Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi everyone, I hope everyone is well during this time . I’m looking for some tips to get past my feelings. Basically I feel forgotten about with my engagement. The day I got engaged my fiancé was...

Hi everyone. My wedding is January of 2022, and while so much can change by then we are currently planning for covid to be just as it is now. My soon to be father in law is newly on immunosuppressants...

My husband's BFF is getting married again [this is his 3rd wedding]. I guess I've personally never been in this situation before where I've been to someone's wedding again especially one that soon...

Hi everyone! So I was adopted at birth by gay men. They are the two best parents I could’ve ever asked for and I want to make sure that I include them both in the father-daughter dance (of course!). I...

My MOH is no longer in my wedding for reasons I do not care to discuss. I am trying to decide the best way of arranging the bridal party now. I know it’s more common nowadays to have an offset number...

Is it traditional to send your officiant a wedding invitation? Do you invite their significant other as well? What about the rehearsal dinner?

My mom & sister really want to have a gathering of extended family and some friends a few weeks before my micro wedding (basically an engagement party), but I think it would be rude bc these...

Hava Nagila, the version by The Barry Sisters is one of my favorite songs ever. I actually listen to their greatest hits all the time. I am not Jewish, I just really love The Barry Sister's entire...

So this might be a bit long since there are a lot of moving parts but I’ll try to keep it short and simple. I am I bride planning my big reception for next summer. My husband and I were originally...

What are your thoughts on this if the wedding is a semi-destination (3 hours drive) micro-wedding?

Hey ladies, I’m 4 months from getting married. One of my bridesmaids told me that she was unable to attend because her job put certain days out that she can’t go. I’m wondering if I should ask someone...

Our wedding is in on the weekend of farthers day next year. Should we send our save the dates earlier than the 6-8 months reccomendation? What do you think?

I could use some advice. I am wondering do I need to invite someone that invited me to there wedding? More information. I was only in invited to this person wedding because I'm close to there dad. But...

Anyone seen this? We love the hora but aren't remotely Jewish. We wouldn't use the song but we're contemplating a chair lift at the reception. Thoughts?

When I started planning my wedding I wasn’t working, we booked the venue and came up with our guest count during that time. A few months later I started my job and had about a year and a half till my...

I have a bridesmaid who missed the RSVP deadline (for both wedding and rehearsal dinner). I waited a few days and reached out to her to ask if she is bringing a plus one and for their name if so since...

So my husband and I got married prior to covid and were planning a big celebration for our anniversary… then covid happened and we postponed till oct now with things looking bad again we are looking...

Hello!!! I need help figuring out who to allow plus ones for. Between FH and I we have a ton of siblings, some older some younger. He has two siblings in long term relationships/engaged. One of my...

I need help or advice… We got engaged in May but are now starting to plan everything because a lot was going on. Work, work, we both got COVID and my grandfather passed away, and school started for...

I’ve been brainstorming what to get my parents as a gift. They’re paying for our venue and my FH and I are paying the vendors. My mother bought my wedding dress and veil. They’re helping so much and...