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Just looking for some input and suggestions on this situation. My fiancé and I got engaged this past Christmas Eve. I quickly got to planning because I knew a lot of weddings were pushed back from the...
My fiance and I come from different cultures. She is Korean, whose weddings consist of a ceremony in the morning followed by lunch for those in attendance immediately afterwards. I, on the other hand,...
Our wedding is 5 days away and I am super anxious! I need some advice on how to go about this. My side of the family has contributed so much towards the wedding. But I specifically wanted to...
Hi ladies! Are any of you putting any type of wording for dress code in your wedding invitation? If so, how are you wording it? I'm not sure if to do so, I feel like guest should already know this.
My fiancé and I have been engaged almost a year and had a date in mind and in the process of booking a small intimate ceremony with our kids and a few family members. Ideally we were thinking next...
Hello my wedding is in August this year and I'm very excited for our wedding, I just got news that the last of my wedding guests received their second dose or have them scheduled! My wedding is 25...
How to deal with people who are maybe expecting getting an invite to the wedding but will not be extended an invite? Its not that seating/budget is tight (I've budgeted for well over the amount of...
Hello everyone!!! I am an major need of help. I have a friend who is arranging the florals for our wedding including 1 bridal bouquet 10 bridesmaids arrangement 12 boutonnières 3 corsages 20 vase...
My husband and I have been married for over 5 years now, but there were a few things we didn't do at our actual wedding that we would like to do at our vow renewal. We were kinda rushed by my now mil,...
Maybe I’m overthinking this but we originally planned to mail our invitations July 5th and decided to wait until July 19th (thanks WW!). My grandmother passed away recently and her services are...
So my FH is gearing up for his bachelor party in about a month and hadn't heard back from one of his groomsmen on whether he was able to make it. Last night he called the groomsmen and asked if he was...
I'm thinking of not setting up a sweetheart or head table at the reception because we have exhausted our decoration budget. We will have 10 round tables at the reception and I'm working towards...
I was invited to a wedding across the country that I can’t attend (it’s for a distant friend who I haven’t seen in over a decade). I heard from the family that it costs $1,200/plate, and...
We are older and don't need the sort of things one would put in a registry. Straight up asking for cash on a website feels a little rude...I've gone to a few weddings where there was a honeyfund and...
I'm getting married in May 2023 and I was wondering when brides typically ask their friends to be bridesmaids? I've read online that a recommended timeline is 8-12 months before your wedding. I feel...
Hey there, So I just have a question for you guys. I see ALOT of incredibly rude comments when people throw around the idea of doing a cash bar. Its almost like jumping into a pool full of paranas...
Seeking ideas for a friend who is going to be the MOH in another friend's wedding. MOH is not a fan of the groom and is having trouble thinking of what to say in her speech. She has ideas to talk...
Hi, bit of a last minute one. A close friend of mine is getting married and he's an avid whiskey enjoyer. I was hoping of bringing him a fine (very fine!) 30 year bottle. Is this ok? Does it come off...
First the plus one issue - we were very "stingy" per say on who we put on our guest list because we both have bigger families and an extended Fire Department family making the guest list within budget...
I'm attending a Wedding Shower in August and then the actual wedding in September (for the same couple). They included the names of the places where they are registered on the invitation to the...