Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello! I'm getting married Sept 2022. My fiance has 2 SILs and 1 Sister. The sister in laws I wasn't in ANY part of their wedding. But let me explain: SIL #1 We had only been dating 8 months (but she...

We are trying to keep our wedding under 60 people due to covid and cost. Most of my family is in Colorado and im not terribly intrested in havng most of the extendee family attend anyway. They cause...

I am in a situation where almost everyone in the bridal party has at least two children. I would really enjoy a childless wedding especially since there will be some alcohol involved. Not to mention...

Wondering if it’s customary to tip your wedding venue and how much. Our venue is doing all of the set up and clean up, providing the food/dessert along with bartenders, waitstaff and a day of...

I'm curious to know if majority of you heard from a large bulk of your guests right before your deadline? Our deadline for responses is set for this Friday the 13th, but we still have 95 people...

Hello! My wedding is on 05/06/22 and I currently have 4 bridesmaid. Two maids of honor (my sisters), my oldest childhood friend and my boyfriend’s best friend’s girlfriend, who I’ve recently gotten...

So I’ll preface this by saying I got divorced when the bride got engaged. I invited both the groom and her to my own rehearsal dinner and wedding while they were just dating (not yet engaged). I was...

How do you guys cope with a major disappointment from a vendor? It’s nothing I can fix in now or redo. It was a lot of money spent and I think the hardest part is I feel bad for wanting to get it off...

I have already planned to tip my hair dresser and makeup artist. We don’t have a ton of vendors because we are having a very small ceremony and no reception. Which vendors are you expected to tip? I...

I am undecided if I will invite children to my wedding. My sister, cousins and friends all have young children which can get overwhelming even at the ceremony. What are your thoughts?

I see posts all the time about having a kid free wedding, but how are you all actually wording it on your invite? We aren't having a wedding website so can't put it there - we would rather put it on a...

Is it: A block of rooms has been set aside at or A block of rooms have been set aside at I keep overthinking it and they both sound weird to me now, lol.

Where did this HoneyFund come from ? All my life I haven't heard anything about that, and all of a sudden I hear about it all the time 1. HONEYFUNDS Are Rude And Disgusting. DON'T ask people to pay...

Hey! I had a few people that I invited to my bridal shower not come due to other plans or having to travel. They did not send a gift or a card. Should I still send them a thank you card stating I...

Anyone’s wedding coming up in the next few months and planning on addressing Covid precautious at all with guests before the day? Right now, things are completely open where I live and people are...

Really needing some advice: My fiancé and I have gone to strippers together before and so I told him if your going to a strip club that is fine just NO lap dances. I’m just not in to the whole idea of...

Hi all!! Happy wedding planning! I have a question about address etiquette.A lot of the people I am inviting to our wedding are extended family that although I haven't spoken to them in a while,...

We're having 350 guests, do I order a cake for 350 guests or half of that?

It isnt Crazy b**tch :-p I want to walk down the aisle to Lana Del Rey's Young and Beautiful but my mother thinks it isnt appropriate? This song just makes me feel so emotional, I think it will be...

Hello! Looking for a little advice and comfort 😭 Context- my brother and his wife got divorced early this year. I absolutely adore her, and we've become very close over their 13 year relationship. Im...