Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello everyone! My fiance and I need some advice on the whole RSVP/invitation timeline. I have read on multiple blogs and forums saying that you typically send international invites 12 weeks prior and...

I've been engaged since last March, and have had my BMs picked since before then. Just my 2 sisters and best friend. Over the past year, I've become closer with another friend, and have thought about...

My fiancé and I are in the guest list stage of planning and I am needing some advice. His family is very small (even with ext. family his is max 20 people) while my family is quite large (minimum 92,...

Hi all - I would love some input on this. My fiance and I would like to have an adults-only wedding. Since getting engaged, TEN of our friends have gotten pregnant (nuts, I know!), who will then have...

My FH wanted an extra groomsman, so I’m trying to select a final bridesmaid. Do I go with the long time friend I don’t speak to much, or the current friend I don’t have as much history with?

Hey there ! TMI WARNING. In a bit of a dilemma. FH and I were doing our best to practice abstinence before our wedding on August 28, 2021 (SIXTEEN DAYS!) however, we ended up breaking that last...

Is it weird to make a go fund me for our wedding? Part of me feels like it’s being rude asking other people to pay for our wedding but the other part (the cheap a**hole part) thinks that it’s not that...

So my husband and I have been together for many years, well over a decade and we got married almost 4 years ago. We had a small wedding party, 4 people on each side. Our wedding was out of town so I...

I have been dreaming of a cherry blossom-themed wedding for 12 years. I'm finally planning my wedding with a white and light blush pink palette. My matron of honor has agreed to wear pink and my...

So, we have decided we will be writing the names on our RSVP cards before we send them, that way it is explicit on who is invited. My question is, does anyone have any ideas of how to put the names on...

Well, I feel like a horrible person.. Got married in June and haven't sent thank you cards. Life got expensive and extremely busy, lost a family member.. No excuse but how late is too late to send...

So I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on this… I am having a wedding that allows children. I was torn on doing this but I’m like the aunty of the world and I couldn’t imagine not allowing some of...

Hi my lovelies! Weird point of inquiry regarding invite etiquette. One of my beloved’s groomsmen is in a relationship with a darling girl whom I love dearly. They are long-distance couple and...

I've reached the part of planning where I'm finally getting to trim down my guest list, and I'm trying to get my portion of the invitations down to 50. One person I've known I want to invite from the...

Have any of y'all used HitchSwitch to change your name? Is it legit? Is it worth it?

Hello all, so my question has to do with how to introduce divorced parents at the reception. My parents have been divorced for 15 years but cant be in the same room together. My dad remarried 10 years...

Hey there! My MOH-to-be is not currently married, her wedding date is 2 months before mine. I am planning to propose soon, and also planning on doing a "get to know the bridal party" collage, but I...

Just noticed that my husband’s cousin’s daughter dressed up in a pink dress wearing a flower wreath headband for our wedding. She was not a flower girl, there were rumors swirling around (before our...

Ok this is a tricky one. We have a number of immunocompromised or otherwise vulnerable guests, and we have chosen to request that those who are unvaccinated without a medical exemption to please watch...