Faux Pas or Nah: Texting the bride or groom on the wedding day?

I think it depends on what you’re texting them about. A nice “have an amazing day” is sweet but I don’t think you should send them any texts with questions or things that you expect them to respond to!

Please don't text me on my wedding day.

Agree with Gen! As long as whatever you're texting doesn't require a response.

Unless you're intimately involved in the planning and execution, leave the bride/groom alone.

Faux Pas

Faux Pa unless it really is urgent. Don't blow up there phone though and if there is someone else you can contact do that instead.

Faux pas, unless you're FH, my parents, my FILs, a bridesmaid, or a groomsman! Text someone else if you need a response or text me the next day if it's just a sweet message.

Send me a sweet message, sure. Don't bother me with questions.

Huge faux pas. I got texts from people on my wedding day and it was really annoying.

I don’t even plan to have my phone with me on my wedding day. No thank you.

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Same.

Lucky for me, no one bothered me. If someone had asked any questions that could have been found on their invite, they would have been ignored.

It'd depend on the bride. For me, I wouldn't be bothered by general texts on the day; maybe even a few questions from guests. The only texts that would bother me are the ones involving little details that the DOC can handle. That is why I hired one, after all.

Text all you want...I won't be answering! I personally would never text the bride unless I was a bridesmaid and I was asking her what kind of coffee & pastry she wants.

I think it depends. I don’t see the big deal with a friend or family member texting me the day off.

I wouldn't think it's a faux pas. But if you expect a reply in a timely manner, that's a bit stupid.

Definitely situational. If you're texting for directions (i. e. Meredith from "The Office") that is a huge problem. However, if you are texting them a sweet little note about the special day and don't expect a response, I think that's definitely acceptable!

If it's a sweet message then I don't see a problem with it but if it's with questions that can be asked to someone else, then I'd say faux pas.

Faux pas. Unless you're involved in the wedding there is no reason for you to text the bride or groom on their wedding day. And if you must, don't expect them to answer.

Uggghhhh my mother gave my number to some of her friends and they were blowing my phone up the morning of. It was part sweet and part super annoying esp since now these people all have my number

You can send them, however, we won't have our phone on us that day. We will read them the next lol

Sweet messages are okay. If people have other questions/get lost/need help...find somebody else!! I'll probably be passing off my phone to somebody else after getting ready so I wont very bothered too much.