Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I thought I was done being disappointed... After a quick tally, maybe 8 of 42 members of my FH's extended family have said they may attend the 2pm Church ceremony. Catholic gap. They are not the same...

I have my wedding coming up in January. Because the lighting will start to disappear right about when the ceremony ends, it's important that my fiancé and I skip the receiving line that's normally...

Hi friends. So I know it’s typical to give your bridal party their gifts during the rehearsal dinner. I’m struggling with what to do because I’m “gifting” my bridesmaids their hair & makeup for...

Hi there, One of my close friends from college scheduled her wedding for last August of 2020, which they sadly, like so many, had to reschedule to this year in August of 2021. When she first scheduled...

Hi all! So my fiancee has a hyphenated last name, one is his mother's and the other his father's. I just recently learned that the latter surname is supposed to be the father's name, but his is the...

Hi ladies! Forewarning: this is a rant that is going to be all over the place due to how heated I am at the moment. 1. I HATE people who do not have the decency to RSVP to events. All you do is call,...

How did you start your bridal party groupchat? I have no idea what to say I am so awkward. Help me with a dialogue please!

Hello everyone! I need some honest opinions from a guest perspective regarding alcohol choices at our wedding. We aren't allowed hard liquor during the reception, but we're allowed one signature...

Hi Everyone, Right now fiancé and I are leaning towards a destination wedding in a different state. All of our family and friends live in Texas. We are thinking of inviting everyone to the wedding...

It's just under two weeks before the wedding and everyone has been asking us how things are and if we're excited. Why am I not excited? I don't really have anything left to do either. I just keep...

Hey ladies! September 25, 2021 wedding here and I’m stuck and I need so help with ideas for politely wording virtual wedding ceremony invites to the friends and family who didn’t make the cut for the...

Hello! So long story short, my husband and I both have a huge amount of family members. Word got around about our wedding next year and for some odd reason a lot of our relatives believe they are...

I'm inviting my whole office to my wedding about 9 people plus their spouses. We had a new person start about a month ago and my wedding is in 2 months. So I will know her about 3 months by then. Our...

What was your experience?? Do you still get along??

Hi everyone! I’m looking for some advice. I recently got married on July 10 and my hair and make up lady was late. Because she was late she had to rush my hair. It ended up falling out right after the...

I understand the difference between the two but still unsure about a few things. I was thinking of doing save the dates and then a digital invite. If I were to do both which one do you make more...

Even if it isn't expected we plan on having meals for our vendors (photographer, officiant, entertainment, and DJ). Should we send an invite for them to get their meal choice, and maybe include a note...

The parents of the bride are paying/hosting the wedding. How shoud the invitations be worded. We don't like Mr. And Mrs. Xoxox Request the honor of .... Our families: ..... (Sounds like everyone...

My husband and I are renewing our vows in December for our 10 year anniversary. We got married on Christmas day and had planned on renewing our vows on Christmas day. Well, I've had a change of heart...