Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I've reached the part of planning where I'm finally getting to trim down my guest list, and I'm trying to get my portion of the invitations down to 50. One person I've known I want to invite from the...

Have any of y'all used HitchSwitch to change your name? Is it legit? Is it worth it?

Hello all, so my question has to do with how to introduce divorced parents at the reception. My parents have been divorced for 15 years but cant be in the same room together. My dad remarried 10 years...

Currently looking at venues and really liked a venue right on the North Fork of Long Island. My family is based in NYC and his is based mostly in Florida. Fiancé thinks that many people on his side of...

Hey there! My MOH-to-be is not currently married, her wedding date is 2 months before mine. I am planning to propose soon, and also planning on doing a "get to know the bridal party" collage, but I...

Just noticed that my husband’s cousin’s daughter dressed up in a pink dress wearing a flower wreath headband for our wedding. She was not a flower girl, there were rumors swirling around (before our...

Ok this is a tricky one. We have a number of immunocompromised or otherwise vulnerable guests, and we have chosen to request that those who are unvaccinated without a medical exemption to please watch...

Hi all, I am not sure if i have this right… I really want to include both of our parents’ names on it STEPHANIE and RYAN together with their parents Mr. William and Mrs. Idy Chan Mr. Robert and Mrs....

So I have a weird situation. My FH's parents are divorced. His father has been dating a woman for a while. FH and I have both met her and obviously she is invited. But we do not know her last name and...

My fiance is from Novs Scotia and we would love to get married there. We have an awesome venue picked out and booked... but my family, who the majority of lives in Alberta, refuses to travel to Nova...

My FH and I are very light hearted and upbeat people. So we will not be having traditional bouquet/ garter toss and the parent dances. I need ideas on how to break the news to his mother and step...

My oldest dearest friend was going to be one of my bridesmaids but passed away very unexpectedly. I want to leave her seat at the bridal able empty with maybe a picture of us. It is going to be tough,...

Hi all, I know this has been discussed in the past but it seems a lot of people are going either fully online or fully snail mail with their invites. I was considering going for more of a hybrid where...

I'm a bridesmaid to one of my friends who lives in another state, about a 1.5-2 hour drive away from me. I RSVP'd to attend her engagement party, but now I'm not sure if I'll be able to make it due to...

Hey all, My FH and I are doing a destination wedding and starting to agonize over the invitations-- namely our grandparents. We're absolutely aware that the distance is too far to ask them to try and...

Hi All, Would appreciate an ear and any advice you have. I got married almost a month ago and two things happened that really bothered me. 1. A really good friend blew off our wedding. First it took...

I just found out yesterday that my husband and I are pregnant! But I will be in one of my best friends wedding this weekend. Of course that means I won’t be drinking. I’m not sure if I should tell her...

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I are getting married in December of 2022 and we've decided to have an adults only wedding. The only children younger than 14 who will be there are my soon to be...