Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My wedding is October 1st 2022 I am having trouble writing more formal, because my English is my second language and I am still learning. How would you write this date? Saturday, On October the first...

Hi Everyone! We just sent out our save the dates and our guest list is at 130, but I also just realized a possible etiquette mistake after reading blogs so I am scrambling to make a decision....

Hi! I am planning my wedding for July 2, 2022. I have read other discussion forums, and the general consensus is that asking for a Pre-RSVP is tacky and not going to work. I don't need even a...

Am I out of line for asking the bridesmaids to have hair/makeup and nails done? Nothing over the top... everyone messy updo bun, natural daytime makeup (airbrush for those who don't really do makeup)...

An article popped up in my email about how traditionally immediate family should be in the wedding party. I have an older brother and a younger brother. My fiancé was thinking of having them be...

My fiancé and I are planning a microwedding, 20 people total including us. All are family, except for 2, which are my best friends. I feel that the entire reason we chose a microwedding is because we...

My sister's wedding is in June 2022 and I've been chronically ill for years as well as the financial issues that come with that but she asked me to be her MOH knowing this and I accepted, mentioning...

Wondering if anyone did not like their engagement ring that was obviously chosen by their fiancé.

So my aunt has had multiple excuses for why she wasn't sure if she would attend my wedding. They're from NC and wedding is in Ohio but to be fair they're retired and they've known for a year that I...

Hello! I have 6 bridesmaids and I have requested their measurements to place custom dress orders. I asked my girls on August 27 (Engaged: August 15, Wedding: November 27) to be my bridesmaids. They...

How do I tell wedding guests that they must be vaccinated if they are planning to attend our wedding?

Help! I am so stuck on what to get for my dad for his gift for my wedding. I want to do something a bit nicer for both him and my stepmom as they have helped financially support a large majority of...

So my guilty pleasure of reading anything wedding related on Reddit struck again. I found this post on Reddit, from a few days back where a bridesmaid doesn't want to get a spray tan for her cousins...

My wedding was on June 5th, 2021 and I STILL haven't received my wedding videos from the videographer. We were supposed to receive our teaser video 1 week after the wedding. It's more than 3 months...

We get married next weekend! I’m wondering who receives a thank you card after the wedding? Is it everyone you invited or only those who actually attend, plus those who didn’t come that sent gifts? I...

Hello lovely people! I would like to require vaccinations for ALL of my guests, but both of my parents are unvaccinated and will not get the vaccine. So I have instead opted to require a negative test...

I have one of my college best friends in my wedding as my bridesmaid. We have been friends for about 8 years. Although we don't see each other all the time, we at least talk every couple of weeks....

Hi, I’ll be getting married in January in the Northeast. We are thinking of having our start time for the ceremony be 5 PM. The ceremony and reception and cocktail hour are all in one venue and guest...

Hi All: I was invited to a co-worker's wedding this weekend and had a blast. I chose a gift off her Amazon registry and had it shipped to her. Unfortunately, adding gift options was not a possibility,...