Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Sitting and discussing the guest list with FH and the FILs. If there are elderly people who don't drive, do we need to give them plus ones? We're having a smallish wedding compared to other family and...

Hi all! I'd like your helpful and polite opinions on this one... We are having a destination wedding in the Keys in April (I'm from Atlanta and FH is from South Florida). Nearly everyone who comes to...

Is it appropriate to ask guests not to wear perfume or cologne? (Obviously I want them to shower and wear deodorant though!) My mom has severe asthma, and I'm sure some other guests may as well. I...

So I never thought about this before it came up on a medical form. They ask you to choose Miss, Ms., or Mrs. I am married (so a Mrs.), but I did not take my husband‘s last name. So if I choose the...

My husband and I have been married just shy of 3 years. We married very young (he was 19 and I was 20) and our wedding ceremony was not exactly what we had in mind. While we don't regret getting...

I heard there was a Home Depot registry but when I went into my local store they told me they did not have it. One of the customer service people said I can open up an account at MyRegistry.com and...

My bridesmaids are getting their dresses from Azazie. I would like them all in the same dress because my brain enjoys symmetry, but they all have wildly different body types. I created a showroom for...

Do you think it’s tacky to do a vow renewal? Our 20th anniversary will be on mardi gras day 2028. I’m thinking we could have a smallish courtyard renewal in New Orleans, with 50-100 ish close friends/...

Hi all! I wanna pick your brains. My wedding is destination so all of my guests will have to travel in advance to get to my wedding. The ceremony I would like to start at dusk... but I feel like to...

Is anyone else having their mom and dad walk them down the aisle? I was blessed with two amazing parents that have both put in so much time, love and support into my life and I want to honor them...

My fiance and I are getting married about an hour from where our officiant's work place is, although I think they live further away than that. They mentioned they would love to come to the rehearsal...

I need some advice. My best friend, who has been my best friend since school, has given me information that has let me flabbergasted and I'm honestly not sure how to proceed. I'll do my best to...

Hey guys, I'm not sure how many grooms are on these forums, but if there is anyone else with input I'm open to the advice. I have been with my fiancee for over 5 years (living together for about 4...

I have a cousin, over 18, who is in college and I am unsure how to send her the save the date/invitation since her "address" is her parents house. Do I send her and her parents separate invitations or...

As if getting married in 2020 hasn't been a nightmare enough now I'm dealing with this... We were married back in July of this year and I have had hardly any communication from our videographer. We...

I feel these days that it is almost expected of couples to have an open bar. Me and my FH have decided not to because its just too expensive. Maybe we'll do a toonie bar or give everyone 2 drink...

Since I got engaged about three months ago, I have felt hurt by a general lack of enthusiasm about our engagement (particularly from my future in-laws). My fiancé and I flew out to visit his family...

We were married on August 20th and are still waiting for our wedding video. Our contract states the video will take 8 - 12 weeks. If I’m counting my weeks correctly, tomorrow will be 15 weeks so 3...

His last name is Walker and mines is McCray