the ceremony, however probably only 96 for the reception. We invited 140 people to our...

allisonrose, Aug 10, 2019 14 1,340
Megan
Maid of honor disaster
Megan, on August 1, 2019 at 11:31 PM

Help! my maid of honor has done a bad job .. my bridesmaids have done more then her ... they’ve been complaining about her and now I finally see it. She lives out of state.. wanted to come visit me in...

, Aug 9, 2019 63 1,609
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Greeting Guests at Tables
Caitlyn, on August 8, 2019 at 7:36 PM

Are many of you greeting your guests at their tables during the reception? I don't know why but I'm a little nervous about this - specifically having to make small talk with extended relatives I...

Jenna, Aug 9, 2019 19 1,201
Jasmine
Pregnant bridesmaid
Jasmine, on August 6, 2019 at 8:54 PM

Hi everyone, i just found out one of my bridesmaids Is two months pregnant. I am getting married in February and she is due I’m march. We had all planned on picking out dresses in September since I...

Tiffani, Aug 9, 2019 35 2,175
Sos0033
How much do you tip the bartender (as a guest?)
Sos0033, on May 23, 2017 at 4:21 PM

Whenever the topic of cash bars comes up, people say "I don't even carry cash, especially at weddings" or "it's rude to make your guests open their wallets." I usually don't carry cash either, but...

Not, Aug 8, 2019 46 7,136
Anna
what does the venu deposit do?
Anna, on August 25, 2011 at 10:38 PM

Ok I looked at 2 places for our wedding/reception the one that we really wanted (but out of our budget) asked for a $525.00 deposit and said that holds the date and 500.00 of that goes towards...

Alwyn., Aug 8, 2019 20 2,826
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Uninvite a bridesmaid?
Elizabeth, on March 5, 2014 at 10:55 AM

I'm having significant second thoughts about a friend who I asked to be a bridesmaid. She has a pattern of behaving badly at events, getting drunk and loud and made quite a scene at the last wedding...

Florida Marlins, Aug 8, 2019 13 948
Heather
Down the aisle gift ideas for Uncle
Heather, on August 3, 2019 at 2:58 PM

My uncle from our of state is walking me down the aisle and I need help choosing a gift for him. What are you giving to thank whomever is giving you away??

NextChapterReady, Aug 8, 2019 5 728
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Thank you cards for someone who didn't attend the wedding nor send a gift
Sara, on August 7, 2019 at 5:29 AM

Hi everyone, My fiance and I live in Northern Europe but we are having our wedding in my country of origin (a Southern European country). We invited +60 of his relatives and family friends but only 20...

Cher Horowitz, Aug 7, 2019 10 1,872
Ashboo
Anyone's Fiance in the Coast Guard or Joining?
Ashboo, on April 17, 2013 at 2:20 PM

Hey! My Fiance is joining the Coast Guard and he will be leaving for boot camp the end of August, A few weeks after we get married. Anyone else's soon to be hubby joining or enlisted now! I have a...

Diandrah, Aug 7, 2019 19 196
Amanda
Keep white gold or dip rose gold?
Amanda, on February 29, 2016 at 2:47 AM

My FH and I picked out a ring--white gold round brilliant with halo. I had my heart set on rose gold, but I like all options (yellow ,white, and rose gold). But as the ring is a one-of-a-kind design,...

Mary, Aug 7, 2019 21 21,637
DitchingDiaz
How can i ask one of my Bridesmaids if she is still interested in being one?
DitchingDiaz, on August 5, 2019 at 11:41 AM

Hi Everyone! I need some advice- one of my bridesmaids has been one of my best friends since high school. However, all of our friendship she has struggled with being there for me as much as I am...

Jennifer, Aug 6, 2019 36 2,515 1
Tanzie
The boyfriend of the Mother of the Groom
Tanzie, on August 1, 2019 at 12:26 AM

Ok so how do I put this nicely? I do not want the boyfriend of my fiance's mother at the wedding nor do I feel like he should be honored. I know that sounds selfish but quiet honestly he's most likely...

Gen, Aug 6, 2019 25 1,960
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i want to bring my so to my cousin’s wedding
Ashley, on August 5, 2019 at 4:48 PM

I am a bridesmaid for my cousin’s wedding coming up this fall. I am only 19 and my cousin is in her late 20s. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and she has met him at least 5 or 6 times...

Talia, Aug 6, 2019 13 1,526
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