Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi everyone I need honest opinions. Me and my FH are planning a destination wedding for late next year and decided on the weekend of November 5th. When telling his mom these plans she asked us to wait...

Hello, I'm curious who you are giving gifts to and if I'm doing enough For some background we have bridesmaids and groomsmen but nobody else is really involved in the wedding planning or helping...

Do you think it's okay to invite 200 people to our wedding that can only have 150? Normally I wouldn't do this, but it's a destination wedding in Europe so I'm expecting more declines than usual.

Do parents typically get invited to the bachelor or bachelorette?

Hello! My fiance & I, along with my parents are paying for our wedding in January 2022. I know it's standard to write my parents name and then my name and fiance's, but is that wrong to not...

I know it’s customary to handwrite address on envelopes. I plan on using a cute little embosser for our return address, but I’m dabbling with the idea of lightly printing (like a super light gray) the...

Random thought/question I would rather zelle or cash app my vendors who we are tipping. Is it a big deal that I don’t tip them at the end of the night? I was thinking I would give them a thank you...

My fiance and I are planning a VERY intimate wedding of 14 people, just our immediate family. This will probably be his Mother's only opportunity to go through all of the wedding experiences, and...

My maid of honor, also my cousin, is unfortunately in the hospital currently having a very tough time with her pregnancy. She was planning on coming to my wedding, bought her dress, etc. So this is...

Hey there everyone! To give this a little bit of context, cause this is long I apologize. But my fiancé’s sister got married earlier this year. Complicated things happened to their wedding, including...

My venue offers kids meals for children of chicken tenders and fries. We are planning to order these for the children (under 12) as opposed to the normal buffet meal. If we don't order the kids meals,...

My husband got invited to a coworker's wedding. I wasn't invited. He wants to give a gift of $150. I think that's too much. Thoughts?

My fiancé and I are planning on taking our wedding party, parents and grandparents to the redwoods in may for a small intimate ceremony. We were talking a big wedding and there are people who are...

Hi! We got engaged recently and are starting the planning. I have three sisters and my FH has 1 brother, our options for the bridal party are: 1. Just having our siblings stand up. Would this be weird...

What do you do about tipping during the wedding. I will have a DJ, photographer, videographer, shuttle driver, lighting person and wait staff and day of coordinator (provided by the caterer). At least...

One of FH's friends RSVPd no to our wedding (already past the RSVP deadline). They just asked now (less than two weeks out) if they can now come since their plans changed. We already gave final...

I am hoping to get my save the dates sent out next week. So my question is I have about 7 people I am still trying to hunt down addresses for, is it ok to send out the save the dates for everyone else...

Hello everyone My fiancé and I's big day is next weekend and I am wondering how all of you have handled photos as far as who is in our photos and where to draw the line? That may be a bit vague but...

Our daughter is getting married in September. We are using A service in Reno for the ceremony. We will have around 25 guest. Our package includes the outside location, arch, flowers, officiant,...