Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I just got married, October 23rd. After the wedding, I realized that I forgot some photos that I really wanted… what should I do? Just forget about it or put my wedding dress back on & have my...

On feb. 24th I will have to go get my marriage license. Do I have to wear a dress? Or I can just dress casual? Do I have to have a bouquet? I have never been to courthouse marriage before so I have no...

Ok weird question, is it weird to invite my co workers to my wedding? Let me give a bit of a background. I started my current job 6 months ago but have really hit it off with my team. Work has started...

People who have done destination weddings, have you still created registry’s? I feel as though asking our friends and family to come from US to Costa Rica for the wedding will be expensive enough, I...

This is a silly question, I know. But I keep getting asked and now I have anxiety. We do not have a wedding planner, we are doing everything on our own. But now people are asking if we have a “day of...

Hi all! Question, my fiancé wants to invite some people who aren’t invited to our ceremony to still come have fun with us at the actual resort (more family and friends) We are only inviting 28 people...

Hi! So my videographer told me we would get our video back in about 45 days after our wedding. When 45 days came around and still no video, I emailed him and I was understanding because I know...

So who buys the Grooms ring? Most say the bride & brides family. What do you think?

My fiancé and I last minute decided on an October 2nd wedding. I’m trying to figure out the guest list & invites. We’ve been butting heads on one thing. Inviting the aunts & uncles. His &...

I really want to have a wedding on the smaller side with our close friends/family members that we know love us/care about us. However, my mom believes it is "bad taste/looks bad" to not invite certain...

He has horrible social anxiety and I’m realizing I’ll have to go to all future weddings without him. Is it weird for a woman to attend weddings without her husband? He goes to all smaller family...

Hi brides to be! Soo I made a huge cardinal mistake in that I addressed kids on the envelopes to the moms I invited to my bridal shower. My mom is planning the whole shower but asked me to send the...

Hi!! So I need some advice. Both my fiancé’s family and my family live in the same state but are a good distance away from each other. We also live in the same state but we aren’t near our families....

Hi A friend of mine is getting married in December. When I use to live near her and was single, I wasn’t a close friend of hers but we had the same circle of friends and go out together . I got...

Looking for ideas for a second wedding. Some traditions are ok but I'd rather have a low key, less formal event. Any venue locations in jersey down the shore and ideas for planning are welcome 😊

So my FH has 3 sister. His older 2 sisters are from his dads side and his 3rd oldest sister, we'll call her sister "A", is from his mom's side. Sister "A" is close with me and she is a bridesmaid in...

One of my closest and longest friends and I are going through a difficult time right now. Basically, she is friends with someone who did something truly awful to me. She thinks that what they did was...

How much would you tip your venue that has a 15% "Service Charge" fee which doesn't include gratuity? Would tipping 15-18% suffice? The service charge fee was over $1000... The venue is...

Hi all! Here are my questions: For those who have tacked your spouse’s last name onto yours and did not hyphenate, do you have any grievances doing so? Is signing your name daunting? Does explaining...

I need help with send off ideas! At first, I didn’t want to do Sparklers, I wanted to do the fiber optic lights. Looking at it now, it MIGHT look weird? Any ideas would help!