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Karla
Rehearsal dinner
Karla, on October 24, 2024 at 2:09 AM

Hi I need some advice. My son is getting married to a wonderful girl in a few months. The family dynamics are a bit strange but I'll try to explain. My sons father and I separated when he was almost...

Michael, Oct 24, 2024 2 518 1
Brandy
Bridal shower with no gifts?
Brandy, on November 27, 2013 at 7:40 AM

I’m completely ashamed of this post, so please excuse me while I open up a taboo topic and sound really greedy.. Tina’s post about her DIL got me thinking. If we don’t do a gift registry, does that...

Michael, Oct 23, 2024 19 20,957
Traci
Bridesmaids Bouquet 💐
Traci, on October 13, 2024 at 4:03 PM

I have just finished 3 bouquets for the bridesmaids, when do I give it to them? In the bridesmaids gifts bags a week before the wedding or at the venue when we show up? Don't worry I have them...

Livingbestlyfe, Oct 22, 2024 5 364 1
Kristen
Unhappy with Wedding Caterer/food
Kristen, on December 11, 2018 at 5:46 PM

I've waited about three weeks so I could look back at this situation with open eyes instead of a wedding haze, but I am VERY unhappy with our wedding food! It was the largest portion of our wedding...

Kathleen, Oct 22, 2024 28 6,070 1
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Not invited to step-daughter's wedding
Anelli, on September 9, 2022 at 8:42 PM

My husband has 2 grown children (twins) with his first wife. I am his 3rd wife so I didnt split them up or even know him back when he was with wife#1 (mother of his chidlren). We've been together for...

Castle, Oct 22, 2024 11 4,643 2
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Where do bridesmaids usually go morning of wedding?
Stephanie, on June 18, 2011 at 4:56 PM

There has been some debate about this, my mother seems to think it should just be me and her noone else that morning and I strongly disagree... Would love some opinions please

Haley, Oct 21, 2024 17 2,911
Franchesca
TRUE COLORS...
Franchesca , on January 27, 2012 at 2:01 PM

Speaking of friends...any frenemies showing their true colors now that you're engaged/married?

Shaina, Oct 18, 2024 16 696
RMGP
Maid and Matron of Honours no bridesmaid
RMGP, on October 9, 2024 at 4:50 PM

Hello All, We're expecting 60-70 guests for our wedding next year and haven't decided if we should have a bridal party. Since it's an intimate wedding, we're thinking of having a matron & maid of...

Tasha, Oct 15, 2024 3 517
Emily
Dr. or Mrs.?
Emily, on September 19, 2018 at 10:05 PM

Hi everyone, I am currently getting my PhD and I will defend my dissertation and graduate a week before I get married (yikes!!!) . I am conflicted with my title at the wedding: on one hand, I think I...

Stephanie, Oct 12, 2024 20 4,158
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Husband a groomsman but I’m not invited?
Michelle, on August 20, 2018 at 11:03 PM

Here is my scenario (Sorry it’s long, this just happened so I’m a bit worked up): My husband is a groomsman in an old school chums wedding (On the opposite coast from where we live). The bride is best...

Rubyru, Oct 10, 2024 47 7,655
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My flower girl is getting married!
Dawn, on June 8, 2019 at 11:17 AM

Hello, I was married 22 years ago and my niece was my flower girl. She is getting married soon. Anyone have any ideas that I could do for her to acknowledge this?

Sophia, Oct 9, 2024 9 2,149
Mrs H in the Making
Sick at the altar?!
Mrs H in the Making, on August 4, 2013 at 3:26 PM

Are any of you ladies worried about being so nervous that you get sick at the altar. I am bad about fainting when I get really nervous. I'm worried I may throw up or...idk. I just hope none of that...

Kelsey, Oct 8, 2024 30 3,026
Lindsey
Video/Picture Slideshow at Reception
Lindsey, on July 5, 2011 at 8:49 PM

Hi girls, I need your feedback! I've heard of a few people doing a video or photo slide show set up on a projector and shown at the wedding or reception. I was thinking of making a small slide show of...

Gwen, Oct 6, 2024 27 17,685
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Inviting my Moms bf to my wedding
Anna, on October 2, 2024 at 3:03 PM

My fiancé and I are tying the knot at a courthouse and having a reception a few months later. My parents have been divorced for four years and this will be the first time that they are seeing each...

Anna, Oct 2, 2024 521
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Husband is best man.. where does that leave me?
Ali, on May 26, 2011 at 4:03 PM

Hello all, I haven't been on in a while. But we recently found out my husband will be the best man in one of his friend's wedding this Sept. and I'm feeling kind of weird about it. This is the first...

Wendy, Oct 1, 2024 33 32,468
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Engagement Gift
Mona, on September 29, 2024 at 1:10 PM

What is the thought on gifting Premarital Counseling to a couple getting married? As sister to the Groom, is that a no-no? I am excited and happy for the couple, and love and trust my brother is...

CM, Sep 30, 2024 4 1,071
Kimberly
Kids at rehearsal dinner?
Kimberly, on June 30, 2022 at 9:36 PM

Hi everyone. I need some advice before making a decision. I told my future sister in law and my cousin that my wedding would be child free. My future sister in law said that it would be totally fine...

Eileen, Sep 30, 2024 8 995
Robin
Not inviting grandma?
Robin, on December 27, 2016 at 10:44 AM

Were trying to finalize our guest list so we can send out save the dates next month, and I'm really struggling if I want to invited one of my grandparents. She's never really been a part of my life....

Jules, Sep 29, 2024 13 3,248
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Donation in lieu of wedding favors
Haley, on November 5, 2021 at 4:14 PM

Hi ladies! Ok I know this question has been asked many times before, but I was hoping to rehash the discussion for those who have been there. Fiancé and I do not have a charity near and dear to our...

Kimamarica, Sep 26, 2024 15 2,180
Lynn
Including Grown Daughter in Wedding
Lynn, on September 12, 2024 at 4:39 PM

I'm getting married in a very small ceremony that is technically a destination wedding. It's just my partner and I. No wedding party. My father has passed away. I want my daughter to be involved in...

Taylor, Sep 18, 2024 2 790
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