Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My fiancé and I are planning on taking our wedding party, parents and grandparents to the redwoods in may for a small intimate ceremony. We were talking a big wedding and there are people who are...

Hi! We got engaged recently and are starting the planning. I have three sisters and my FH has 1 brother, our options for the bridal party are: 1. Just having our siblings stand up. Would this be weird...

What do you do about tipping during the wedding. I will have a DJ, photographer, videographer, shuttle driver, lighting person and wait staff and day of coordinator (provided by the caterer). At least...

One of FH's friends RSVPd no to our wedding (already past the RSVP deadline). They just asked now (less than two weeks out) if they can now come since their plans changed. We already gave final...

I am hoping to get my save the dates sent out next week. So my question is I have about 7 people I am still trying to hunt down addresses for, is it ok to send out the save the dates for everyone else...

Hello everyone My fiancé and I's big day is next weekend and I am wondering how all of you have handled photos as far as who is in our photos and where to draw the line? That may be a bit vague but...

Our daughter is getting married in September. We are using A service in Reno for the ceremony. We will have around 25 guest. Our package includes the outside location, arch, flowers, officiant,...

Everyone in my family has a job. My sister under me is going to my my moh and my 1 year old sister will be my flower girl! I have a 10 year old sister who will be 12 by the time of the wedding and I...

What did everyone get or what are you getting for your parents and maid of honor? We’re having a destination wedding so don’t want to bring large items, but also meaningful and special!

Hi ladies, I am actually not engaged yet, but this will happen at the end of this month. For some reason I'm getting really emotional if I think about my partners previous marriage. It sounds strange...

My wedding venue only allows 175 guests. Unfortunately, I have a large family (all older cousins, some with 5-8 kids). Those who have the larger families are out of state. We're toying with an...

Unfortunately my future FIL passed away last night. We were set to take our engagement pictures tomorrow and mail them in a few weeks. With our sudden loss it doesn’t feel like a good time to mail...

How many of your fiances are going to strip clubs for their bachelor parties? Is anyone besides me not really feeling that idea? The thought of a naked woman grinding on top of my fiance, giving him a...

I plan on having a cash bar for our reception....I read in an article that was rude....should I just pay for the bar....I don't really want to because it's not in my budget

SOOOOO, my two Matrons and Maid are NEVER available. Like they don’t even respond to text messages. I don’t have sisters and I THOUGHT I chose Women who are going to be here throughout the process....

About 2 years ago, my fiancé’s (my then boyfriend) college friend got married. At this point, my boyfriend and I had been dating for 3 years and living together for 2 years. I have met this couple...

Hi everyone! I’m a bridesmaid who was apart of a COVID wedding that got postponed a year due to everything that happened. The bride had a minimony last year, where I gave her a normal check/ wedding...

What is a common or standard amount to tip your wedding planner/coordinator? Just curious what others have done! She has truly been a godsend planning our wedding with us for over 2 years now and...