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Logan
Help with timeline! Cocktail hour long enough or too short?
Logan, on July 6, 2021 at 7:44 PM

Hi - looking for advice on wedding timeline... catholic mass that is super early - trying to determine ideal timeline for reception 1PM Ceremony - Catholic Mass - should be done by 2PM (**Reception...

Jacks, Jul 7, 2021 6 595
Jennifer
Destination Wedding Traveling
Jennifer, on July 6, 2021 at 12:54 PM

Hi Everyone! So just in need of a bit of advice. We're planning a small +/- 50 person destination wedding in Arizona and 90% of our guests, including ourselves are from Chicago. We understand that...

Hanna, Jul 7, 2021 16 843
Janet
a Guest Asking for Another Plus One
Janet, on July 6, 2021 at 2:46 PM

Hello! I really need a third party thoughts on my current situation. So my future sister in law is asking for another plus. Her current plus one is her baby daddy’s mother, let’s call her grandma J....

Michelle, Jul 7, 2021 16 924
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What to say on the invitations!!
Shelbi, on July 6, 2021 at 12:01 AM

Hello! I have a dilemma, I have no idea how to word our invitations! I like the traditional announcement of the brides parents, but my father is deceased and I still want to include him on the...

Judith, Jul 7, 2021 8 507
Jessica
Money Gift (How much to give?)
Jessica, on July 6, 2021 at 4:51 PM

Hello! I have recently been invited to a wedding where they are asking for money gifts VS any presents. I LOVE this and I am personally doing it for my wedding since my fiance and I already live...

Mcskipper, Jul 7, 2021 12 3,570
Emily
Awkward Cake Dilemma
Emily, on June 28, 2021 at 6:49 PM

I’m venting/ranting a bit here but also open to advice. My husband and I got married a few weeks ago but since we are from across the country, we decided to have a second reception for all of his...

Emily, Jul 7, 2021 13 936
Ronique
Firing a bridesmaid? Help?!
Ronique, on July 6, 2021 at 2:57 PM

Hey Lovely brides! I am having a little dilemma and I could honestly use your help. I have a bridesmaids in whom I asked to take part in my wedding but I am starting to regret that I asked her. I have...

Ronique, Jul 6, 2021 25 1,620
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Advice
Angie, on July 5, 2021 at 10:48 PM

I am getting married this February and have had my date/venue booked for a little over a month, my fiancé’s cousin is also engaged but is just starting to plan his wedding. We have a really good...

Cool, Jul 6, 2021 7 659
Aryel
Matron/maid of Honor Stepped down
Aryel, on June 28, 2021 at 1:37 PM

We are about 130 days out from my wedding and my maid/matron of honor stepped down because her due date changed for her first child and it’s about 7 days before my wedding. I am over the moon excited...

Esp, Jul 6, 2021 5 309
K
rsvp card wording
Katy, on June 29, 2021 at 10:25 PM

We are wanting to give guests the option to RSVP by sending the card back in a stamped envelope (included) or via our wedding website. Any suggestions on how to word that on the RSVP card?

Esp, Jul 6, 2021 3 124
Cassie
I HATE My Fiance's Aunt & Don't Want Her or Her Husband at the Wedding...PLEASE HELP!
Cassie, on January 22, 2013 at 9:48 PM

My fiance & I are getting married in 4.5 months! I am not exaggerating when I say I have been extremely loving, honest, polite, respectful, & helpful to his entire family whenever chances arise, but...

Jacks, Jul 6, 2021 27 3,500
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Guest list dilemma
Marija, on July 4, 2021 at 10:49 AM

Hi lovelies! The date my fiancée and I picked is October 30th, 2022. We’re looking at the guest list and came to an interesting issue! His best friend/(man?) Is divorced and has three daughters of his...

Jacks, Jul 6, 2021 16 841
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Stepping down as moh due to multiple planning issues
Beeharvdv, on July 4, 2021 at 1:28 AM

My lifelong best friend made her maid of honor about a year ago. We have been each others support with everything for more than half the time we have been on this earth. The guy seemed perfect for her...

Jacks, Jul 5, 2021 18 688
mrswinteriscoming
Flaky vendor? Persevere or replace?
mrswinteriscoming, on June 16, 2021 at 8:45 PM

My makeup artist is a distant family friend who used to do makeup full time but now does it solely as a side hustle on occasion as she has 2 children under 3. Her work is beautiful but I’m a little...

mrswinteriscoming, Jul 5, 2021 6 174
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No photographer
Jennifer, on July 10, 2018 at 9:44 AM

I'm getting married in a month and we don't have a photographer, never planned for one. We just don't have the money for one, so we're going without and relying on our very small group of friends and...

I_Do_Too, Jul 5, 2021 18 5,641
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Worried about in laws meeting each other
Lucy, on August 8, 2012 at 11:27 AM

Hi! My FH and i are having our families to his house for dinner on 8/24. Our familes are very different and he's very worried about them meeting and doesn't really even want it to happen until the...

I_Do_Too, Jul 5, 2021 19 2,695
Elizabeth
Tipping the band
Elizabeth, on June 17, 2021 at 6:05 PM

Hi! We’re having a small wedding with a three piece band (singer, guitarist, pianist) and an mc. I’m not sure what kind of tip to give them! I’m in northern NJ. Help!

I_Do_Too, Jul 5, 2021 9 1,619
Allie
Wedding Website for Split Ceremony & Reception
Allie, on July 5, 2021 at 11:10 AM

My fiancé and I decided we will be having a small destination ceremony out of state with a big reception in-state in my family's backyard a couple weeks later. Do I need to have 2 separate wedding...

Jacks, Jul 5, 2021 3 1,064
Alexandria
Invitations not recieved
Alexandria, on July 1, 2021 at 6:51 PM

Ive invited family/friends from Texas california and arkansas. My texas people havent recieved invites, but california and Arkansas has. What do you do if you've sent invites and people do not recieve...

, Jul 5, 2021 9 2,345
Katherine
covid Bride - Bridal shower/ bachelorette
Katherine, on July 1, 2021 at 12:02 AM

My COVID brides who got married legally last year and are having a reception this year - did your bridal party throw you a shower/ bachelorette? Last year, I was supposed to get married in August, and...

Alyssa, Jul 4, 2021 10 562
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