I am getting married in February. We got engaged in May of 2020. #CovidProposal
I was so excited that once we set a date I made our guest list and sent out save the dates last summer. Everyone who got them were close friends or family so I didn't think it would be an issue.
Well what I didn't anticipate happening is that my dad would die unexpectedly in May 2021. There are 2 people on the guest list who have not said a single word to me since it happened. One is family, so there's definitely no option of uninviting. The other is one of my best friends from high school. Both of these people I talked to daily prior to my dads death. My mom says "screw the save the date, dont send the invitation to the friend". Oh and when this person got the save the date they asked me if they would be getting a plus one (single then and single now).
I'm a people pleaser and would feel like a bad friend. But also, shouldn't they have said something to me in the worst time of my life?
Any thoughts would be helpful.