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Kayla
Sibling (not close) Wedding Gift Etiquette
Kayla, on June 16, 2019 at 11:17 PM

Hello, My partner and I will be attending sister’s wedding in a few weeks. She dated/got engaged within a year and we have only met the fiance twice. We’ve lived together for 8 years now but aren’t...

Stephanie, Jun 20, 2019 19 1,860
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Bridesmaid Posting Pictures
Tori, on June 20, 2019 at 8:17 AM

Sorry this is more of a rant than anything. We got our pictures back a couple weeks ago and I'm intending to sort through to pick out some to print and some to post on Facebook but I've been short on...

Tori, Jun 20, 2019 9 1,916
Alicia
Posting Save The Dates to Social Media
Alicia, on June 19, 2019 at 6:36 PM

Tomorrow my wedding will be exactly a year away. I sent out my STD a few days ago and everyone has been confirming they've received it. I want to post my STD on my social media with a sentimental...

MrsD, Jun 20, 2019 23 4,235
JJWed2018
Photo booth? Overdone or still fun??
JJWed2018, on March 15, 2017 at 2:39 PM

Thinking about doing a photo booth but I wonder if that is an old trend?? I want to have options for things for my guests to do so they are never bored. We have lawn games already but I want to add...

capturedpb, Jun 20, 2019 52 2,175 1
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Removing a bridesmaid from the wedding party???
Spruce, on November 21, 2012 at 11:02 AM

Has anyone ever had to remove a bridesmaid from their wedding party? How did you handle it? I know this question tends to offend some, so please be gentle! I hate hurting feelings, but I'm stressed to...

Kaitlyn, Jun 19, 2019 21 7,544
Haley
Fiancé has two last names?
Haley, on April 22, 2019 at 8:13 PM

This may be a stupid question but I can’t seem to figure it out for the life of me. My fiancé has two last names, not hyphenated. His parents weren’t married when he was born so apparently they had to...

Clíodhna, Jun 19, 2019 7 4,440
Weddingguest123
Acceptable to skip bachelor party due to higher than expected cost?
Weddingguest123, on June 17, 2019 at 6:40 PM

One of my good friends is getting married and two other friends are organizing an out of state bachelor party focused on dinning out among other things. I've been trying to obtain a cost for the last...

Weddingguest123, Jun 18, 2019 9 8,230
Charlene
How do you incorporate deceased parents in wedding?
Charlene, on July 14, 2017 at 3:43 AM

Hi, I have a two part question. My FH's parents are deceased and my parents are divorced. We want to place both set of parents on our invitations and wonder 1. How to word it? 2. Is it appropriate to...

Stewart, Jun 18, 2019 22 3,787
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Bridesmaid from Hell
Anna, on May 27, 2014 at 10:22 PM

Sorry I need to vent. My fiancé had asked two of her cousins to stand up with her and now the girl is saying that they can't afford the dress we want her to wear and wants to wear her own dress that...

Melissa, Jun 17, 2019 8 850
Sheila
Dinner after the ceremony
Sheila, on June 14, 2019 at 8:27 PM

What can I write in my invitation if after the ceremony we will have only a nice dinner with our 15 guests only? I want to make sure that the wording”Reception to follow” is appropriate if is only a...

MrsD, Jun 17, 2019 10 1,601
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How to respond to no rsvp
Ebony, on June 16, 2019 at 8:52 PM

So this may seem really weird, mean or just plain unheard of butttttttttttt here it goes....We have mailed out the RSVPs with return postage stamps so there really isn’t any excuse for people not to...

MrsD, Jun 17, 2019 4 3,502
Dani
Consumption Bar Experience
Dani, on January 24, 2017 at 8:44 PM

What's everyone's experience with consumption bars (full bar) as far as the final cost goes? Obviously cost differs between venue, drink price, and the type of guests. I'm just trying to get a general...

iris, Jun 16, 2019 51 1,718
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Hurt about not being invited to the wedding shower, should i say anything?
Angela, on June 15, 2019 at 9:35 PM

So I have a friend who is getting married this year in August and I just found out she had a bridal shower today and I wasn't invited. I'm very hurt. Its piling on to the fact that I'm starting to...

MrsJohansson, Jun 16, 2019 11 3,177
Sierra
How to include "Call or text" on RSVP's
Sierra, on July 16, 2014 at 5:12 PM

I know it isn't the traditional thing to do, but I feel like most family members will reply by the RSVP card, but most of the younger people attending would be more likely to just text or call with...

Christina, Jun 16, 2019 3 21,957
Isabella
Removing yourself from a bridal party?
Isabella, on June 14, 2019 at 11:46 AM

I was asked to be in a friend/acquaintance's bridal party about a year ago (she and I were VERY close growing up but minus the day she asked me to be her bridesmaid I hadn't seen her or talked to her...

Judith, Jun 14, 2019 10 1,134
Myranda
Can i un-ask a bridesmaid?
Myranda, on June 13, 2019 at 7:07 PM

So, right now I have 6 bridesmaids. I had gone back and forth for choosing the last one to have. I hastily made the decision without thinking it over much and now I’m regretting it. The one I asked...

Brittany, Jun 14, 2019 8 367
Kelsey
Bridesmaid Proposal/gift Difference
Kelsey, on June 9, 2019 at 3:09 PM

Hi All! I would love to gift my bridesmaids something cute to get ready in for the wedding day, maybe a small piece of jewelry, etc. I've seen these things gifted as a "bridesmaid proposal" - but do...

Meghan, Jun 14, 2019 13 3,875
Judy
Stepmother of bride
Judy, on June 13, 2019 at 11:59 AM

My husband and I are both widowed and remarried. We got married when my stepdaughter was 13 and she lived with us. Very tuff years with lots of interference from her mom's parents. She has always been...

Melissa, Jun 13, 2019 10 1,844
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Bridesmaid Help - Who to Ask?
Camille, on June 13, 2019 at 12:47 AM

So I was planning on having six bridesmaids, but found out a while back that one friend won't be able to. I want to ask someone else, but I'm struggling with deciding who would be the best choice (if...

Danielle, Jun 13, 2019 6 159
Ashlyn
Do white accessories as a guest count against the rule?
Ashlyn, on June 12, 2019 at 5:35 PM

I'm personally against wedding guests wearing a white dress, but as I'm also attending a friend's wedding in a few weeks, I'm wondering if accessories count. Would you think it's pushing the line, or...

Alexandra, Jun 13, 2019 8 3,264
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