Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I really wanted everyone to come to my wedding wearing black formal wear but is that too much to ask? I am nervous that people will just not come because they dont have anything to wear. I am not a...

Hello! Hoping someone has some advice to give me. My husband and I were married in July of this year, a few months ago. We had a family only, church wedding and small reception afterwards. We had 31...

Hi! My wedding is next Friday in New Jersey and the owner of my venue gave me envelopes to tip the following. I am also paying a 22% service fee. What is reasonable? I have no clue. Maitre D Captain...

Hey there! My name is Syvanna, I am almost 19 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and have decided to start talking about our future. We are currently doing long distance...

Hi ladies, I am getting married next June. We are having the ceremony up in the mountains at a historical bridge that I've had my heart set on for years. The bridge is about 2 hours away from my...

TL;DR - We have to cut our guest list down even further because of COVID restrictions. I want to remove some family from the list (obligatory invites) but it will cause major tension. Advice needed!...

Fiancé and I are having a dry wedding with no registry. The reason for the dry wedding is due to trauma for myself and my fiancé stemming from alcohol abuse, as well as not waving a prior substance...

So out of my bridesmaids 1 is in a serious relationship. Now my wedding is 6 months away so if they start dating they can for sure bring a plus one. I’m having difficulty with my one bridesmaid who...

Hello need your opinion. A friend is asking for a plus one but it is just her girlfriend not a significant other. We have now passed the RSVP date. She is not the closest friend but we have worked...

Okay. So. I’m in a sticky situation and really need some advice. I have a friend that I’m considering firing from her position as matron of honor/bridesmaid. Any advice? Has anyone does this? Please...

I'm wondering if I should write one or two thank yous to my groomsmen who brought dates/married. Do I write just one saying thank you for attending and being a part of my wedding. or should I write...

Maybe I am being over sensitive, but I would appreciate thoughts concerning this topic. A little background first. I am getting married for the second time in a few weeks. My fiance and I are both...

Out of my 150 (64 households), 12 households (20-30) are out of state. We're providing free accommodations for about half of those households since they're cousins, siblings, etc, and that's at our...

I really have my heart set on making RSVPs online due to saving on postage, wedding size, and easier organization. However, I need to know if my guests want a chicken, beef, or vegetarian option. Is...

Is it acceptable to leave the wedding early if you’re in the bridal party? The wedding ends at midnight and we’re not used to staying out that late.

Are direction cards really necessary anymore? Does anyone actually use them, or do we all just plug it into our car or phones GPS?

I just found out I am pregnant and I am due June 2022... my wedding is October 29th 2022. I am looking for some advice on what to do. We are still wanting to keep the wedding date since everything is...

Im currently planning my wedding and have a set number of girls who I want as a bridesmaid. I do have this one girl who used to be my best friend in college that I imagined as my bridesmaid but now we...