I am actually not engaged yet, but this will happen at the end of this month.
For some reason I'm getting really emotional if I think about my partners previous marriage. It sounds strange maybe, but when I focus on that, I feel sad... Sad that it happened in the past.
They don't have kids and that marriage last for 1,5 year, so it's not a big thing actually..it just didn't work.
I know it is a weird mindset, because I haven't had this in the beginning of our relationship at all. I was actually not focusing on it at all, but since things are getting closer..it started to kind of 'bother/hurt' me. But why ?
Is there someone who experienced this before? And will i be the 'old' one? like i was in the beginning?
I really can't think about letting my future husband go, or breaking up..no way. But it feels like the devil plays with me and i'm constantly thinking about his past marriage. I ask myself; but is it normal for him to marry again?
Or do I get these thought because there is actually no confirmation between us, as in, there is no ring yet?
Hope someone can give me advise..