Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My FH’s two very close friends got engaged in May 2020. Over the summer, my FH received a STD addressed just to him. Since they got engaged, we have moved in together and gotten engaged ourselves. My...

Why can't people send rsvp's back? How hard is this? If it's a no, say no even if it's a maybe, shoot a text saying you are trying to work something out but just not sending it is rude. At least mail...

Hi! I need someone to tell me if I am overreacting or if I am right to feel this way. I am the MOH for my cousin's wedding which is next year. Right now, we are in the process of ordering bridesmaid...

I am posting this to see if myself (the bride) is expecting too much from my best friend (bridesmaid). Pretty much my friend has been acting strange since I’ve been engaged. I asked her to be a...

The more I read posts on here the more I wonder if we should do welcome bags for guests. We're still trying to work out room blocks before we send out invitations, but all of our guests are flying in....

My fiance and I want a small intimate wedding with a business casual dress code. I only want 50 people, 60 at the maximum, to be in attendance, so only close friends and close family. With that being...

I am in the bridal party of a wedding next summer, and I got an email from the MoH saying the bachelorette will be in vegas and the brides airfare and hotel will come out to 1K (which we would split...

My wife and I are best friends with a couple who are getting married next year. We’ve known the groom for many years and I’ve known the bride since childhood. The wedding plans started ramping up...

October 2021 Brides, we are almost there! I've been seeing a lot of posts about Save the Date and Invitation timing and it's got me thinking. From the start (since the postponement), I've been...

My fiancé and I are having a private destination ceremony. We are filming it and putting it on our site. We want to send out cards letting people know where to find the wedding video and photos. How...

Hi - looking for advice on wedding timeline... catholic mass that is super early - trying to determine ideal timeline for reception 1PM Ceremony - Catholic Mass - should be done by 2PM (**Reception...

Hi Everyone! So just in need of a bit of advice. We're planning a small +/- 50 person destination wedding in Arizona and 90% of our guests, including ourselves are from Chicago. We understand that...

Hello! I really need a third party thoughts on my current situation. So my future sister in law is asking for another plus. Her current plus one is her baby daddy’s mother, let’s call her grandma J....

Hello! I have a dilemma, I have no idea how to word our invitations! I like the traditional announcement of the brides parents, but my father is deceased and I still want to include him on the...

Hello! I have recently been invited to a wedding where they are asking for money gifts VS any presents. I LOVE this and I am personally doing it for my wedding since my fiance and I already live...

I’m venting/ranting a bit here but also open to advice. My husband and I got married a few weeks ago but since we are from across the country, we decided to have a second reception for all of his...

Hey Lovely brides! I am having a little dilemma and I could honestly use your help. I have a bridesmaids in whom I asked to take part in my wedding but I am starting to regret that I asked her. I have...

I am getting married this February and have had my date/venue booked for a little over a month, my fiancé’s cousin is also engaged but is just starting to plan his wedding. We have a really good...

We are about 130 days out from my wedding and my maid/matron of honor stepped down because her due date changed for her first child and it’s about 7 days before my wedding. I am over the moon excited...

We are wanting to give guests the option to RSVP by sending the card back in a stamped envelope (included) or via our wedding website. Any suggestions on how to word that on the RSVP card?