Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi all, wondering your advice on this decision I’ve been playing around with. My fiancé and I are getting married 8/14/21 (less than three weeks!) and our RSVPs were due back on 7/3. A week or so...

Who do I tip and what is the appropriate amount? I have read conflicting information. Thanks!!

My husband and I are really struggling with our invitation list. Our wedding was postponed from October 2020 to October of this year because of COVID. We sent our save the dates in early 2020...

My husband and I eloped to the courthouse in 2016. We were too poor to afford a wedding at the time but we are now in a better financial situation. We were considering throwing a vow renewal so that...

Hi all, Long story short we can't afford a full-on rehearsal dinner. We want to keep the concept of a rehearsal dinner/welcome celebration open to the many folks coming from across the country and...

How do you address a wedding invite when two guests live together (they are roommates) and both get to bring a guest? Do I send one invite to their address and say "A + B and Guests", or do I send two...

Would anyone be willing to share your gift ideas for your bridesmaids? Thanks

My wedding was postponed due to COVID, but for insurance reasons we were legally married at the courthouse. We haven’t told anyone (and don’t want to), but now it’s time to make our new invitations....

EDIT: The wedding was not in January but I can't figure out how to update it. Covid delay. This may be a silly questions but is it weird to address them differently depending on the side? I know his...

I’ve posted a few times about my MOH gift and for some reason, deep down nothing I’ve come up with seems perfect. I remember years ago my siblings & I purchased a living locket for our mom for...

How do you know if the gift sent is meant for the bridal shower or our wedding day? I feel like we should wait until at least after the shower to open them. But I'm not sure what is traditional or...

My husband’s only sibling is getting married. Him and his girlfriend were both in our wedding. My husbands brother was best man and his gf was a bridesmaid. My husband told me that he was asked to be...

I'm in the process of stuffing my invitations and noticed the inner and outer envelopes are the same size which is making it difficult for me to assemble this and mail it out. Some of the envelopes...

We are attending a kind of destination wedding it’s about 2 hours away at a 4 diamond resort. It’s honestly a wedding & a vacation. We got room discount codes for 35% off. It’s costing us about...

I've had a long engagement-- we've been engaged for over 2 years. My bridesmaids accepted their roles a month after I was engaged. So they've been "bridesmaids" for almost 2 years. It took me awhile...

My fiance and I are getting married at her father's barn. The venue will hold about 100 (which is actually about all WE want at the ceremony. We are wanting to invite our close friends, parents,...

So our wedding is just over a month away, our RSVPs are due tomorrow, and the mother of the groom is trying to invite more friends after knowing of people in the family who declined. Im frustrated...

Does anyone else have someone in their wedding party who’s from another country? Specifically France/the EU? Our wedding is on Saturday, September 11, 2021. Has anyone had any luck with or any...

A little background - my mom comes from a family where she is the youngest of nine. I think she feels a lot of pressure to “show out” for her family, and I am her oldest daughter and the first to get...

Is it appropriate for the rabbi to bring his wife to the ceremony?