Discussions I've participated in

Have you been dreaming of your wedding video longer than you’ve been dreaming of your wedding dress? Is a wedding videographer a necessary part of your vendor team? Or do think wedding videography is...

Would you be devastated to attend a wedding without a photo booth? Are the fun pictures and props an important part of your reception routine, or is this an extra you wouldn’t miss? What’s your photo...

Are you planning to send save the dates to your guests to get on their calendars early? Or are you skipping them and just sending invitations? Photo by After A While Crocodile in FL Next Question:...

Engagement pictures are perfect for save the dates and your wedding website, or even just as an opportunity to dress up and take professional photos! Are engagement pictures a “must have” for you? Or...

Do you think it’s rude to leave the wedding without saying goodbye to the bride or groom? If it was a small house party you’d say goodbye, but what about at a big wedding where the couple is busy? Do...

How do you feel about guests acting like the ceremony paparazzi? Do you think it’s fair game to snap a quick pic if the couple hasn’t explicitly stated it’s an unplugged ceremony? Or do you think it’s...

How do you feel about bringing a large gift with you to the wedding? Do you think it’s annoying and just another thing the couple has to worry about at the end of the night? Or are you on the side of...

What’s your take on wearing black to weddings? Do you think black is for funerals, not weddings? Or do you think a black dress or suit is always appropriate attire? How do you feel about black dresses...

How do you feel about texting the bride or groom on the wedding day? Do you think you should ask someone else and not bother them? Or do you think it’s ok to send a sweet message the morning of the...

If you’ve got a lot of out of town guests coming to your wedding, inviting them all to the rehearsal dinner can start to feel like a hosting second wedding. But they’ve traveled to come and celebrate...

When it comes to getting your hair and makeup done professionally as a bridesmaid, do you think if a bride requires it they should pay for it? Or do you think it’s a cost of being a bridesmaid? Do you...

How do you feel about having a gap between the wedding ceremony and reception? Do you think it’s a faux pas to leave your guests to entertain themselves in between your ceremony and reception? Or have...

Back in the day, etiquette said that throwing yourself a party wasn’t cool. But times have changed! And isn’t it easier to help out than to put the planning stress on your bridal party? Do you think...

Whether your friends and family are asking if they are invited or if “so and so” is invited, what are your thoughts on people asking about the guest list? Do you think it’s a faux pas or people just...

In 2018, the average couple spent about $4,500 on their honeymoon! Did you decide to splurge or save on your honeymoon? Is your honeymoon budget over or under $4,500? And do you think...

70% of ceremonies are 30 minutes or less. How long will your ceremony be? Over or under 30 minutes? Photo by Holly D Photography in Napa, CA Next Question: Over or Under: Average Honeymoon Budget?...

Weddings cost a serious chunk of change, but couples still tend to underestimate how much they’ll spend on their wedding. Will you be over or under the average budget of $29,200? (Not including...

How old will you be on your wedding day? Are you over or under the national average of 33? 2019 Newlywed Report Photo by Cade Clark Photography in Utah Next Question: Average Wedding Budget? Back to...

In 2017, the average number of people in a wedding party was 10. And only 66% of couples still divide their wedding party by gender! How many people are in your wedding party? Are you over or under...

At last year’s weddings, there was an average of 126 guests in attendance. How many guests are you inviting to your wedding? Is it over or under 126 guests? Photo by Cory Ryan Photography in TX Next...