Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Everyone in my family has a job. My sister under me is going to my my moh and my 1 year old sister will be my flower girl! I have a 10 year old sister who will be 12 by the time of the wedding and I...

What did everyone get or what are you getting for your parents and maid of honor? We’re having a destination wedding so don’t want to bring large items, but also meaningful and special!

Hi ladies, I am actually not engaged yet, but this will happen at the end of this month. For some reason I'm getting really emotional if I think about my partners previous marriage. It sounds strange...

My wedding venue only allows 175 guests. Unfortunately, I have a large family (all older cousins, some with 5-8 kids). Those who have the larger families are out of state. We're toying with an...

Unfortunately my future FIL passed away last night. We were set to take our engagement pictures tomorrow and mail them in a few weeks. With our sudden loss it doesn’t feel like a good time to mail...

How many of your fiances are going to strip clubs for their bachelor parties? Is anyone besides me not really feeling that idea? The thought of a naked woman grinding on top of my fiance, giving him a...

I plan on having a cash bar for our reception....I read in an article that was rude....should I just pay for the bar....I don't really want to because it's not in my budget

SOOOOO, my two Matrons and Maid are NEVER available. Like they don’t even respond to text messages. I don’t have sisters and I THOUGHT I chose Women who are going to be here throughout the process....

About 2 years ago, my fiancé’s (my then boyfriend) college friend got married. At this point, my boyfriend and I had been dating for 3 years and living together for 2 years. I have met this couple...

Hi everyone! I’m a bridesmaid who was apart of a COVID wedding that got postponed a year due to everything that happened. The bride had a minimony last year, where I gave her a normal check/ wedding...

What is a common or standard amount to tip your wedding planner/coordinator? Just curious what others have done! She has truly been a godsend planning our wedding with us for over 2 years now and...

Sorry if this is a bit long, but there is a lot to unpack to give you guys an idea of the serious pickle I'm in (along with FW, but it's not as much her issue, and she's firm in standing by whatever...

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I are getting married next July and are having a wedding of about 150 guests. We have a lot of out-of-town guests and are anticipating about 130 people to be staying at the...

I had my wedding in may but have been stressing because my sister in law did our photos and I feel like there aren’t enough. It’s mostly my fault, as she offered to do it for free and I didn’t hire...

This is really personal, but I need advice. I never had a good relationship with my dad, he was manipulative and abusive and it's been six years since I've spoken to him. My stepdad is the most...

Hi everyone, The only 2 groomsmen just dropped out of the wedding (in October) as their wives/SO’s are not comfortable traveling due to covid. I feel so bad for my FH as he is super disappointed and...

Our venue has a maximum capacity of 100. Today, my fiancé and I worked on our guest list and that ended up being 116 guests. We are having our wedding in Eureka Springs. This is a “destination...

This is very difficult for me and I have no idea where to turn or what to do. I just found out my fiance of 2 years has been texting other men and sending them inappropriate pictures. At first, she...

I want to unask a bridesmaid simply because I made a mistake. I was so very excited after engagement and asked too many people, too soon. Our wedding is still 20 months away, we don't have a venue...