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DesertPolarBear
Bridesman gifts?
DesertPolarBear, on June 2, 2017 at 1:07 PM

I have a bridesman in my party and I am wondering if any brides have gift ideas? The girls I am getting their hair professionally done, I plan to get them jewelry and a nice hair piece, a getting...

Michelle, Oct 16, 2021 14 2,928
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Received wedding gift before wedding -what to do
Jerrica, on October 16, 2021 at 2:28 PM

So we JUST sent out our invites a week ago and already one of our lovely guests bought off our registry and had the gift shipped to our house. I wasn't prepared for that lol! Do I send a thank you...

Samantha, Oct 16, 2021 5 575
Britnimarie
Best man- recycled?
Britnimarie, on October 10, 2021 at 2:06 AM

My FH has been married before while I have not. We are getting married next May in Jamaica and I am SO excited. Except for one aspect….who my FH has chosen as a best man. It’s his brother in law, who...

Janica, Oct 16, 2021 19 1,502
Karen
My mom wants to invite someone i dislike!!
Karen, on October 13, 2021 at 8:16 AM

Hi all! I definitely need help with this one. My mom has a friend, let’s call her Jane. My fiancé (boyfriend at the time that we met her) and I met Jane at a pub crawl about 4 years ago. She was nice...

Janica, Oct 16, 2021 19 1,473
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Gifts.
Jaimie, on October 14, 2021 at 10:06 PM

So my best friend is getting married in 2022 but this is my first wedding as a bridesmaid and also as an adult. When I was younger and my family got married my mom always handled the gift needed for...

Jaimie, Oct 15, 2021 5 694
Ana
Plastic, paper or ceramic plates
Ana, on October 15, 2021 at 9:51 AM

Idk what to do! Plastic seems easy to do but I don’t want it to look cheap. Paper is ehh which is what the caterer provides for an extra 4$/person. Or I can just go to the dollar store and get...

Melanie, Oct 15, 2021 13 841 1
Lindsay
Wedding Shuttle Question
Lindsay, on October 15, 2021 at 9:39 AM

Hello, I am considering transportation logistics for our guests. Our hotel and venue both allow parking overnight. Is it acceptable to only offer a shuttle from the venue back to the hotel at the end...

Jessa, Oct 15, 2021 8 581
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Bridesmaid’s bf invited to the rehearsal dinner?
Jocelyn, on October 14, 2021 at 5:48 PM

I’m trying to figure out this pickle- we’re having a small wedding of 45 people (if everyone can make it). Our rehearsal dinner venue has 2 rooms available one with a 20 guest minimum and $3000...

Jacks, Oct 15, 2021 9 875
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Adele, on October 13, 2021 at 4:17 AM

Hi everyone! im just wanna know how to marry someone

Emilia, Oct 15, 2021 3 268
Amanda
Cheapness as a wedding guest
Amanda, on October 14, 2021 at 4:43 PM

Editing this: simply looking for reference if anyone had dealt with this previously. There was no intention of judgement.

Jm Sunshine, Oct 14, 2021 10 776
I_Do_Too
Misspelled name on Escort Card
I_Do_Too, on October 14, 2021 at 3:04 PM

The printed place cards are already being shipped to me and I realized that we spelled a friend’s last name wrong. I am obsessive over things like this and am so annoyed. I was considering getting...

I_Do_Too, Oct 14, 2021 4 274
Layla
Gift ideas from sister/moh?
Layla, on October 14, 2021 at 2:33 PM

I'm having a hard time deciding on a wedding gift for my sister, I want it to be special since I'm also her MoH but I feel like everything is not enough. My fiance isn't in the wedding party but the...

Cool, Oct 14, 2021 4 953
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Chinese Tea Ceremony Timeline
Magie, on October 13, 2021 at 1:41 AM

Hi all! My FH (Filipino) and I (Chinese) want to have a tea ceremony the day of our wedding and need help with planning our timeline! Ideally, we want to have the tea ceremony earlier in the day with...

Lynnie, Oct 14, 2021 3 916
Jaclyn
Makeup Artist not getting back to me
Jaclyn, on October 11, 2021 at 6:15 PM

I am having a Halloween Themed Co-Ed bridal shower and I am dressing up as Emily from the Corpse Bride. I hired a woman who does the whole Halloween makeup a few months ago and gave her a deposit and...

Lisa, Oct 14, 2021 5 711
Paige
Speeches at rehearsal dinner instead of wedding?
Paige, on October 13, 2021 at 11:36 AM

My fiancé and I are doing a destination wedding, we both dislike the speeches at weddings so we thought that we would do the speeches at the rehearsal dinner instead. Because it is a destination...

Allie, Oct 14, 2021 12 3,439
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Wedding Album
Kreshelle, on October 11, 2021 at 9:46 AM

I have a question, my photographer doesn't do wedding albums. He provides all the pictures on a jump drive and I have to put the album together myself. So my question is, would it be too much to...

Monica, Oct 13, 2021 8 548
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Sent an email to our photographer two weeks ago and no response?
Haley, on October 11, 2021 at 12:27 PM

Hi everyone. So we’re 68 days out from our wedding day and I sent an email to our photographer as she assists her couples with timelines for photography. I sent her an email two weeks ago now and I...

Susan, Oct 13, 2021 4 717
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Lost rings
Alex, on October 13, 2021 at 8:46 AM

I just got engaged and my fiance and I went to find my ring size and resize my engagement ring. The company I went to lost my engagement ring and want us to still purchase the wedding set. AITA for...

Yasmine, Oct 13, 2021 6 233
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Wedding reminder
Jordan, on October 11, 2021 at 6:53 PM

Hi guys, I wonder if it's ok to send a reminder text to guests a few days before the wedding. Please let me know. Thanks!

Katie & Josh, Oct 13, 2021 13 1,000
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Demoting bridesmaids when it's my sisters???
Krista, on October 7, 2021 at 3:29 PM

I just want to first say that my sisters and I have an unusual relationship. We love each other and have no qualms with one another, but we choose to not really hang out or spend our free time...

Katelyn, Oct 12, 2021 14 678
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