Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Background: My December 2020 wedding was postponed one year due to COVID and later downsized from 150 to 45 due to COVID restrictions in light of recent outbreak. My bachelorette was planned before...

So one of my guests was coming with her friend as her plus 1. I know the plus 1 but not really know her know her. I hope that makes sense. My guest told me the other day that her husband just asked...

We were supposed to take our b/g shots during golden hour, but a downpour came out of nowhere during that time, so the only formal b/g pictures were taken with family before the ceremony, and a couple...

We're a little less than 3 weeks out and my fiancé now wants to add a friend and I don't think theres a proper way to do that. It would have to be a verbal invite and that looks so bad. This guy was...

Hi everyone! My wedding is coming up pretty soon, and we decided on an "adult's only" wedding. We have on our website that kids are not allowed, but I'm concerned that some parents did not look...

Hi guys .getting marriednnto my boyfriend and his mother is pushing him to do a wedding, they all know that i don't want wedding but they mother want celebrate her son , i tlwould be so unhappy in...

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I settled on a venue that we absolutely love and has fantastic reviews as far as customer service, but during the tour of the venue and going over numbers, the salesperson...

I've worked at a small business for 3 years. I kind of have 3 bosses - my direct boss, her direct supervisor, and the owner of the company - all of whom I have daily contact with. They're all very...

I’m legally getting legally married in September way ahead of our original date set for June due to personal and financial reasons. This will just be a civil ceremony at the courthouse just us. Then...

Hello! Getting married September 7th of this year! Our venue has a strict “No Outside Alcohol” policy, how do I let our guests know this? We are having an open bar during cocktail hour, then the rest...

I have a few questions regarding flower girls and ring bearers. 1. Who buys the flower girl's basket and ring bearer's pillow? 2. If it's me, where can I buy cute affordable baskets and pillows?...

Hey brides! Concerning long engagements, like 2 or more years long.... How do you not get discourage? What has made you keep going with planning in a slow pace? Tell me all about it because I'm...

My Fiancé has a few guy friends/ family members that he really wants to stand with him during the ceremony. He has already asked a few and they have accepted. I think it's great that he wants to...

I’m in Australia where the Delta variant has sent the country spiraling and we have found ourselves in the middle of a 3 month lockdown. Our government is very slowly planning to go back to normalcy...

I’ll preface this by saying I don’t have the normal body for today’s standards which make things even harder. I’m 6’0, have very broad shoulders, and very high and wide hip dips. I can be very hard on...

Does anyone else have wedding guests talking about getting their hair and makeup professionally done for your wedding? How does that make you feel? Because for me, honestly it upsets me that I'm...

We plan on sending out save the dates in January after the holidays, and I was wondering if anyone shared the hotel booking link with their bridal party before then or just leave it on the website for...

Hi all. I am putting together my details card and on the back, I want to put some information about covid. We live in Arizona, so I am not at all worried that we will have a mask mandate or a shut...

I'm having a Norse pagan handfasting in May but some of our guests don't quite know what they are coming to. I'd like to include a card with the invitations to explain a handfasting, the colors and...

So my fiancé and I have had our save the dates for about a month now and have looked over them many times since receiving them. Have had them looked over by my mother as well. We just sent them out 2...