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Allie
Wedding Website for Split Ceremony & Reception
Allie, on July 5, 2021 at 11:10 AM

My fiancé and I decided we will be having a small destination ceremony out of state with a big reception in-state in my family's backyard a couple weeks later. Do I need to have 2 separate wedding...

Jacks, Jul 5, 2021 3 1,056
Alexandria
Invitations not recieved
Alexandria, on July 1, 2021 at 6:51 PM

Ive invited family/friends from Texas california and arkansas. My texas people havent recieved invites, but california and Arkansas has. What do you do if you've sent invites and people do not recieve...

, Jul 5, 2021 9 2,304
Katherine
covid Bride - Bridal shower/ bachelorette
Katherine, on July 1, 2021 at 12:02 AM

My COVID brides who got married legally last year and are having a reception this year - did your bridal party throw you a shower/ bachelorette? Last year, I was supposed to get married in August, and...

Alyssa, Jul 4, 2021 10 559
Melissa
"Almost Married" party?
Melissa, on July 4, 2021 at 3:07 PM

My fiancé and I got engaged in September of 2020. We had planned on getting married this September but decided to push it to September of 2022 because COVID restrictions were still in place when we...

Michelle, Jul 4, 2021 5 737
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Not getting my own way at my own wedding :/
Scared, on June 27, 2021 at 4:34 PM

Didn't really want children at mine, i even thought my 11 year old niece is too young. I said no kids to everyone but my future in laws brother is bringing his 8 year old. She is apparently mature and...

Steph, Jul 4, 2021 36 1,760
Melanie
rsvp Issue
Melanie, on June 27, 2021 at 6:15 PM

Hi everyone! We are getting married in Orlando (we live in MI so its destination) in Sept. It is almost 2 weeks past our rsvp deadline and there are 2 couples that have yet to rsvp. We have texted...

Samantha, Jul 3, 2021 19 962
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How to word a limited bar on the invitation?
Sarah, on February 9, 2018 at 2:54 PM

We are going to pay a tab of $1000 for the reception, and after that the guests will be responsible for their drinks. It will also be beer and wine only (if they want liquor the hotel has a...

Jacks, Jul 3, 2021 67 36,883 2
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Do we need to make cuts?
Bride2Be, on July 2, 2021 at 4:59 PM

So our wedding is Aug 2022! I plan on finalizing the guest list in Nov/Dec this year so we can get STDs ordered and sent out by January 2022. Our venue max is 200 and our guest list (not including us)...

Bride2Be, Jul 3, 2021 19 704
Aloha and Mahalo
Removing a gm on short notice?
Aloha and Mahalo, on July 2, 2021 at 4:02 AM

My FH was in a bind a while back and asked someone to be his groomsman. He also asked his closer friend to be one (gm#2). GM 1&2 we’re together at the time of asking and two weeks until our...

Judith, Jul 3, 2021 7 411
Corrin
Cousin's fiancé passed away -
Corrin, on June 30, 2021 at 7:51 PM

My cousin's fiance passed away a couple months ago. We're not super closer, but we see each maybe once a year. I've heard from my parents that he mentioned not attending my wedding in October because...

Judith, Jul 3, 2021 18 892
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Friend's Wedding
Veronica, on July 2, 2021 at 1:08 AM

My friend and his wife had a small wedding last year due to Covid and this fall they are having a larger celebration. He had mentioned a few weeks ago his wife's MOH dropped out after she received her...

Jennifer, Jul 2, 2021 15 830
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Is it ok to let my ex attend the wedding?
Jesse, on July 1, 2021 at 9:02 PM

I’m getting married in August. One of my guy friends original plus one isn’t able to come to the wedding and asked if he could bring his friend (who happens to be my ex). We are cordial and have the...

Shannon, Jul 2, 2021 15 1,172
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covid Policy Insert in Invitations
Susie, on June 25, 2021 at 4:24 PM

I've seen some discussion around this, but does anyone have any examples of COVID invitation inserts I could use as inspiration? Our church is requiring masks for all unvaccinated guests, and we are...

Susie, Jul 2, 2021 8 509 1
Eyonna
Thank You Time Frame
Eyonna, on June 28, 2021 at 11:23 PM

We were married on 5/21/21 and my photographer is behind in getting our photos edited and back to us. We intend on using one of the photos and we should get them back before the end of this week. I am...

Amanduh, Jul 2, 2021 8 226
Abbey
Should i make this friend a bridesmaid?
Abbey, on July 1, 2021 at 1:31 PM

My best friend from college and I used to talk about being bridesmaids in each other’s weddings. Some things have changed since then, but I know she still expects to be a bridesmaid. We have hung out...

Peyton, Jul 2, 2021 8 678
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Required spray tanning for bridesmaids?
Brittany, on September 6, 2020 at 1:11 PM

I could do with your advice. My sister was meant to be married in July this year but because of COVID she's moved her wedding to May 2021. She's also going to be in my bridal party for my wedding in...

Megan, Jul 1, 2021 53 4,230
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Left out?!
Lia, on June 24, 2021 at 3:27 AM

So my boyfriend and I have been couple friends with this couple that lives across the street. We have only ever known them as a couple and only ever have hung out as a group of 4. We are super close...

I_Do_Too, Jul 1, 2021 40 2,597
Joann
i need advice
Joann, on June 30, 2021 at 12:16 PM

My fiance and I are a long-distance relationship we are 1 year and almost 4 months together. we want to get married soon. I know would be my second wedding and it's his first time getting married. I...

Joann, Jun 30, 2021 8 512
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Should i invite my brothers in-laws?
Melody, on June 29, 2021 at 10:23 PM

Hi all! I’m really struggling making a decision on this one… do I invite my brother’s in-laws to my wedding? Long story short, my brother got married last year during Covid and had a small, 60 person...

Kari, Jun 30, 2021 12 1,272
Sara
Wedding Invitation Confusion
Sara, on June 30, 2021 at 9:43 AM

This may be silly and I know I'm probably over thinking this, but do the wedding invitations go out 6-8 weeks before the wedding date, or is it 6-8 weeks before the respond by date?

Richaelyn, Jun 30, 2021 7 580
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