Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I previously gave someone a Save the Date to my wedding, but I have since decided that I don't want her there. To complicate things, I work with her, so it's not like I'm not going to bump into her....

My partner and I get married next summer and i asked two of my closest friends to be BMs a month or 2 ago…My partner has 3 in his bridal party.. I had thouhht on having 4 but it felt too much….. one...

Hoping to get advice. We were married August 21st, and still have not received a single photo from our wedding. I did not think much of it, until a friend of ours mentioned a friend of theirs used the...

I need help navigating what may be the most dramatic guest list debacle in the history of weddings. FH and I are covering cost for most of the wedding. My father is not contributing, which is totally...

One of my bridesmaids recently (last week) got out of her 4 year relationship, and I am not sure how to handle the plus one situation or if she'll even want to bring a date or friend (I highly doubt...

I would love some unbiased thoughts on a situation I am in, I have a good relationship with the CEO of the company and an absolutely fabulous relationship with my direct boss but not the one other...

Not sure if I’m out of line here but looking what others think. My impression of a bridal party was always being involved in all the wedding activities. I just asked all my girls to be my bridesmaids...

I love my shoes but they are not the most comfy. Although I am used to wearing heels I can tell that after a while my wedding shoes are going to be a problem. I bought a pair of cheap insoles at DSW...

So we will be providing dinner for our DJ, photographer, and videographer. But do we need to feed the photobooth worker also? They will be there for 3 hours.

Good morning!! I hope everyone has a nice holiday. I am writing this just for some opinions. My fiancé and I are christian and are going through pre marital counseling. We have been doing it with the...

So I'll try to keep the ling story short... my fiancé has a brother and a sister. Brother was married 5 years ago and his now wife asked me to be a bridesmaid. Of course I accepted. She also asked his...

I am 30 and will be 30 when we get married. There is something that feels a little weird to me having a registry and having a wedding shower. Neither one of us have been married before. Just wanted...

How do you all finesse asking your bridesmaids for their sizes? I'm getting us all personalized PJs and I'm not sure how to ask them what size they wear... I know it can be a touchy subject for some....

I read somewhere today that someone didn’t attend a wedding because they felt the couple who invited them were selfish for not giving them a plus one because they were single. It was also not long ago...

I'm feeling confused and conflicted and wonder if anyone has advice- I know what lots of articles and sources say about plus one etiquette for BP members but i think my situation is a little...

So I am really struggling with the situation. My cousin is probably the only family I have in the state, but she's a person kinda like to taking advantage of me and my family. So I decided not to let...

I had to post this after reading the other post about spray tan vs tanning bed! OMG please DON'T spray tan!!!!! Have you read what they actually use? They use an acetone called DHA this is the...

My husband and I got married a little over a year ago and because of budget we had to cut so many corners and couldn't have the wedding we dreamed of and now that we are better off financially we...

We were thinking about 12/22/22 for our wedding ceremony and reception, but some of our relatives are concerned that some of our guests wouldn't attend a wedding on a Thursday. Our thought was that...

So, I've been perusing the boards both here and elsewhere and have come to the conclusion that there is a lot of hostility towards eloping and having a ceremony and reception at a later date. My first...