Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello all, I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. I have chosen to have my mother walk me down the aisle because I have a weird relationship with my dad (who has recently come back into my life) and I...

I have like 30 extra std's what the hell am I gonna do with them!?!

Im sending out invitations. Im doing a mix of e-invites via text message for some, some via facebook and some via mail for older guests who are not technology savvy. (I know this is very informal. We...

Hi! I have a predicament. I don’t want to invite my friends boyfriend to my wedding. Both my fiancé and I can’t stand him, as he has always been rude to us. In the past, he attacked me on social media...

So we have had a few guests buy us some gifts off our registry when they RSVPd. I’m usually the type to send out a thank you note ASAP, but I initially wanted to send out a thank you card with a photo...

My aunt did not buy me a wedding gift. When I wrote my thank you notes I wrote one to her thanking her for celebrating with us. I suspect she received the note and realized she hadn’t bought me a gift...

I am actually not even engaged yet, but I know it will be coming very soon! Something I already am stressing over is my bridal party. I have three sisters and have always wanted a small wedding party...

I came up with the idea to get personalized cookies to ask all of my girls to be my bridesmaids. I got the cookies and asked them all but the last one I asked was my FH sisters. There is a bit of...

What are some classy ways to display a memorial for lost loved ones who can’t be there to celebrate. I lost my mom a couple years ago but I want to do something to remember her.

I have a friend who sent me a text asking for a plus one and if she could bring her boyfriend to our wedding. This friend is part of a group of girls so i only invited the girls and have not met any...

My mom asked me a few days ago to uninvite all of my family and friends attending my shower who are not vaccinated...my shower is this weekend. FH's cousin is unvaccinated (they do not meet age...

Hi everyone - the age old debate! Our wedding is 12/18/21 and I’m in the process of fine tuning some details. As far as kids at the wedding goes, the way I see it is 1) our families have kids and 2)...

We got married 8/14/21 and it was wonderful!! How long before we send out thank you cards??

What is a good amount of time to give your guests to RSVP? How many days should you give yourself as a buffer for late RSVPs and delayed mail between your RSVP deadline and the deadline your venue has...

I know formally when sending out wedding invites and you are extending a plus one you are supposed to address the envelope to Ms. Jane Doe and Guest. Would it really be that big of a deal if I did not...

My husband and I are already married, but our upcoming wedding is the formal ceremony and party for all our family and friends to partake in! We are not having bachelor/ette parties or an engagement...

My fiancé is a groomsmen in his cousins wedding - his cousin got an airbnb house for all of his groomsmen and their significant others (it's a destination wedding). My question is / what I'm...

Fellow brides! My husband and I had a small ceremony last year and had to postpone our reception to this year. We sent out additional invitations. The RSVP is due September 1 (our reception is oct 8)....

I was wondering if it would be acceptable to hand deliver wedding invitations to family and friends who will be in town this weekend for my bridal shower?