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Katelin
Savvy June 2017

Transportation from ceremony to reception

Katelin, on January 2, 2017 at 12:12 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 25

Hello.

My fiancé and I are getting married in a church that is 30 minutes away from our reception. We are trying to figure out transportation for our wedding party. We aren't sure what to do, we either transport our entire wedding party and their significant others (around 25) from church to reception or none at all. The problem is though, how do we transport them back from reception to hotel?? Do we let them figure it out themselves or do we pay for transportation back? Transportation rental is 4 hour minimum.

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Latest activity by Brittany, on November 23, 2021 at 3:10 PM
  • Emma
    Master May 2017
    Emma ·
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    We are renting a school bus! $250 for the whole day.

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  • Kathleen
    VIP September 2017
    Kathleen ·
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    Our ceremony and reception are in different locations. We'll be having shuttles for our guests from the hotel we have our hotel block at to the ceremony, from the ceremony to the reception, and from the reception back to the hotel. We'll probably also have separate transportation for the bridal party due to timing and other logistics.

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
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    We had a limo take us from the chapel to the reception venue (about a 15 min drive). I really don't think you need to transport the bridal party dates though. They'll just be sitting around waiting for an hour while everyone else is taking pictures?

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  • Katelin
    Savvy June 2017
    Katelin ·
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    I guess I need to figure out if our hotel will shuttle people back and forth.

    Thanks y'all!

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  • Kathleen Smith
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    Hi Katelin. IMO, the Bride and Groom are not responsible for anyone's transportation to any location, including the BP. It is a wonderful gesture and a convenient way to keep the BP together if meeting at a photo location between venues but certainly not necessary. Getting the BP back to the hotel from your reception is definitely not your responsibility... unless you make it yours. I would not. Smiley smile

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  • Katelin
    Savvy June 2017
    Katelin ·
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    Thanks Kathleen,

    The only thing that worries me is that people will be drinking (drinking a lot) lol. So its the drinking and driving that worries me.

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  • Christinanyc
    Master December 2016
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    Find out if the hotel can provide a shuttle or opt for Uber.

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  • na&na
    Super November 2017
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    Dad's driving me, mom, MOH, FSIL and FG to the wedding, FH's taking RB, his dad and brother. After the ceremony they'll drive with dad and FH and I will go on ou own. For after, MOH's by then DH will take her and FG/RB back home

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  • Elizabeth
    Super March 2017
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    You asked a great question. We are having the same issue. Our reception is about 2 miles up the road. We looked into renting something but the money for that was crazy! Especially for a 2 mile trip up the road. So... it looks like we are going to have people in the wedding party take as many as they can in their cars or each drive themselves. They all will have cars, either their own or they are renting one.

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
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    Katelyn, have you looked into Uber events? You can register and set up a code to give your guests so they get a certain % off their Uber rides. I believe you also have to set up the locations, so it would only work from your venue to the hotel.

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
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    Our ceremony and reception are in different places too. We are having guests drive back to the hotel after the ceremony, where busses will shuttle everyone to the reception, then back to the hotel at the end of the night. The hotel is only about 5 minutes away from the reception

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  • xray12280
    Master June 2017
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    In my experience as a bridesmaid only the bridal party rode in the limo. Significant others not in the bridal party drove separate to the reception.

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  • Ms. B --> Mrs. L
    Super June 2017
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    IMO let adults be adults and figure out their own transportation. My ceremony and reception are about 20 minutes apart. The hotels are also about 20 minutes from the reception.

    Responsible adults know not to drink and drive. They'll get themselves a ride if needed.

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  • Alethea
    Devoted September 2017
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    You should pay for their transportation. You can do a party bus

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
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    I disagree. I do not think that you are required to provide transportation, although it is a nice gesture.

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  • Susan
    Master March 2015
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    Everyone met us at the ceremony venue. I rode with a BM (spent the night at her house) and had left my car at the reception hall the night before. Hubs rode with a GM who had stayed at our house. We rented a hummer limo to take us around for pictures for a few hours ( yes we had the dreaded gap, but its common in my family) and had our limo run us by the ceremony venue to pick up a few cars and some of our BP met us at the reception hall, that was 20 minutes away. Most of our BP had brought dates who took their car from ceremony to reception. If you know this is the case please take this time into account and traffic, as we were about 25 minutes later than we planned getting back to reception.

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  • Ellsy62
    Master October 2017
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    I was thinking about getting a shuttle bus for my guests staying at the hotel and that quote came in at $1200 because they would need to be picked up at the hotel then taken back at the end of the night so I had to reserve for 9 hours. Now after seeing CMC's post about Uber events I tgink I'm going to look into that. From what I can see you set up a time period that your guest can use your link you provide for them and you can set how much the max ride is also. When you Google uber events it actually comes up wedding so I'm thinking they must do this all the time.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    If you shuttle them to the church and to the reception, you need to pay for transportation back- otherwise, you have stranded them. If you don't want to pay for transportation, let your BP know in advance they will have to find their own rides to the church and from the church to the reception -- which is an option, but obviously less than ideal because you risk people running late and you lose out on that time together as a bridal party.

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  • Nicole2017
    Master August 2017
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    I booked a party bus for the wedding party and a shuttle to run from the hotel to the venue and back afterwards. This way everyone that's in the wedding as well as all overnight guests have transportation.

    I know it's not required to do this much but I really want to accommodate those spending the most money to attend.

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  • SLR
    Super November 2016
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    We had a party bus, and all my girls stayed with me at a BM's house Friday night. We dropped all their cars off at Saturday night's hotel on Friday night and I drove them back to my BM's house, and then we let them know in advance to find a way to the hotel Saturday after the reception, which was only a couple minutes away but too far to walk. Everyone had a date/parent/friend there and it worked out well for my group.

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