Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I could use some advice. I am wondering do I need to invite someone that invited me to there wedding? More information. I was only in invited to this person wedding because I'm close to there dad. But...

Anyone seen this? We love the hora but aren't remotely Jewish. We wouldn't use the song but we're contemplating a chair lift at the reception. Thoughts?

When I started planning my wedding I wasn’t working, we booked the venue and came up with our guest count during that time. A few months later I started my job and had about a year and a half till my...

I have a bridesmaid who missed the RSVP deadline (for both wedding and rehearsal dinner). I waited a few days and reached out to her to ask if she is bringing a plus one and for their name if so since...

So my husband and I got married prior to covid and were planning a big celebration for our anniversary… then covid happened and we postponed till oct now with things looking bad again we are looking...

Hello!!! I need help figuring out who to allow plus ones for. Between FH and I we have a ton of siblings, some older some younger. He has two siblings in long term relationships/engaged. One of my...

I need help or advice… We got engaged in May but are now starting to plan everything because a lot was going on. Work, work, we both got COVID and my grandfather passed away, and school started for...

I’ve been brainstorming what to get my parents as a gift. They’re paying for our venue and my FH and I are paying the vendors. My mother bought my wedding dress and veil. They’re helping so much and...

Please leave your comment, advice or suggestion for our planned wedding website announcement. Thank you all! The health and safety of our wedding guests is our top priority. Vaccines protect everyone....

Hi everyone. I have been racking my brain for the last few days on this idea. I am trying to find a non-gendered way to refer to wedding party members. We have mixed genders on both sides. I've been...

Hi everybody! I’ve joined in hoping to get some advice/insight regarding our last minute elopement plans. We’ve been together 10 years as of August 6. We’ve always said we wanted to elope so we...

I teach elementary school and I'm getting married in April (during our spring break). I'm guessing I will still go by Ms. Maiden Name for the rest of the school year since it'll only be for 2 months...

Hello everyone, so I need some advice. What would you do if two friends are fighting and they aren't getting along. :/ My wedding isn't until 2023...... But I know these two won't resolve or trying to...

My Brother got married last fall, and I went to both the wedding and the reception and all the events that go along with it. Here's my problem: They are having a larger reception this September, but I...

Hello! Wondering what the wedding wire hive thinks... Our venue provides a bartender for a $300 fee. I always tip 20%, but what do I tip off of? The $300 fee? The price of the alcohol?...

I have a situation that is really bothering me. Of all the issues I expected to have with my wedding guests, this was definitely not one of them and any advice on how to navigate this is appreciated!...

Hello all, I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. I have chosen to have my mother walk me down the aisle because I have a weird relationship with my dad (who has recently come back into my life) and I...

I have like 30 extra std's what the hell am I gonna do with them!?!

Im sending out invitations. Im doing a mix of e-invites via text message for some, some via facebook and some via mail for older guests who are not technology savvy. (I know this is very informal. We...

Hi! I have a predicament. I don’t want to invite my friends boyfriend to my wedding. Both my fiancé and I can’t stand him, as he has always been rude to us. In the past, he attacked me on social media...