Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

In a bit of a wedding crisis😢 We are getting married in just 2 weeks and I so badly want to remove one of my bridesmaids! The thought of having her there makes me not excited for my wedding day at...

Hi all, I've been feeling quite down about my bridesmaids lately. I send them messages every couple months when I need to inform them of something that needs to be done within a couple months. I...

Would it be rude of me to ask our photographer and their second shooter to eat at different times? Usually people say that they don’t want pics of people eating but since we only will have reception I...

My fiancé wants his ex-wife at our wedding. He told me it’s only because he knows his son, who is 12 years old, wants her to be there. I hadn’t even met her up until a few weeks ago because I told him...

Hi All: For context; a long term friend of mine Steve (fake name) has known details about my relationship with my fiancee since we met back in 2018. I have known Steve since **** and we have been...

I have a friend who recently got engaged, and I’ve been wondering if I’ll be invited to the wedding. I’ve known the friend by going to school together, but over the past few years we haven’t really...

Hello everyone, I need thoughts/opinions here. Sorry for the long message-- I feel like there's a lot to explain. So, I was originally planning a small wedding for about 50 people for this November...

It’s been over a year since this happened and my relationship with my brother and sister in law is still not repaired - it has been permanently damaged by SIL’s inability to possess human decency....

My boyfriend of 3 years has a tendency to talk about our personal problems with his male and female friends. (He is my fiance, but we are talking about cancelling the wedding.) This is embarrassing...

My parents are divorced now and we’re talking about getting married on what used to be their wedding date of October seventeenth (17th)

Needs some advice

Hello Brides! My fiancé and I have decided that we do not want kids at our wedding. We have chosen Key West, a tropical, party destination as our wedding location. It’s a “destination wedding” in our...

Hi everyone! I am having a hard time deciding on what I want for my wedding. I would really like to have a smaller ceremony and dinner with family only and then have an after party with our family and...

Ok so I guess this is why it’s bad to assume, lol! My guest list has all sent back their RSVPs but we haven’t received a single one from his list. After speaking to one of his family members I realize...

Hello brides! I have a dilemma. I have a gorgeous bridal gown, but it may not be as appealing to wear it for our first dance salsa routine. Would it be cheesy if a wear a more comfortable dress for...

Okay, I booked an all inclusive venue, where the vendors are linked through them: the dj, the wedding coordinator, the bar and bartenders, the cake baker, the caterer, etc. the only people we had the...

With somany things changing I am wondering who is to pay for what for the wedding and rehearsal dinner, engagement party etc?

I'll obviously be feeding my vendors a hot meal, but should I make sure they each get a slice of cake? If not to eat at the ceremony, to at least box up and take home?

So, I have an old friend who moved away in highschool. We re-connected a couple years ago when she was diagnosed with MS and I went to visit her many states away. A few months later, she came to visit...

Seeking a new perspective or wondering if I’m the asshole for expecting too much? I’ve been planning my wedding and parties leading up to for about a year now. And I have 2 best friends who said they...