Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Our wedding was August 14th and according to our contract, the video is due 90 days post wedding. We just received an email saying they are running about 45-60days behind schedule. How would you...

Hello! The fiance and I have an amazon wedding registry as well as a cash fund. As the RSVPs just started coming in, so have the gifts. What is the proper protocol to show our appreciation? 1. Waiting...

I'm reading this guide on tipping vendors ( Tipping Wedding Vendors ) and have come up with this estimated breakdown total $****. I don't know maybe I'm just cheap, but that seems a lot?! Hair...

Hi all, I’m wondering which vendors typically get tipped and how much? Additionally, why is tipping vendors a thing? I only ask because outside of planning a wedding, I had never heard about that....

Hello! I know that we'll need to send thank you cards as gifts are received. After the wedding I plan on getting thank you cards made with wedding pictures on them, but what about thank you cards that...

So my fiancé and I recently graduated from college this past May and so we are both getting our career lives started so we don’t have a lot of money to pay for our wedding. My mom has always said that...

So our wedding is going to be held about 2 hours from where my fiance and I live. Currently my fiance's parents are going through harder times with talks of his mother entering hospice soon. My mother...

Hello all, I am not sure what to do with what happened at my wedding yesterday so I wanted to ask for help on this. My fiance and I chose a lower-budget DJ, but they came with great reviews. The...

As I'm planning my wedding both sides of the family are asking what colors are we doing for the wedding. At first I didn't mind telling anyone but now a lot of them are saying that they want to match...

It's annoying to hear oh my your spending all that money for a party it could go towards paying off your car, down payment on a house, luxurious honeymoon etc. Just elope and save money, or my...

Like tons of couples, my wedding was postponed due to COVID. It was to be on 10/10/20 and will now be on 11/11/22. My designated flowers girls will be 9 y/o and in 4th grade on our new, rescheduled...

My fiance and I were unable to invite a lot of people who we wish we could have celebrate with us due to numbers and the cost per plate for our reception. We are wanting to have an after-party and...

I'm trying not be a Bridezilla and sometimes have to ask myself several times if I'm overreacting because some of the questions I'm asked I can't seem to wrap my brain around. For starters, we're...

Hi guys! We booked and paid for our photographer in full already. On Sept 20 we set an engagement photoshoot for November, about 2 weeks from now. I haven't had any contact with the photographer since...

Anyone only have 1 ring? Long story short our asd non verbal 4 yr old flushed my engagement ring. We haven't replaced it and I'm not sure insure covers that. We are eloping in the next 60 days and...

Hi y’all!! Looking for ladies who recently got married this year and how much they tipped for the following vendors and if you went off a percentage or something. Venue Coordinator Photographer...

It's almost time for me to get going. Our flight leaves bright and early tomorrow morning! First big hurdle to conquer this evening will be packing up my wedding dress. Depending on your flight, some...

I have been with my FH forever (15+ yrs) and although I wanted to get married eventually it wasn't a huge priority for me. (We met at a young age) I got engaged last year right before covid. My sister...

So my fiancé, (25) and I(23) have been dating for 4 years and he asked me to marry him back in July. When I told my parents they went crazy. My dad started yelling at me like crazy and my mom went to...

Destination weddings tend to be more inconvenient and expensive for guests. Because of that, do you feel there should be more ”extras” provided for guests? If you were a guest at a destination wedding...