Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

As I'm planning my wedding both sides of the family are asking what colors are we doing for the wedding. At first I didn't mind telling anyone but now a lot of them are saying that they want to match...

It's annoying to hear oh my your spending all that money for a party it could go towards paying off your car, down payment on a house, luxurious honeymoon etc. Just elope and save money, or my...

Like tons of couples, my wedding was postponed due to COVID. It was to be on 10/10/20 and will now be on 11/11/22. My designated flowers girls will be 9 y/o and in 4th grade on our new, rescheduled...

My fiance and I were unable to invite a lot of people who we wish we could have celebrate with us due to numbers and the cost per plate for our reception. We are wanting to have an after-party and...

I'm trying not be a Bridezilla and sometimes have to ask myself several times if I'm overreacting because some of the questions I'm asked I can't seem to wrap my brain around. For starters, we're...

Hi guys! We booked and paid for our photographer in full already. On Sept 20 we set an engagement photoshoot for November, about 2 weeks from now. I haven't had any contact with the photographer since...

Anyone only have 1 ring? Long story short our asd non verbal 4 yr old flushed my engagement ring. We haven't replaced it and I'm not sure insure covers that. We are eloping in the next 60 days and...

Hi y’all!! Looking for ladies who recently got married this year and how much they tipped for the following vendors and if you went off a percentage or something. Venue Coordinator Photographer...

It's almost time for me to get going. Our flight leaves bright and early tomorrow morning! First big hurdle to conquer this evening will be packing up my wedding dress. Depending on your flight, some...

I have been with my FH forever (15+ yrs) and although I wanted to get married eventually it wasn't a huge priority for me. (We met at a young age) I got engaged last year right before covid. My sister...

So my fiancé, (25) and I(23) have been dating for 4 years and he asked me to marry him back in July. When I told my parents they went crazy. My dad started yelling at me like crazy and my mom went to...

Destination weddings tend to be more inconvenient and expensive for guests. Because of that, do you feel there should be more ”extras” provided for guests? If you were a guest at a destination wedding...

I just got married, October 23rd. After the wedding, I realized that I forgot some photos that I really wanted… what should I do? Just forget about it or put my wedding dress back on & have my...

On feb. 24th I will have to go get my marriage license. Do I have to wear a dress? Or I can just dress casual? Do I have to have a bouquet? I have never been to courthouse marriage before so I have no...

Ok weird question, is it weird to invite my co workers to my wedding? Let me give a bit of a background. I started my current job 6 months ago but have really hit it off with my team. Work has started...

People who have done destination weddings, have you still created registry’s? I feel as though asking our friends and family to come from US to Costa Rica for the wedding will be expensive enough, I...

This is a silly question, I know. But I keep getting asked and now I have anxiety. We do not have a wedding planner, we are doing everything on our own. But now people are asking if we have a “day of...

Hi all! Question, my fiancé wants to invite some people who aren’t invited to our ceremony to still come have fun with us at the actual resort (more family and friends) We are only inviting 28 people...

Hi! So my videographer told me we would get our video back in about 45 days after our wedding. When 45 days came around and still no video, I emailed him and I was understanding because I know...

So who buys the Grooms ring? Most say the bride & brides family. What do you think?