So my guilty pleasure of reading anything wedding related on Reddit struck again. I found this post on Reddit, from a few days back where a bridesmaid doesn't want to get a spray tan for her cousins wedding, and the bride isn't happy, and everyone from the other bridesmaids to the family are all upset and annoyed at the bridesmaid and think she's wrong.
Most people on Reddit agreed with the bridesmaid, though I did see a few posts defending the bride or criticizing the bridesmaid, a few upvoted but a lot downvoted.
The interesting thing is that the bride in this case offers is paying, and I know we say that bride should get no say if she's not paying, but if she is paying, is it okay for a bride to ask her bridesmaid to get spray tanned? Reddit seemed to disagree, but the demographics here and Reddit are clearly different, so I'm curious as to what the posters here think. Personally I would never ask a bridesmaid of mine to get or not get a spray tan, I'd leave it up to them,