Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Didn't really want children at mine, i even thought my 11 year old niece is too young. I said no kids to everyone but my future in laws brother is bringing his 8 year old. She is apparently mature and...

Hi everyone! We are getting married in Orlando (we live in MI so its destination) in Sept. It is almost 2 weeks past our rsvp deadline and there are 2 couples that have yet to rsvp. We have texted...

We are going to pay a tab of $1000 for the reception, and after that the guests will be responsible for their drinks. It will also be beer and wine only (if they want liquor the hotel has a...

So our wedding is Aug 2022! I plan on finalizing the guest list in Nov/Dec this year so we can get STDs ordered and sent out by January 2022. Our venue max is 200 and our guest list (not including us)...

My FH was in a bind a while back and asked someone to be his groomsman. He also asked his closer friend to be one (gm#2). GM 1&2 we’re together at the time of asking and two weeks until our...

My cousin's fiance passed away a couple months ago. We're not super closer, but we see each maybe once a year. I've heard from my parents that he mentioned not attending my wedding in October because...

My friend and his wife had a small wedding last year due to Covid and this fall they are having a larger celebration. He had mentioned a few weeks ago his wife's MOH dropped out after she received her...

I’m getting married in August. One of my guy friends original plus one isn’t able to come to the wedding and asked if he could bring his friend (who happens to be my ex). We are cordial and have the...

I've seen some discussion around this, but does anyone have any examples of COVID invitation inserts I could use as inspiration? Our church is requiring masks for all unvaccinated guests, and we are...

We were married on 5/21/21 and my photographer is behind in getting our photos edited and back to us. We intend on using one of the photos and we should get them back before the end of this week. I am...

My best friend from college and I used to talk about being bridesmaids in each other’s weddings. Some things have changed since then, but I know she still expects to be a bridesmaid. We have hung out...

I could do with your advice. My sister was meant to be married in July this year but because of COVID she's moved her wedding to May 2021. She's also going to be in my bridal party for my wedding in...

So my boyfriend and I have been couple friends with this couple that lives across the street. We have only ever known them as a couple and only ever have hung out as a group of 4. We are super close...

My fiance and I are a long-distance relationship we are 1 year and almost 4 months together. we want to get married soon. I know would be my second wedding and it's his first time getting married. I...

Hi all! I’m really struggling making a decision on this one… do I invite my brother’s in-laws to my wedding? Long story short, my brother got married last year during Covid and had a small, 60 person...

This may be silly and I know I'm probably over thinking this, but do the wedding invitations go out 6-8 weeks before the wedding date, or is it 6-8 weeks before the respond by date?

Hi everyone! I know it is a controversial topic, but I have chosen not to open gifts at the bridal shower tea that my MOH is throwing for me because 1.) I would rather spend the time actually talking...

Hi!!! Is it tacky to send the Save The Dates via email (Evite) to save money??? Do you have any other suggestions on how to send them out on a budget? Thank you!!!

I am trying to figure out if we should invite my FH's step-siblings or not. He's never really spent time with them at all growing up and doesn't have a current relationship with them. He's not...

Hey all! So we are thinking of parents gifts and just wanted some ideas from people about gifts that won’t break the bank! Also my parents r paying for the plates for our 200 person wedding, fiancé’s...