Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I was wondering what is standard for ceremony performers. Do you tip based off a percentage of the final bill you paid, or do you tip each musician $15-$25 each? Our are performing for 1...

Is anyone paying for hair and makeup for their flower girls? In my opinion I think makeup on flower girls looks weird ... maybe because they’re still young

Hi there, I’m getting married next summer but its all I can think about, so of course I’m doing everything I can this early. A little background, my fiancé and I both come from families that have...

Help Me and my fiance are having an intimate ceremony at our local courthouse and would like to send out marriage/ elopement announcements. We would like to add a registry for family out of state....

My fiancé and I are currently planning to get married in the Summer of 2023. I wanted to get a head start on looking at potential venues and made a rough guest list to get an idea of how big/small the...

My little brother is recently engaged and I just found out the very small destination wedding in Mexico is at an adults-only resort. None of their friends or family have kids except for my 8 & 12...

Hello, my husband and I got married with a small wedding that was because of budget. We had a total of 70 guest (20 of those guest were just my siblings and their significant others). We also had...

So this isn't even an actual big deal and I'm aware it's super petty lol, so take this complaint with a grain of salt. We just got an invitation in the mail to a wedding for some friends. Both FH and...

We received two invitations back but it was after our RSVP deadline. Both of these people are very close to us, (one of them was for the best man) and have already RSVPed so we never realized they...

Hello Brides. Is anyone considering a childless wedding? I’m seriously considering it simply because my wedding is on New Years Day, so there will be plenty of alcohol and I’m having a plated dinner.

I really don’t want any kids at my wedding. However, I know that I have a lot of family coming from out of town, so naturally they can’t leave the kids behind. I’m thinking of maybe just finding a...

Did you give a small token of appreciation for family who chipped in to help pay for your wedding? We are paying for our wedding mostly ourselves but my parents and my FH step-dad have been helping us...

I need some advice on what to do! A family member, who I've asked to be a bridesmaid isn't in the position financially or mentally to dedicate any resources to be in my wedding. She's been dealing...

The majority of our guests live 30-45 mins from our reception site. There are 5 (all in the same house) that live an hour away which is the farthest out of everybody. Anyone out of state will be...

Hi everyone! I’m facing a dilemma right now. For backstory, my fiancé and I are very introverted people and don’t care for large social gatherings or parties (total homebodies!) and I’ve never really...

Hey everyone! So I'm a little stumped on what to do. My fiance's uncle and his family gave us a very generous gift through check. They will not be attending the wedding, but I have already written a...

I just talked to my fiance's best man and he was telling me about what his plans were for the bachelor party. He mentioned drinking, a Celtics game, and even something about a stripper! I'm curious,...

A little backstory, my maid of honor and one of the groomsmen were married but are now separated. I got engaged in April of 2020, and the maid of honor and groomsmen had been married for a year and a...

After paying for my upcoming wedding, there isn't really anything left. Is it bad if we can't tip the vendors? Are we obligated?

I have seen posts about this in the past, but it keeps happening to me right now! A couple times a day someone random will text, email, facebook, or call me and ask me something "crazy" about the...