Guest Dress Attire

No because dress code is not listed on the invitation according to proper etiquette. Unless the venue requires a dress code for entry (similar to the Oscars for example) it doesn’t go on the invitation but is assumed to be default semi formal which most guests will automatically wear. You can mention it on the website or by word of mouth.

Putting it on website: cocktail/semi-formal

Hi ! I've just got this in an invitation : "No dress code, but the white is reserved for the bride".

I think that most of your guests will just know what (not) to wear... It's worth mentioning when you do want them to put on some special colors.

I put formal (black tie optional) on the details card and the website. I’ve been to a lot of “formal” weddings where guest wear semi formal so I hope the black tie optional opposed to just formal encourages people to dress up

Unfortunately I do have a few family members who just can not dress appropriately for weddings so on the details card at the bottom in smaller font I put “please not cocktail attire requested” I also picked a little bit fancier invites to convey they but I know that doesn’t always get noticed. I’m hoping the small note will just remind people not to wear shorts and polo shirts like they’ve done numerous times in the past.

We listed our dress code on a details card to go with out invitation suites and also on our website!

Like April, we have family members who will show up in jeans if we didn't mention anything. I am for sure mentioning the attire on the website and may mention it on the detail cards as well.

If you want semi-formal or formal be sure to say that. Most people know to wear their Sunday best to a wedding... but my fiance went to a friend's wedding on the lake Saturday where it was specified "casual" and people showed up in short, sleeveless undershirts, shirts with sleeves removed, and flip-flops. He was overdressed in jeans, boots, and a button down shirt. Needless to say, the bride cried.

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Girl, not everyone. My dad's ex-girlfriend showed up in a white dress for my wedding. I had to stop my friends from "accidently" spilling a drink on her.

We aren't including a details or RSVP card, and we're not including it on our invitation. We do have that information on our website under FAQs, and it's also going to pop up when they RSVP online.

We just put "Cocktail or Semi-Formal Attire"

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OMG, really ?? She didn't know or did that on purpose...?

View Quoted Comment She said casual, because it was on the lake. I don't think she expected them to take it so far.

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She did it on purpose. I think she was hinting to my dad that she wanted to get married... but my wedding was not the place.

If you saw "business casual" on my wedding website, what would you wear? Just curious- I might change the wording if you think that people would wear shorts. I am aiming for summer comfort like khakis and collared shirt for guys and sundresses or slacks with nice top for gals.

We didn't list anything on the invitation itself, we did put the requested attire on our wedding website though. We did cocktail attire.

I put it on my FAQ on my webpage that semi formal would be great!

We don't have a wedding website, so we had "Cocktail Attire" on the bottom of the invitation.

We are putting it on our wedding website and probably our invitations as well because unfortunately, we have people who won't dress for the occasion unless they're told to. We put "semi-formal attire, please leave white for the bride." Something simple so people know how to dress.

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Instead if "business casual" you should say "dressy casual." business casual implies office attire!

The only time a dress code should be on an invitation is for Black Tie. Even then, it really is only describing a level of formality for the event, not an actual level of dress. The style of invitation and the venue will indicate the type of dress that will be appropriate. The problem with using things like "casual semi-formal" or "dressy casual" is that it confuses people.