Okay, I have millions of questions and in slightly scattered brained in my train of thoughts (thanks to loads of concusions). Anywaaayyy...
BACKGROUND: we have been together for 9 years, lived together for 6 or 7 years maybe? Got engaged in April of 2020, COVID prevented a 2021 wedding, bought a house in July of 2020, and eloped just the two of us and a justice of the peace to have a sunset beach elopement in March of 2021 (on our dating anniversary). Nothing was planned, nothing was rented, I got a white dress from Macy's haha. Having a wedding was non-negotiable, and while engaged we planned it until covid made it impossible so we eloped, but the wedding is still happening on 10/01/2022 (I have the venue and my dress).
Questions: 1. I wasn't able to have an engagement party to celebrate which made me really sad, still am to this day because of covid, and waiting a year to have the party seemed weird. But I still want to have the pre-wedding shannanagins, i.e. bridal shower, bachelorette/bachelor party, etc. Is it weird to do all of that even though we're legally married from our elopement?
2. Because we've been together so long, I don't think we really need "gifts" but a bridal shower would still be fun with different gifts. Any advice or thoughts?
2/3. We are paying for the wedding ourselves, got a venue for an entire weekend that has houses/cabins we have already rented, so no one has to pay for sleeping accommodations for the weekend unless they want to stay somewhere else. Regarding gifts: as I mentioned we've been together for a long time, lived with each other, I feel we have everything we need (maybe sheets or towels would be nice, but irdk?). I'd rather have a honeymoon fund. Is that weird?
This all just feels weird and I never imagined planning out my wedding like this, under all of these weird circumstances. Any advice is appreciated and kudos to those of you who made it through this looonnngggg winded post. LOL 💕😘
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