Vendor tips

Would tipping them be weird? Or mailing the tips? If you don't mail it, would you just not tip them? I can't imagine a scenario where sending people money to thank them for their service would be poorly received.

I don’t think it’s weird! For those that wait to tip (letting the wedding day sink in first and evaluating services from a non-hyper scenario), I’m sure those couples definitely mail their tips.


After our ceremony, I was so hyper lol, I totally forgot to tip our officiant! The envelope was right there in the room, and I totally forgot. I paid the initial deposit and final balance to my officiant via venmo so I told him the situation and asked him if it was okay if I tipped him via venmo (I didn’t want to come across as tacky lol). Of course he said it was no problem at all

Not weird at all. We mailed some and hand delivered some as well.