Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I’m planning my own wedding at the moment (no bridesmaids chosen). I am wondering if I am being silly/childish being disappointed at this situation? Would love to hear how you fellow brides would...

Hi everyone!! I apologize for the long post in advance. So I've seen a couple of these posts before but I need someone else's opinion. My fiancée and I got engaged in June of 2021. I was so excited...

Hi fellow brides!!! My fiance and I are getting in married in April and want to be proactive when it comes to letting everyone know about Covid. I am at a loss for proper words (that won't offend...

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I are super excited for our May 20, 2022 wedding. But I am very stressed about my timeline. My wedding ceremony is in a Catholic Church about 30 minutes away from my...

I need some advice and curious how y’all would handle this situation.. I am only having 2 bridesmaids, both of my Sisters (born in their 30’s) I asked them a year ago right after I got engaged, and...

We are having a buffet style dinner and are only having 2 options (chicken and beef). How do we go about telling our guests, family/cousins mainly, who have young children that there is no option for...

My best friend just got engaged. I am so ready to be the maid of honor it’s not even funny and she’s indicated on several occasions that’s what she wants, but hasn’t officially asked me yet. Problem:...

So I was rereading my contract for my venue, and it says that since the town noise ordinance must end at 9pm, it seemed like our reception must end at 9pm. I tried asking the owner and see if I can...

Some brides run the wedding party like a military operation or popularity contest. Things have to be done a certain way that is impossible to attain or doesn’t respect them as individuals or they risk...

All of the hotels in the area in which I am getting married require 80% of booking otherwise we are financially responsible for the rooms that have not been booked. With that being said, this could...

We had our engagement photos taken at the end of November, before we booked them we were told to expect them back in 1-3 weeks. At the time of the photos we were told 3-4 weeks and it was posted...

Hey guys! i’m having a super difficult time understanding my moh and her reactions to things. i could use some advice! I planned a bridesmaid proposal dinner a few months ago. It was a blast!! Their...

Hi everyone, After formally asking one of my bridemaids to stand with me during my wedding this coming Oct 2022, she went and got a whole bunch of FACE piercing. Three nose piercing and a Medusa (she...

I'm looking at venues and there's not much available on the 2 Saturdays I'm available in 2022 because of my work schedule. We are in the triangle NC and we're planning on inviting a few family members...

I asked all my bridesmaids in October what date worked for them for a bridal shower. We decided on a date in January. Mid December one of my bridesmaids said she might go meet her new boyfriends...

Hey all, so our venue gave us a "tipping sheet" to reference for what the industry standard usually is; our venue is all inclusive, so they said tipping is not required but if we felt they went above...

What is proper etiquette? Do you actually send the registry gift to their house or bring it to the bridal shower? Is the registry gift a wedding gift or bridal shower gift? Confused!

So I told my cousin (1/2 of my maids of honor) that she was welcome to bring her boyfriend to the wedding (even though I'm not doing plus ones, I thought it would be welcoming to him as it’s a new...

Ok this one is just a bit of a rant to people I know who will appreciate how stressful it is. I don't know if others are having the same trouble as me and my fiance, but it has been like pulling teeth...

Hello! We are having our save the dates printed but I can't decide the most "elegant" way to address them! We are having our invitations done by a calligrapher, but don't necessarily want to spend...