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Maid of honor is in hospital, one month before wedding and i would like to ask my friend to fill in - is it too late?
Jenna, on September 15, 2021 at 7:59 PM

My maid of honor, also my cousin, is unfortunately in the hospital currently having a very tough time with her pregnancy. She was planning on coming to my wedding, bought her dress, etc. So this is...

Kari, Sep 17, 2021 15 812
Kylie
To include or to not include grooms family?
Kylie, on September 16, 2021 at 12:55 PM

Hey there everyone! To give this a little bit of context, cause this is long I apologize. But my fiancé’s sister got married earlier this year. Complicated things happened to their wedding, including...

Kari, Sep 17, 2021 20 1,221
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Kids and Kids Meals
C, on September 4, 2021 at 4:14 PM

My venue offers kids meals for children of chicken tenders and fries. We are planning to order these for the children (under 12) as opposed to the normal buffet meal. If we don't order the kids meals,...

GeorgeWilson, Sep 17, 2021 3 240
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Wedding gift advice please!
Caitlin, on September 15, 2021 at 8:20 PM

My husband got invited to a coworker's wedding. I wasn't invited. He wants to give a gift of $150. I think that's too much. Thoughts?

Willow, Sep 16, 2021 16 826
Courtney
We are eloping! Is it still appropriate to ask for gifts when we announce it?
Courtney, on September 12, 2021 at 12:19 AM

My fiancé and I are planning on taking our wedding party, parents and grandparents to the redwoods in may for a small intimate ceremony. We were talking a big wedding and there are people who are...

Mrs. Coakley, Sep 16, 2021 11 7,032
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Bridesmaid Help!!!
Nat, on September 15, 2021 at 2:27 PM

Hi! We got engaged recently and are starting the planning. I have three sisters and my FH has 1 brother, our options for the bridal party are: 1. Just having our siblings stand up. Would this be weird...

Jacks, Sep 16, 2021 7 613
Sarah
Tips and Gratuities
Sarah, on August 23, 2021 at 12:58 AM

What do you do about tipping during the wedding. I will have a DJ, photographer, videographer, shuttle driver, lighting person and wait staff and day of coordinator (provided by the caterer). At least...

Sydney, Sep 15, 2021 5 551
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Late rsvp
Lindsay, on September 15, 2021 at 12:49 PM

One of FH's friends RSVPd no to our wedding (already past the RSVP deadline). They just asked now (less than two weeks out) if they can now come since their plans changed. We already gave final...

Christina, Sep 15, 2021 16 917
Nichole
Save the dates question
Nichole, on September 14, 2021 at 8:17 PM

I am hoping to get my save the dates sent out next week. So my question is I have about 7 people I am still trying to hunt down addresses for, is it ok to send out the save the dates for everyone else...

Jacks, Sep 15, 2021 10 176
Jessica
Professional Photo Etiquette
Jessica, on September 14, 2021 at 11:55 AM

Hello everyone My fiancé and I's big day is next weekend and I am wondering how all of you have handled photos as far as who is in our photos and where to draw the line? That may be a bit vague but...

Sarah, Sep 15, 2021 11 998
Rhonda Nichols
Hytch Wedding in Reno/lake Tahoe area
Rhonda Nichols, on July 11, 2021 at 10:00 AM

Our daughter is getting married in September. We are using A service in Reno for the ceremony. We will have around 25 guest. Our package includes the outside location, arch, flowers, officiant,...

Kristiyan, Sep 15, 2021 4 475
Future Mrs. St Hillaire
FREE!!!!!! My wedding Planner from 1800registry
Future Mrs. St Hillaire, on August 5, 2011 at 5:55 PM

Thanks to a previous bride I recieved my wedding planner today I am so happy to have it and can't wait to use it. Also I got an email from them saying they have put 200 dollars in my honeymoon account...

Elizabeth, Sep 14, 2021 63 1,179
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Job for my 12 Year old sister
Areona, on July 19, 2017 at 8:07 AM

Everyone in my family has a job. My sister under me is going to my my moh and my 1 year old sister will be my flower girl! I have a 10 year old sister who will be 12 by the time of the wedding and I...

Dominique, Sep 14, 2021 26 1,763
Rue
Gifts for parents & maid of honor
Rue, on September 12, 2021 at 6:36 PM

What did everyone get or what are you getting for your parents and maid of honor? We’re having a destination wedding so don’t want to bring large items, but also meaningful and special!

Lynnie, Sep 14, 2021 2 146
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Marrying a divorced man
Misselis, on September 8, 2021 at 2:54 PM

Hi ladies, I am actually not engaged yet, but this will happen at the end of this month. For some reason I'm getting really emotional if I think about my partners previous marriage. It sounds strange...

Alyssa, Sep 14, 2021 16 1,462
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Off-site babysitting for an adults only wedding: Good Idea or no?
Laura, on January 3, 2021 at 12:44 PM

My wedding venue only allows 175 guests. Unfortunately, I have a large family (all older cousins, some with 5-8 kids). Those who have the larger families are out of state. We're toying with an...

Laura, Sep 14, 2021 23 1,615
devotedlydavis
Save the date etiquette, following loss
devotedlydavis, on September 9, 2021 at 5:27 PM

Unfortunately my future FIL passed away last night. We were set to take our engagement pictures tomorrow and mail them in a few weeks. With our sudden loss it doesn’t feel like a good time to mail...

Mrs.a, Sep 14, 2021 13 249
FutureMrsGuzman
Strip Clubs for Bachelor Parties
FutureMrsGuzman, on March 16, 2016 at 8:32 AM

How many of your fiances are going to strip clubs for their bachelor parties? Is anyone besides me not really feeling that idea? The thought of a naked woman grinding on top of my fiance, giving him a...

Candi, Sep 13, 2021 303 38,098 4
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Cash bar
Natalie , on May 11, 2016 at 6:56 PM

I plan on having a cash bar for our reception....I read in an article that was rude....should I just pay for the bar....I don't really want to because it's not in my budget

Candi, Sep 13, 2021 462 4,340
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About to be fired
Lakisha, on August 31, 2021 at 9:01 PM

SOOOOO, my two Matrons and Maid are NEVER available. Like they don’t even respond to text messages. I don’t have sisters and I THOUGHT I chose Women who are going to be here throughout the process....

Hannah, Sep 13, 2021 12 505
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