Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Me and my husband got married in 2019. Due do a family emergency we were not able to have the wedding we always dreamt about so we decided to elope and have the ceremony later on. We are now able to...

My fiancé just secured our location and date. We were discussing wedding parties and who to have. As this is both of ourselves second marriage-though first wedding for the groom-we don’t want a super...

Hey everyone! My fiancé and I ordered our invitations and didn’t mention the no kids policy. We are also doing online RSVP so there’s no RSVP card. In order to RSVP you have to go to the knot, type in...

Our invitations are generally being addressed in the form of ‘Mr John Doe and Mrs Jane Doe’ (as applicable) or to ‘The Doe Family’ where we are inviting all members of the household. There is one...

My partner and I are not doing RSVPs returnable by post because frankly post is quite redundant these days and we know we'd be spending hundreds on pre-stamping our RSVP cards only to have a handful...

So i have a dilemma the bride had accused me of an incident which turned out to be a lie that she had made up and her fiancé apologised, to further i thought everything was fine as we are in a...

I was engaged in August of 2020. My three best friends automatically knew they would be in my wedding and I asked them too. Over the time of quarantine, my whole friend group didn't talk much (all of...

I have 7 bridesmaids and I'm currently working on ordering gifts for them and I wanted to get others opinions if this is enough or if I should get one more thing. So far I have gotten them Michael...

Okay so I'm not actually a control freak or at least I hope not. I've just been dreaming and planning my wedding since I was like 7. Normally I believe you're made of honor and your bridesmaids help...

I understand that thank you cards are a mandatory thing, but do they really have to be? I feel like anytime I’ve gotten a thank you card in the mail I was always like oh yeah OK and barely read it. I...

Not sure what I should do in this situation. My friend and his fiancée were wedding planning for Dec. 2023. Then they moved it up to November 2021. I just received a text that now they’re having a...

Hello, Is it typical to have a seat at the table for dinner for your officiant (who we don't personally know), the DJ, or wedding planner? I was going to have a seat for our wedding planner...but what...

Hello! My husband and I finally tied the knot Friday, June 4!!! I will post some pictures of our day to the forum soon. We received some monetary gifts from people who were not on the guest list but...

So I got engaged a month ago. My FH hired a photographer to capture that moment for us and I emailed her after the proposal just to ask about turn around time for the photos since I’m really excited...

So I don’t personally know if I should be upset about this or not. But I got engaged to my high school sweet heart a couple months ago. And one of my fiancé’s best friends (that will be his groomsman)...

Hi! I see some variation has been posted about this, but I thought I’d repost and elaborate a bit more. I’m having a destination wedding where most guests only know a few other people. Our guests are...

Hi everyone, i need some help in a situation that i cant seem to get over. my fiances sister who is currently 16 and will be 18 when me and my fiance will get married. im having a hard because she is...

I'm having a small wedding in Las Vegas in 2 months. We decided not to give single guests +1s, but we were generous to give them out when asked. I did not know that it was customary to give...

Hi All! I have a weird situation and could use a little insight. My FH's brother is getting married in August of this year, and his bachelor party is next weekend. FH and I are traveling to FL from CT...

My fiancé and I are trying to finish our website and have nothing to put for our how we met or proposal story. We met on tinder and don’t want to put that on our website for all our friends and family...