Hi!! So I need some advice. Both my fiancé’s family and my family live in the same state but are a good distance away from each other. We also live in the same state but we aren’t near our families. For reference: my fiancé and I live 2 1/2 hours away from my family and 1 1/2 hours away from his. Our families are 3 1/2 hours away from each other.
In January we are going to start looking at venues. I suggested that we look at venues in all 3 places. My FH is very adamant that we either have the wedding where him and I live or closer to his side vs. the possibility of having the wedding closer to my side. The thing is that my parents are paying for the majority of our wedding, so I kind of feel like it’s more fair that we have it closer to them (my mom is really wants it closer to them but she will respect our decision regardless). There is 1 venue in the middle of everyone but we aren’t super into it. What would you do in this situation? Would you look in all 3 areas? Would you only plan it where I live? Would you just book the one in between both sides? In my opinion there is no way to be 100% fair to both sides of the family because even if we choose to have it where I currently live, my side is still traveling further. Thoughts??
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