Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My best friend is a bridesmaid in my wedding. I am giving her a plus one to my wedding. She is in another wedding, where she has been told she will not be allowed a plus one, and that she is the only...

My fiancé is in the military, I know it's customary to have his rank and branch on the formal invitations but does this apply to the save the dates as well? We are having a very formal, traditional...

Posting again in another category. Seems I'm having some trouble thinking of a hashtag for our Halloween theme wedding. My fiancee's last name is Reach so I was trying to think around that but I keep...

My MOH is my lifelong best friend so choosing her for the position is a no brainer. She is someone that has always had the ‘mom friend’ complex where she can singlehandedly so everything/ she knows...

A big majority of my wedding guest and party are either active or retired military members. How do I address the invitations so that I do not offend any one. Do I include ranks of those whom are...

Let me see if I can give y'all the short version of my dilemma. I have 4 bridesmaids, My friend if 18+yrs (2 of my bridesmaids), my soon to be step daughter (bridesmaid) and my good friend of 8 years...

Help! Getting married in June 2022 and stumped on where to sleep!! FH and I want to be together the night before with our bridal party and their significant others, plus a few extra key people (maybe...

Old school etiquette* says it is taboo unless it’s required by the venue for entry, similar to Black/White Tie for the Oscars, and some older generations will be offended. What are your thoughts as a...

Hiii guys I’m debating and would love input. Is standing or blanket seating tacky for a beach wedding. Due to Covid 19 and financial reasons we don’t want chairs. We want something very intimate. As...

My FH new stepfather will be attending with his biological mom. He was raised by his stepmom and wants to really just Focus on honoring his moms and dad. He's not to fond of new husband given...

Hello Everyone! My fiancé and I are getting married next weekend! We chose a DJ service near our venue and loved the owner! He was great to talk with and addressed any questions we had. We were...

Hi. I'm mailing my first batch of invites today and I'm starting to freak out big time because now there is no turning back (not that I would...but it's all the more real). I'm 42 and this my first...

Before we got married our neighbors, we became friendly with while walking our dogs, dropped off a bottle of wine and set of 4 Mikasa wine glasses to say congratulations to our apartment. It was so...

I bought my wedding dress and its gorgeous for me! Lots of lace and beading, a form fitting sheath dress that I want to show off. Im 5'4", medium athletic frame, about size 8 in dresses. My question...

Hello, just got engaged and just started wedding planning. What is an appropriate amount of time to wait for an email response? I'm emailing those who are 7 hrs ahead. Is 24-48 hours enough, or is...

A little background real quick: My now husband and I have been together for almost 10 years as boyfriend and girlfriend. When we decided to get married we not only had A LOT of personal ( Legal )...

I have a few aunts and uncles who used to be doctors in the Philippines. When they migrated to the US, they became nurses. My wedding is in the US. Would you still address them as Doctors on the...

So our wedding is in a few weeks! We are having just close family and friends about 50 people. Our day of venue coordinator that works at the venue said that we would top her separately because her...

Needing some advice... My FH best friend passed away unexpectedly. They already discussed him being in the wedding prior to his death. We want to honor him without being too over the top about it. We...