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Please leave your comment, advice or suggestion for our planned wedding website announcement. Thank you all! The health and safety of our wedding guests is our top priority. Vaccines protect everyone....

Hi everyone. I have been racking my brain for the last few days on this idea. I am trying to find a non-gendered way to refer to wedding party members. We have mixed genders on both sides. I've been...

Hi everybody! I’ve joined in hoping to get some advice/insight regarding our last minute elopement plans. We’ve been together 10 years as of August 6. We’ve always said we wanted to elope so we...

I teach elementary school and I'm getting married in April (during our spring break). I'm guessing I will still go by Ms. Maiden Name for the rest of the school year since it'll only be for 2 months...

Hello everyone, so I need some advice. What would you do if two friends are fighting and they aren't getting along. :/ My wedding isn't until 2023...... But I know these two won't resolve or trying to...

My Brother got married last fall, and I went to both the wedding and the reception and all the events that go along with it. Here's my problem: They are having a larger reception this September, but I...

Hello! Wondering what the wedding wire hive thinks... Our venue provides a bartender for a $300 fee. I always tip 20%, but what do I tip off of? The $300 fee? The price of the alcohol?...

I have a situation that is really bothering me. Of all the issues I expected to have with my wedding guests, this was definitely not one of them and any advice on how to navigate this is appreciated!...

Hello all, I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. I have chosen to have my mother walk me down the aisle because I have a weird relationship with my dad (who has recently come back into my life) and I...

I have like 30 extra std's what the hell am I gonna do with them!?!

Im sending out invitations. Im doing a mix of e-invites via text message for some, some via facebook and some via mail for older guests who are not technology savvy. (I know this is very informal. We...

Hi! I have a predicament. I don’t want to invite my friends boyfriend to my wedding. Both my fiancé and I can’t stand him, as he has always been rude to us. In the past, he attacked me on social media...

So we have had a few guests buy us some gifts off our registry when they RSVPd. I’m usually the type to send out a thank you note ASAP, but I initially wanted to send out a thank you card with a photo...

My aunt did not buy me a wedding gift. When I wrote my thank you notes I wrote one to her thanking her for celebrating with us. I suspect she received the note and realized she hadn’t bought me a gift...

I am actually not even engaged yet, but I know it will be coming very soon! Something I already am stressing over is my bridal party. I have three sisters and have always wanted a small wedding party...

I came up with the idea to get personalized cookies to ask all of my girls to be my bridesmaids. I got the cookies and asked them all but the last one I asked was my FH sisters. There is a bit of...

What are some classy ways to display a memorial for lost loved ones who can’t be there to celebrate. I lost my mom a couple years ago but I want to do something to remember her.

I have a friend who sent me a text asking for a plus one and if she could bring her boyfriend to our wedding. This friend is part of a group of girls so i only invited the girls and have not met any...

My mom asked me a few days ago to uninvite all of my family and friends attending my shower who are not vaccinated...my shower is this weekend. FH's cousin is unvaccinated (they do not meet age...