Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi All! I'm getting married in August and am thinking about not carrying anything as I walk down the aisle. I'm not hard set on this decision; but it has come across my mind. I love flowers, even...

Hi everyone, I am getting married this year and my parents got divorced 7 years ago. 3 years ago dad married his mistress and now have a 1 hear old. My mom refuses to be at the wedding if dad’s wife...

Hello all, our son is getting married, we received the wedding schedule and the "spotlight" dances (father of bride/bride and mom of groom and groom dances) was the note (groom will be splitting this...

Does anyone know the traditional wording when the bride and groom’s parents are listed on the wedding program introducing the bride and groom or something? No one seems to know the answer.

Hi...we'll be renewing our vows in 2019 to celebrate 15 years...(can you tell I'm excited?!) I've never been to a renewal...and I know the "etiquette" is slightly different than a wedding. We eloped...

My fiance' and I live away from family/relatives. We want to send a SAVE THE DATE card... is it alright to say "space is limited, we'd like to know if you can make it".... I say it's fine and he says...

My FH and I are at the point in our wedding planning where it's time to hash out the details. We pretty much agree on everything we want, except for one thing - he really likes being in the spotlight,...

K, we've all seen them. America's Funniest Home Videos of couples who take the cake tasting a tad to far and end up with it all over themselves. My question is, is anyone planning on to this on the...

Hello! Since we can’t have a DJ at our venue (it’s a restaurant), we’re doing a Spotify playlist but still tho king of having someone MCee. Is this a thing - DJ/MC but on a preset playlist??? Thanks...

Hello everyone I need some advice: Originally my fiancé and I were on the same page about not having children attend our wedding. Although after our first meeting with the wedding coordinator I said...

So for backstory I have this friend from college and we all shared a friend group. A few years ago she started trying to spread a rumor about one of our mutual friends and had a full on meltdown on a...

I ( F 28) have been with my SO (M 33) for 5 years. We do not live together just based on what we both are comfortable with as far as space and religion however we’re constantly together and every well...

In a bit of a wedding crisis😢 We are getting married in just 2 weeks and I so badly want to remove one of my bridesmaids! The thought of having her there makes me not excited for my wedding day at...

Hi all, I've been feeling quite down about my bridesmaids lately. I send them messages every couple months when I need to inform them of something that needs to be done within a couple months. I...

Would it be rude of me to ask our photographer and their second shooter to eat at different times? Usually people say that they don’t want pics of people eating but since we only will have reception I...

My fiancé wants his ex-wife at our wedding. He told me it’s only because he knows his son, who is 12 years old, wants her to be there. I hadn’t even met her up until a few weeks ago because I told him...

Hi All: For context; a long term friend of mine Steve (fake name) has known details about my relationship with my fiancee since we met back in 2018. I have known Steve since **** and we have been...

I have a friend who recently got engaged, and I’ve been wondering if I’ll be invited to the wedding. I’ve known the friend by going to school together, but over the past few years we haven’t really...

Hello everyone, I need thoughts/opinions here. Sorry for the long message-- I feel like there's a lot to explain. So, I was originally planning a small wedding for about 50 people for this November...

It’s been over a year since this happened and my relationship with my brother and sister in law is still not repaired - it has been permanently damaged by SIL’s inability to possess human decency....