Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Okay so I know this sounds bad, but hear me out. My brother and I have always had a strained relationship. We never speak unless our mom forces us into a room together, and even then it’s barely...

Would you send your save the date to your photographer?

My FH and I are eloping to Colorado next year and we are able to have 25 guests in attendance. We have spoken with our nearest and dearest and let them know that we would love for them to come IF THEY...

I know you're supposed to send a "Thank You" card within 2 weeks of receiving a gift and no later than 3 months after the wedding. When receiving a gift, it's straight forward what to say, but when...

I have a bridesman in my party and I am wondering if any brides have gift ideas? The girls I am getting their hair professionally done, I plan to get them jewelry and a nice hair piece, a getting...

So we JUST sent out our invites a week ago and already one of our lovely guests bought off our registry and had the gift shipped to our house. I wasn't prepared for that lol! Do I send a thank you...

My FH has been married before while I have not. We are getting married next May in Jamaica and I am SO excited. Except for one aspect….who my FH has chosen as a best man. It’s his brother in law, who...

Hi all! I definitely need help with this one. My mom has a friend, let’s call her Jane. My fiancé (boyfriend at the time that we met her) and I met Jane at a pub crawl about 4 years ago. She was nice...

So my best friend is getting married in 2022 but this is my first wedding as a bridesmaid and also as an adult. When I was younger and my family got married my mom always handled the gift needed for...

Idk what to do! Plastic seems easy to do but I don’t want it to look cheap. Paper is ehh which is what the caterer provides for an extra 4$/person. Or I can just go to the dollar store and get...

Hello, I am considering transportation logistics for our guests. Our hotel and venue both allow parking overnight. Is it acceptable to only offer a shuttle from the venue back to the hotel at the end...

I’m trying to figure out this pickle- we’re having a small wedding of 45 people (if everyone can make it). Our rehearsal dinner venue has 2 rooms available one with a 20 guest minimum and $3000...

Hi everyone! im just wanna know how to marry someone

Editing this: simply looking for reference if anyone had dealt with this previously. There was no intention of judgement.

The printed place cards are already being shipped to me and I realized that we spelled a friend’s last name wrong. I am obsessive over things like this and am so annoyed. I was considering getting...

I'm having a hard time deciding on a wedding gift for my sister, I want it to be special since I'm also her MoH but I feel like everything is not enough. My fiance isn't in the wedding party but the...

Hi all! My FH (Filipino) and I (Chinese) want to have a tea ceremony the day of our wedding and need help with planning our timeline! Ideally, we want to have the tea ceremony earlier in the day with...

I am having a Halloween Themed Co-Ed bridal shower and I am dressing up as Emily from the Corpse Bride. I hired a woman who does the whole Halloween makeup a few months ago and gave her a deposit and...

My fiancé and I are doing a destination wedding, we both dislike the speeches at weddings so we thought that we would do the speeches at the rehearsal dinner instead. Because it is a destination...

I have a question, my photographer doesn't do wedding albums. He provides all the pictures on a jump drive and I have to put the album together myself. So my question is, would it be too much to...