Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

All of the hotels in the area in which I am getting married require 80% of booking otherwise we are financially responsible for the rooms that have not been booked. With that being said, this could...

We had our engagement photos taken at the end of November, before we booked them we were told to expect them back in 1-3 weeks. At the time of the photos we were told 3-4 weeks and it was posted...

Hey guys! i’m having a super difficult time understanding my moh and her reactions to things. i could use some advice! I planned a bridesmaid proposal dinner a few months ago. It was a blast!! Their...

Hi everyone, After formally asking one of my bridemaids to stand with me during my wedding this coming Oct 2022, she went and got a whole bunch of FACE piercing. Three nose piercing and a Medusa (she...

I'm looking at venues and there's not much available on the 2 Saturdays I'm available in 2022 because of my work schedule. We are in the triangle NC and we're planning on inviting a few family members...

I asked all my bridesmaids in October what date worked for them for a bridal shower. We decided on a date in January. Mid December one of my bridesmaids said she might go meet her new boyfriends...

Hey all, so our venue gave us a "tipping sheet" to reference for what the industry standard usually is; our venue is all inclusive, so they said tipping is not required but if we felt they went above...

What is proper etiquette? Do you actually send the registry gift to their house or bring it to the bridal shower? Is the registry gift a wedding gift or bridal shower gift? Confused!

So I told my cousin (1/2 of my maids of honor) that she was welcome to bring her boyfriend to the wedding (even though I'm not doing plus ones, I thought it would be welcoming to him as it’s a new...

Ok this one is just a bit of a rant to people I know who will appreciate how stressful it is. I don't know if others are having the same trouble as me and my fiance, but it has been like pulling teeth...

Hello! We are having our save the dates printed but I can't decide the most "elegant" way to address them! We are having our invitations done by a calligrapher, but don't necessarily want to spend...

Hello! So I’m in a bit of a pickle. I got married just over two weeks ago. Yay!! We just got back from our honeymoon, and my mom said she was waiting until we were back to bring this up, but, the...

Hi everyone, I was wondering when you all posted your engagement photos on Facebook. I have a little less than 7 months till the big day. I'm probably only posting my top favorites, but I wasn't sure...

One of my 'friends' recently got engaged. She sent me a text with a picture and said.."this happened I love it! I'm so excited" Fast Forward to today she calls me heartbroken. She said while cleaning...

Is it rude to invite people to the wedding but not all to the reception?

One of FH’s friends asked if he could give a speech at the wedding right after we got engaged before groomsmen were picked and before anything was planned. He didn’t think he was serious and was like...

My Future Husband (FH) and I both come from LARGE families. His mother, my Future Mother In Law (FMIL), gave an insane list and we kept 99% of them, as he asked me to. After figuring it all out, his...

Okay so we plan on having an alcohol free wedding, a kid free wedding except for the ones I have in the wedding. How do I put it on the invitations without getting a million questions? Also after the...

My MOH and I are creating a questionnaire for the Bridal party to try and get all information in one place. (Shirt Sizes, Shoe Size, etc.). Is it appropriate to ask the bridal party their budget for...

I have a cousin who was engaged about nine months prior to my engagement. My fiancé and I have been engaged for about a month and are ready to set a date for next August. My cousin says that she would...