I have one of my college best friends in my wedding as my bridesmaid. We have been friends for about 8 years. Although we don't see each other all the time, we at least talk every couple of weeks. About a month ago I found out she got engaged, but I found out through social media. She never told me about it. I was going to let it go, until I found out that when she posted it, she got engaged a week before. She had a week to tell me about it. I now found out that she doesn't have me in her wedding party. That is the last straw. I feel as though our friendship means more to me than it does to her. I only want those who support me the way I support them in my wedding party. With that being said, I think I want to get rid of her as a bridesmaid. Do I still invite her to the wedding? Also her wedding she ironically made a month before mine (which is fine, but now I feel as though she is going to have too much on her hands with her own wedding to focus on mine). How do you go about getting rid of a wedding party person?