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Hello beautiful ladies So I am from a country where we do not do the whole bridesmaids-groomsmen thing, but my fiancé is. So long story short, we will have them at our wedding. Now, I understand it’s...
I asked my friend of 18 yrs to be my bridesmaid over a year ago. She got engaged and we talked about our weddings to one another a lot. I asked her if I was invited (expecting to be invited) so I...
So my fiancé was the best man at his childhood best friends wedding this weekend. We had to travel, stay at a hotel and use public (Uber/Lyft) transportation during our stay. All while my fiancé is...
My fiancé and I initially planned an intimate wedding of 35 people due to Covid restrictions but now that they are lifting it at our location we would really like to add more of the people who...
I always just thought that the bridal party goes to the bachelorette weekend and no one else, but when I went to a bachelorette party for another friend she also had a few other non party friends come...
I've suffered from social anxiety since college. I can't present in front of a group without panic. I get shakes, my heart pounds, and I need at least 30 minutes to calm down afterward. I've seen a...
I’m planning my wedding and my fiancé and I have pretty much finalized our guest list. However, my parents and his are not pleased at the fact that we didn’t add the parents of some of our friends to...
Hello fellow brides, So I thought having to postpone in a pandemic was going to be our biggest problem, but... Some background: My FH's cousin died a couple months before we sent out our Save the...
Hi ladies. Was curious if anyone has advice on rsvp requests that come from save the dates. Not the actual wedding invite. I sent mailed out save the dates pointing to the site where my idea is to say...
Hello, I’m not really sure if I have to or should. I am not close to my biological father, I haven’t seen him for over 10 years. He lives in California and I’m in NY. He remarried to his 3rd wife in...
Hi! My fiance and I are getting married July 2018, and we are have both the ceremony and the reception at his family home (backyard wedding). We are trying to decide whether to save money and ask...
Hello everyone. Wedding is July 23rd. Should I send my invitations out this week (at 7 weeks before) or wait a little more? Also, We didn’t do save the dates.
I know under normal circumstances it's tacky to not invite someone to the wedding if they're invited to the shower/bachelorette party. But because I am a budget bride and we are paying for the wedding...
Disclaimer: I really am trying my best to include all of my loved ones, but I don’t have the money to accommodate for everyone. Im planning my wedding for March of next year and it seems like im being...
I’ve chosen my bridal party and I couldn’t be more excited. However, I’ve heard horror stories of how bridesmaids and brides can clash when it comes to the commitment. I thought it would be fair for...
Hello!! So we just had my bridal shower. I am half way through writing my thank you cards, but I am stuck on two types of wording. I want to make sure they know we are grateful for their gift, we...
So my dad has never been around and my grandpa has been everything to me he means the world to me and I would love him to walk me down the aisle and also share a dance with me. I wouldn't want it any...
FH's parents and my own agreed to contribute 1/4 of the wedding costs towards our special day. My parents have thus far sent us half of what they're contributing, with more coming closer to the...
Hello everyone! Our destination wedding date is set for May 2022! 😬 I’m curious how you guys would handle interactions with people who aren’t on your guest list. I’ll be attending a family event soon...