TRUE COLORS...

Mine have omg omg omg! everthing is always NEGATIVE!

OMG yes!! my best friend bailed on me the day I went to try on dresses..and the girl ended up being across the street at the mall the whole time. She bashes FH all the time and talks about how she doesnt like the things we are planning. So therefore, we are not speaking anymore...it's a shame.

Oh my yes! Actually is was a bridesmaid who i treated like family! She just stopped talking to me and ignored me... all because she felt that my FH wasn't worthy enough if my ring wasn't a 2 ct diamond like her's!

She started acting better then me as soon as i started the wedding planning.

Plus now i have people who i used to be friends with that stopped talking to me, now are trying to be all buddy buddy with me once they found out i got engaged.

Horrible people that are out there!

YESSSSSSS Why i send my special girls pics of me trying on my dress, it fits like a glove!! Instead of saying HOW BEAUTIFUL I get From my Maid of Honor "LOL, Can you even sit down" WOWSER.... I checked her though!!

Hmm, nope. Everyone is pretty much goo-goo-gaa-gaa over my FH.

Not a frenemy but my fsil always has something to say about me and FH relationship, because we had problems in the past but worked through them. Shes a judgmental b#tch! she feels like shes so much better than us...shes mentally young so I try to just let her go, but sometimes i wanna punch her in the neck...for real

No. I'm pretty picky about my friends and I'm blessed to have really great ones.

If we were still living in Denver I might have had some Judgy McJudgerson frenemy coworkers to contend with. But I got to leave those ladies at the water cooler.

Actually, everyone has been great & are genuinely happy for me!!!! Sorry to hear about your friends.

@ Kris and @ Natasha you are BLESSED to not have the negative energy come at you!! Enjoy it ladies

I feel it from a couple, even though they act as if they are super excited you can tell when it's not real. But for the most part I believe most people are happy for me.

Yall are blessed if it has not happen to you. ijs

Nope. All my friends are still my friends and they all think the FH rocks. I have some pretty awesome peopel in my life. Bummer that you're having issues with this--that's always a letdown.

I had a few issues with my BFF who is definitely like a sister to me. when I got engaged I didn't want to tell her over the phone or have her find out through FB I wanted to tell her in person which I did and I got a really corny congratulations with a cheap hug! And when we went out to dinner and she asked me about my wedding planning and I started to talk she didn't really seem all that interested to hear about it yet she asked!!!! we have gotten a little better now but still I can feel a little coldness like when we hang out mostly right off the bat people will ask me how is wedding planning going...and she won't ask me at all...but I know it's mainly because she has been dating her boyfriend for almost 6 years and he still has yet to propose her and she wants a ring!!!! and I was dating FH for a year when he proposed but then again that is something to discuss with your boyfriend not take out on me

But other than that everyone has been good!

I was just talking to my fsil about this. FH and I got into a heated argument last week and I called my best friend to vent. She told me to leave him! Then she started going on and on about how we weren't right for each other, how much I've changed and how it seems that FH and I have a "cold" relationship and she doesn't see the love. I was so hurt and pissed @her comments and I had this nagging suspicion that she wasn't genuinely happy for me based off the little things she would say. And all this is coming from a person who brags about never being in love and how she would never get married. I'm still trying to figure out what to say to her because obviously there are some issues. Ok, vent over lol.

@Toni-Marie maybe she wasn't being totally rude. LOL - I never tried to sit down in my mermaid dress I wore for my prom... until the guys came to pick me up that night and I couldn't sit in the back seat!! It was waaaayyyyy too tight and since it was custom made, and we had only done fittings standing up, it didn't give! I ended up sitting like a plank in the passenger front seat with the other guy and my date was in the back seat. When we picked up the other guys date, she had to sit in the back!

By the end of the night it was better. I would probably have told you it is a gorgeous dress and then told you my story to make sure you do try to sit down in your dress!

The amount of true colors I’ve seen could paint a whole wall. First one of my FH groomsman just ghosted him. After trying to communicate with him for months we decided he just isn’t coming for no reason. And today we found out one of his best friends isn’t coming either only AFTER my FH texted him about the hotel. So had he not texted him I don’t think he would have told us at all. It just really sucks and honestly I’m done with most people. The people who are there are the ones who matter. And the people who told me ahead of time they can’t make it, I don’t have bad feelings towards them either. But the last minute ones? The ones who just stopped responding for no reason? Nah, kick rocks.