Hi everyone I need honest opinions.
Me and my FH are planning a destination wedding for late next year and decided on the weekend of November 5th. When telling his mom these plans she asked us to wait a whole other year (Nov. 2023) because my FH cousin is getting married beginning of September & is worried family won’t be able to afford both weddings so close to each other. (It’s 7 weeks after)
His other cousin got married in December 2020 and cancelled their wedding because COVID and they are now considering doing it December 2022 so ours would be in the middle. There is nothing official set though.
Me and my FH do not want to wait any longer, we’ve been dating for 6 years and it’s important to both of us to get married and move in around the same time. Any advice? I love his mom, and it hurts knowing I’m planning a wedding she is not on board with but I also don’t want to sacrifice what will make me happy. Is this rude to do?