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Honeyfund bridal shower
Aliyah S, on June 21, 2021 at 9:04 PM

Hi, I am curious to hear others thoughts on this. I am going to a bridal shower where the bride doesn't have a traditional registry and only a Honeyfund set up. Should I contribute to the Honeyfund...

Candace, Aug 6, 2021 14 1,838
Cole
Haven’t gotten photos back yet? Etiquette?
Cole, on August 6, 2021 at 1:46 PM

Hi! I’m looking for some advice for my own sanity and to be a better customer. We had photos done 6 weeks ago with this amazing photographer, but we still haven’t gotten them back yet. I’ve reached...

Christina, Aug 6, 2021 13 979
Kylee
Groomsman driving me crazy!
Kylee, on August 4, 2021 at 2:12 PM

Okay, I hope this doesn't sound bridezilla-ish as I have one month until the wedding, and dealing with everything COVID related. Some back story so you know where I am coming from. My fiance has a...

Peyton, Aug 6, 2021 10 836
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Have to cut bachelorette party guest list - advice please?
Dodo, on August 4, 2021 at 2:29 PM

Hello, I have to cut my bachelorette party guest list because the place I rented no longer wants to host the parties (date change for next year - apparently they've had enough), and I can't find a...

Natalie, Aug 5, 2021 17 717
Jennifer
Guidance on approach (long, sorry)
Jennifer, on July 31, 2021 at 12:14 AM

I’ve been struggling with planning since we hit 2021. I know (and constantly hear) wedding planning is stressful but since May the planning and excitement have gone out the window. I love planning...

Laura, Aug 5, 2021 14 996
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Skipping grand entrance, first dance and toasts. Will that leave an awkward gap of time?
Danielle, on May 16, 2017 at 8:02 PM

I am skipping the grand entrance, first dance, father daughter/groom/mom dance, and toasts. Not into it. However I had been advise that I need to "entertain" my guests and that if I don't do the...

Jacks, Aug 5, 2021 10 1,518
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Thank you cards question? Tacky??
Cherie, on August 2, 2021 at 10:10 PM

Let me preface that I'm the MOB and I understand that trends change with the times. We bought a thank you card template on etsy that is beautiful and tastefully worded. We have already had 100 printed...

Heather, Aug 5, 2021 31 2,918
Alexandria
Photographer advice
Alexandria, on August 4, 2021 at 10:33 PM

So our photographer does more than just wedding photography. I am not sure just how often he photographs weddings especially in the past year with Covid. However, he has not given us much information...

Heather, Aug 5, 2021 4 150
Sara
Tipping Quaret
Sara, on August 3, 2021 at 4:46 PM

I was wondering what is standard for ceremony performers. Do you tip based off a percentage of the final bill you paid, or do you tip each musician $15-$25 each? Our are performing for 1...

Lynnie, Aug 4, 2021 1 742
JJAF
Flower girl makeup?
JJAF, on February 22, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Is anyone paying for hair and makeup for their flower girls? In my opinion I think makeup on flower girls looks weird ... maybe because they’re still young

Lindsey, Aug 4, 2021 29 3,210
Kayla710
Registries are Expensive
Kayla710, on August 2, 2021 at 8:46 PM

Hi there, I’m getting married next summer but its all I can think about, so of course I’m doing everything I can this early. A little background, my fiancé and I both come from families that have...

Kari, Aug 4, 2021 10 823
Meghan
Elopement announcement
Meghan, on August 2, 2021 at 3:19 PM

Help Me and my fiance are having an intimate ceremony at our local courthouse and would like to send out marriage/ elopement announcements. We would like to add a registry for family out of state....

Kari, Aug 4, 2021 9 1,060
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Family Invitation Drama
Katarina, on August 3, 2021 at 5:20 PM

My fiancé and I are currently planning to get married in the Summer of 2023. I wanted to get a head start on looking at potential venues and made a rough guest list to get an idea of how big/small the...

Jacks, Aug 3, 2021 5 585
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My brothers wedding is adults-only!?!?
James, on August 20, 2018 at 2:28 PM

My little brother is recently engaged and I just found out the very small destination wedding in Mexico is at an adults-only resort. None of their friends or family have kids except for my 8 & 12...

Jacks, Aug 3, 2021 41 5,859
Tanisha
Vow renewal
Tanisha, on August 2, 2021 at 9:48 AM

Hello, my husband and I got married with a small wedding that was because of budget. We had a total of 70 guest (20 of those guest were just my siblings and their significant others). We also had...

Lynnie, Aug 3, 2021 3 623 1
Jessi
Invitation Addresses - Mini Rant
Jessi, on July 30, 2021 at 9:56 AM

So this isn't even an actual big deal and I'm aware it's super petty lol, so take this complaint with a grain of salt. We just got an invitation in the mail to a wedding for some friends. Both FH and...

anna, Aug 3, 2021 17 847
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Received wedding invitations back after rsvp deadline.
Monica, on August 2, 2021 at 12:40 PM

We received two invitations back but it was after our RSVP deadline. Both of these people are very close to us, (one of them was for the best man) and have already RSVPed so we never realized they...

Mcskipper, Aug 3, 2021 4 601
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Childless Wedding
Lakisha, on July 25, 2021 at 1:16 AM

Hello Brides. Is anyone considering a childless wedding? I’m seriously considering it simply because my wedding is on New Years Day, so there will be plenty of alcohol and I’m having a plated dinner.

Lakisha, Aug 3, 2021 39 1,455
Nakia
Kids at the Wedding
Nakia, on August 1, 2021 at 2:39 AM

I really don’t want any kids at my wedding. However, I know that I have a lot of family coming from out of town, so naturally they can’t leave the kids behind. I’m thinking of maybe just finding a...

Sarah, Aug 3, 2021 8 671
Cassandra
Gifts for family who chipped in for wedding
Cassandra, on August 2, 2021 at 11:24 AM

Did you give a small token of appreciation for family who chipped in to help pay for your wedding? We are paying for our wedding mostly ourselves but my parents and my FH step-dad have been helping us...

Jacks, Aug 3, 2021 7 678
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