Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We got some good deals for the wedding bc of barters/last minute hiring. Definitely want to tip. Want to know how much to tip- all of this will be cash. Philly/NJ area Cake- normal price $456 +...

I want to invite my friend from work and her husband to my wedding in December. They are both Jehovah’s Witnesses, so I want to a) see if this ceremony sounds like something they may be able to attend...

Unfortunately I went through a bad breakout period in the days leading up to my wedding so on my wedding day I had 4 or 5 significant cystic acne bumps on my lower cheeks/side of mouth. I had hoped to...

We are planning to have a wedding of about 50 people. Mostly family and a few close friends. I have been having a really hard time deciding on the friends to invite. Truthfully, I only want to invite...

I'm going to start by saying that that my bridesmaids are all 32 years old and all have good, stable jobs. They all freely travel and live comfortable lives. I feel I've been a *very* understanding...

So long story short my father insisted, if not begged, to pay the entire bill for our wedding. We heavily insisted that we split it 50/50 but it meant so much to him that we caved. Now my mother is...

So, this discussion is more to do with bridal shower which is leading me to worry about the wedding. A lot of people I invited to the bridal shower whom all said they’d for sure be there are starting...

I have seen a new trend on social media where the newlywed bride goes to toss the bouquet and instead she hands it over to a guest and then that persons partner proposes to them. In the comment...

I really wanted everyone to come to my wedding wearing black formal wear but is that too much to ask? I am nervous that people will just not come because they dont have anything to wear. I am not a...

Hello! Hoping someone has some advice to give me. My husband and I were married in July of this year, a few months ago. We had a family only, church wedding and small reception afterwards. We had 31...

Hi! My wedding is next Friday in New Jersey and the owner of my venue gave me envelopes to tip the following. I am also paying a 22% service fee. What is reasonable? I have no clue. Maitre D Captain...

Hey there! My name is Syvanna, I am almost 19 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and have decided to start talking about our future. We are currently doing long distance...

Hi ladies, I am getting married next June. We are having the ceremony up in the mountains at a historical bridge that I've had my heart set on for years. The bridge is about 2 hours away from my...

TL;DR - We have to cut our guest list down even further because of COVID restrictions. I want to remove some family from the list (obligatory invites) but it will cause major tension. Advice needed!...

Fiancé and I are having a dry wedding with no registry. The reason for the dry wedding is due to trauma for myself and my fiancé stemming from alcohol abuse, as well as not waving a prior substance...

So out of my bridesmaids 1 is in a serious relationship. Now my wedding is 6 months away so if they start dating they can for sure bring a plus one. I’m having difficulty with my one bridesmaid who...

Hello need your opinion. A friend is asking for a plus one but it is just her girlfriend not a significant other. We have now passed the RSVP date. She is not the closest friend but we have worked...

Okay. So. I’m in a sticky situation and really need some advice. I have a friend that I’m considering firing from her position as matron of honor/bridesmaid. Any advice? Has anyone does this? Please...